Recently, Guan Xiaotong and "Xiao Lu Han" Neo's new drama officially announced the file, and many netizens who are not optimistic about this pair of CP laughed and said:
Guan Xiaotong has no girlish feeling in the new play.
As a passer-by, I'm really worried about Guan Xiaotong and Lu Han.
It's been three years since 20 17, when she and Lu Han began to have a public affair, so it's hard not to arouse people's various speculations.
Nowadays, it is still inconclusive whether their love affair will repeat the mistake of "exposure to death" of artists' love affair.
But an ordinary love, with such a large area of attention from the whole network, is finally under pressure. After all, they are still young and have a long way to go.
Many people say that Guan Xiaotong's resume from birth to now is simply Mary Su Bensu.
1997, born in Guan Xiaotong with a golden key, has a family background that ordinary people can't match.
Her grandfather Guan is the founder of the famous "Beijing School" art; Father Guan Shaoceng, a contracted actor in Children's Theatre, has appeared in many famous TV series. Mother Li Jun is also an excellent dramatist.
Guan Xiaotong grew up under the careful care of his parents. Because of the strong artistic atmosphere in her family and the strong network background in Beijing, Guan Xiaotong, 4, made her debut as a child star and participated in the filming of the first TV series "The Rise and Fall of the Sea of Smoke".
In 2003, Guan Xiaotong was just 6 years old. In the film Warm starring Guo Xiaodong and Li Anqi, she successfully played the warm daughter of the heroine.
At the age of eight, Guan Xiaotong played Cecilia Cheung as a child in Chen Kaige's film The Promise.
Subsequently, Guan Xiaotong was honored as the "national daughter" by partnering with Sun, Wang and many other actors at the level of film emperor.
In the eyes of many people, Guan Xiaotong has resources that ordinary people can't reach, and it is these resources that make her achieve today's achievements and status in the entertainment circle at the age of 24.
Some netizens took photos of Guan Xiaotong driving a million Mercedes-Benz luxury cars and questioned why she was here, but Guan Xiaotong's father responded domineering:
My daughter earned all the money to buy a car by herself.
As soon as this was said, many people were speechless.
At the age of 24, most young people are still living on the money given by their parents and have not yet stepped out of their comfort zone.
But Guan Xiaotong has been out for 20 years. While filming, he also completed his college entrance examination and college studies. Today's achievements cannot be achieved by resources alone.
Of course, in addition to her own efforts, there are also the sacrifices of her mother.
As an actress, Guan Xiaotong's mother used to be very keen on acting and dancing, but since she was pregnant and gave birth to a child, her mother has devoted all her energy to her daughter.
When Guan Xiaotong was very young, she joined the film crew, accompanied by her mother. Not only help her choose the right script, teach her how to perform, but also take care of her diet and daily life 24 hours a day. In addition, her mother doesn't want her daughter to neglect her studies because of filming. In her spare time, she personally tutored Guan Xiaotong's book course.
Guan Xiaotong is lucky to have such a versatile mother; Guan Xiaotong also repaid his parents' efforts with his own practical actions.
My mother found out that she was pregnant while filming a film directed by Zhang Yimou. She resolutely quit the cast for the sake of the children.
Now, Guan Xiaotong has fulfilled Zhang's movie dream for his mother and participated in the filming of the film Shadow directed by Zhang Yimou.
In Guan Xiaotong's family, the relationship between parents and children is a mutual achievement. Fish helps water, and water helps fish. It is actually the joint efforts and unremitting efforts of their two generations that make the children we see today look bright.
In 20 16, the national college entrance examination was released, and Guan Xiaotong was successfully admitted to the Beijing Film Academy with a score of 300 points higher than the undergraduate line of art examination.
She started her business all the way, and since then she has become the envy of many people.
At the beginning of his debut, Brigitte Lin once said in an interview:
When I was a child, I felt ugly and felt inferior because of ugliness.
Because I am a crying child, and in my family, whether a child has a strong personality is the standard of beauty and ugliness, so I always feel ugly.
If a person is not praised and recognized by his family in childhood, it is easy to form an inferiority complex, which shows how much family background affects his future personality.
A complete and loving family plays a vital role in the formation of children's healthy personality in the future. Guan Xiaotong is a good example.
Some people say that Guan Xiaotong has a "honey confidence", which is true.
She never hides her confidence too much, because she can feel that she is deeply loved by her parents.
Her self-confidence comes from her heart and doesn't need any encouragement from outside. She thinks this is the most perfect, because in the eyes of her parents, she is unique and the best in the world.
If you want to ask Guan Xiaotong why she is so confident, let's talk about her father.
In a video, Guan Xiaotong and her father are sitting on the sofa together. Guan Xiaotong, a teenager, still holds her father's head affectionately, playing with his father's hair from time to time, showing the naughty girl in comfort.
And such a scene, in Guan Xiaotong's home is commonplace, Guan mother reluctantly said:
That's how dad indulges this daughter without restraint.
How many families can do this kind of father-daughter relationship?
In ordinary people's families, most of them are in these two situations.
Either the father who is too patriarchal and male chauvinistic habitually holds his male authority every day and keeps his distance from his children;
Or a shopkeeper-style father, who can't see his father's shadow except when the family is short of money.
