Our generation of young people can accept the concept of Lunar New Year, but we don't know whether it is good or bad. Some expectant mothers have enough time and energy to take care of the elderly at home. They are strongly willing to take care of the baby and the mother, and resolutely oppose the use of the new moon. In order not to impress the enthusiasm of the elderly, expectant mothers have to make sacrifices. I have seen too many such examples around me. In the end, either the old people are too tired of their health, or the knowledge of parenting and confinement is too outdated, which causes the old people and mothers to be upset, and so is the baby. Few old people have both skills and physical strength. ) The concept that a baby doesn't wake up during the day and at night is really a torture for adults who take care of it. Old people don't sleep well, so it is difficult to feed them when they wake up at night and fall asleep quickly. If the baby is taken care of by the mother at night, the quality of sleep will definitely be affected and the quality of breast milk will be greatly reduced. After the baby eats discounted milk, the time to sleep will be shortened, and the number of times the mother gets up will be reduced. For example, although there are many nutritious things, they are not suitable for pregnant women. Another example is how to achieve nutrition in place without excess and achieve a balance between supply and demand. After all, Yue Yue is a little better than us amateurs. Nutrition is not only related to the recovery of lying-in women, the quality of milk and the healthy growth of babies, but also has a far-reaching impact on the life of Chinese women in the second half of their lives. Everyone wants to do it within one month, with sufficient breast milk and healthy baby. Our bodies are still there, rosy and full of blood. A good Lunar New Year is possible. 2. Communicate with the Lunar New Year in advance. If the Lunar New Year has been booked, it is suggested that it is best to invite the Lunar New Year to visit at home. On the one hand, we can familiarize ourselves with the environment, on the other hand, we can help us check whether the prepared baby products are adequate and suitable, and we will not waste buying the wrong ones. It is ripe to go to the hospital for prenatal examination if you are pregnant in advance. But I never thought about going to the inpatient department next to you. Go to the ward and have a look. It is necessary to get familiar with the environment in advance, which can relieve the tension. You can also communicate with pregnant women, which will be very enlightening. In addition, when you enter the ward, you will find that many things are sent by the hospital, and you don't need to press the bags that have just been prepared online. 4. It should be relatively new to take good care of Yue Yue during confinement. It is said that Yue Yue should take good care of mothers and babies. In fact, Yue Yue, mother and baby are trinity, and any link is very troublesome. Now Yue Yue is more popular, and many families can afford it. Although the price is 100- 150/ day, it still feels a little boring sometimes. Some old people want to spend money. There is no need to quantify Yue Yue's day's work and record how much time it takes to do anything. Yue Yue generally has its own routine, and every child has subtle differences. Sometimes there will be fine-tuning in time and order, and it is impossible to die of dogma. In addition, if the mother-in-law or mother helps us to have a confinement, we will definitely not "squeeze" them when we see them tired at night. Day and night, they will wander around. It's not made of iron. A proper combination of rest and rest can make Yue Yue play. If you don't have a long rest and lack nutrition, Yue Yue's health will be unbearable. If you accidentally have a headache and a fever, the baby and mother will be the last to be delayed. After all, this is the most important and fundamental reason for winning Yue Yue. Others do housework and cook (not monthly meals). Washing dishes or something can only be regarded as an additional service. 5. Parenting knowledge should be supplemented appropriately during labor. Now is the information age, and the knowledge about parenting is overwhelming on the Internet. There are many on the fence, but many are the words of mothers. There is nothing wrong, but every baby is different, and sometimes there is no comparability. Being a parent is like crossing a river with a pony. Only personal experience can tell it clearly. But it is necessary to buy several professional parenting books, and good parenting books are necessary. It is recommended to read before delivery (there is no time to read after delivery, protect your eyes and don't read more books). Only when you have the basic knowledge of parenting can you communicate with Yue Yue. You advocate "you don't need to doubt people, you don't doubt people" and try your best to cooperate with Yue Yue's work. But "believing in books is better than not believing in them", and trusting the Internet is not good either. Of course, it is not good to leave the children entirely to Yue Yue. Parents should also read more books and ask more questions. After all, Yue Yue can only take care of the baby of 1-2 months, and parents can only take care of the baby if they master the skills. Good Yue Yue will read many parenting books to supplement themselves, instead of relying solely on experience, so they are also willing to communicate with their parents. After all, trust goes both ways. 6. Is the price in Yue Yue local or foreign? If possible, please invite local people. This is not biased against the foreign Lunar New Year, but the culture and eating habits are different, so it is better to communicate and run in with the local Lunar New Year. However, among the service teams currently engaged in Yueyue industry in Xiamen, Yueyue, who is generally experienced, has life experience in southern Fujian and Xiamen, even in other places. On the whole, they are competent. The price of Lunar New Year's Eve dinner ranges from 100- 150 yuan/day. If conditions permit, please ask for a higher price. Don't ask the difference between 100 and 150. In fact, many things are the same, and the quality made by different people is different.18.00000000106 Baby, moon meal (some moons don't even seem to be able to cook moon meal), since 100 has been spent, it is better to bite the bullet and buy a better service. (Of course, the premise is that the intermediary you are looking for has better qualifications and can really do a good job in price and products. ) find an inappropriate metaphor, such as buying clothes. Is to buy a cheap 100 yuan? You can wear it several times. The answer is of course the latter. Although the price of 100- 150/ day is very expensive, sometimes we think that without tax deduction, four gold, food and accommodation are all in the maternity ward, which is simply higher than the net salary of our ordinary small white-collar workers. But the hourly wage is not high, excluding 8 hours of sleep and 2 hours of rest (sometimes there must be so much rest time). 14 hour working hours should be ok (or working at night). If it is 150 yuan/month, then every hour is 10.7 1 yuan. If it is 100 yuan/month, then the average hourly wage is 7. 14 yuan, which is not higher than that of hourly workers. In good months, there is no maternal milk. At least the milk powder is saved. Now the milk powder is quite expensive. I'm very pleased. Finally, having children is our third child's business. There is no need to exhaust parents' energy so that they don't have to be poor. Spending money can liberate their father, mother, father-in-law and mother-in-law, and they can enjoy their grandchildren with peace of mind.