Obviously, under these two patterns of father-daughter relationship, it is difficult to cultivate a confident daughter like Guan Xiaotong.
Guan Xiaotong's self-confidence is not only reflected in her manners, but also in her living habits and ways of thinking.
She loves to look in the mirror and thinks she is the most beautiful and more beautiful.
She thinks that she only needs to exercise more, be a little thinner, have no other shortcomings, and be perfect;
She never cares what the outside world thinks of herself. Her liking for herself has become a habit and an instinct.
In this way, Guan Xiaotong grew up to be the best girl nourished and raised by love under the love of her father and the care of her mother.
I have been in the entertainment circle for many years, and people around me are running around for fame and fortune, especially female stars. However, even though Guan Xiaotong is a child star, her face value is still online when she grows up. Coupled with her tall figure, academic self-discipline and hard work, these little by little have become the capital for her to value herself and be more confident.
As for external comments and word of mouth, it is not that important to her. She doesn't need to hide her true self to please the audience at all, because her confidence comes from her heart.
Similarly, because of this self-confidence, it also brought her beautiful love.
Many girls with low self-esteem will instinctively refuse when the boys they like confess to her, and then guess the motives behind each other.
Because of inferiority, girls will be wary of sudden love and can't accept it calmly.
But Guan Xiaotong is different.
At the age of 20, she was still a college student who had not graduated. She received a confession from Lu Han, a popular idol she liked since she was a child. In addition to being shy, she also has many whispers from big girls in Beijing-accept it frankly.
Lu Han is seven years older than Guan Xiaotong and was born in 1990.
The same childhood experience born in Beijing, the same experience of working hard in the entertainment circle, because of the cooperation of a TV series, they had an intersection and then developed into a pair of lovers.
A girl studying in England was harassed by her classmates in high school. She said:
You said let me fall in love with you, because your family is rich.
But I don't like you. Why should I fall in love with you? Do you think I will be short of money?
It is a cruel social reality that there is capital to be a man.
Although he also made his debut as a child star, Lu Han is not only older than Guan Xiaotong, but also returned to China for development after making a group in Korea. This experience naturally made him more mature in the world.
Lu Han, who is mature in mind, can also take the initiative to announce that she has a girlfriend at the peak of her career development. This is not only the simple word "like", but also his belief in the positive influence of this relationship on his future development and transformation.
After the romance was made public, they got along very calmly, rarely in the open contract box, which fully reflected their protection and attention to this romance.
However, judging from the firmness of Lu Han's unafraid domineering public love affair, the vigorous degree of this love affair is unparalleled in the entertainment circle.
Can Guan Xiaotong have the strength of Lu Han's pet and save the Milky Way in his last life?
Of course not.
In addition to her beauty, wisdom and strength, but also because of her confidence, generosity and good family education.
No matter their life background, career height and efforts, two people can be said to be a match made in heaven, learn from each other and advance and retreat together.
Moreover, after falling in love, they jointly established an e-sports club. In their spare time, they got to know each other's family and friends. In terms of hobbies and mutual integration, they all did what mature couples should do.
With their coffee, they don't need to hide their love for their career, let alone hype their love for their own development.
No matter from all aspects, this is a pure love, serious and has the possibility of development.
Because of love, we are open together, even if we break up in the future, it must be because we are not suitable and don't love.
When a person comes into this world, many things are uncontrollable, such as your parents and your origin.
But can all people who have a good life experience and stand at a high starting point become winners in life?
The answer is of course no.
A good family background, combined with hard work, can help a person achieve a truly successful life.
Obviously, 24-year-old Guan Xiaotong is the winner in life among his peers.
She not only has a successful career, but also has a handsome young boyfriend with a successful career. Her life is perfect.
But Guan Xiaotong's life background is beyond the reach of ordinary people and cannot be changed. What can we learn from her?
Only the word "difficult".
It is an unchangeable truth that the harder you work, the luckier you are. As long as you work hard, it's not too late to succeed.
If her mother hadn't always told her not to give up her studies, if she hadn't been admitted to the Beijing Film Academy with the first place, and if she hadn't accumulated many years of filming experience, Guan Xiaotong wouldn't have today's status and won't be favored by Lu Han.
And if two people don't have the same struggle experience and the same language, this relationship won't last long.
In life, every effort and step you make is very important.
Self-confidence is another cornerstone of success in life.
Even after her public affair with Lu Han, all kinds of negative news and black powder were flying all over the sky because of the resistance of female fans. But because she grew up in a loving family atmosphere, her grandparents, parents and relatives all love her very much, and she also clearly knows how to love herself.
Even if she is in a quagmire, even if she encounters all kinds of gossip, she doesn't need to deliberately change anything, let alone cater to anything, because her experience can stand the test, and her ability is there, and you can't change it or surpass it anyway.
There is a saying that "if virtue does not match, there will be disaster."
However, because everything I paid, everything I worked hard for and everything I got was won by myself, I am fearless and can live calmly. Behind this self-confidence, we still speak with strength.
I believe that as long as we continue to walk steadily step by step, the future of Guan Xiaotong will be even better.
Are you optimistic about the relationship between Guan Xiaotong and Lu Han?
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