In our life, there are many such families, so they also have a unique name, that is, "widowed cultural education", that is, most fathers do not participate in educating their children, and taking care of children and doing housework is the mother's business alone. In fact, dad plays a very important role in children's education. There are many things that dad must do to make children develop better. As the psychologist Gerdi said, "Dad is a unique appearance and has a special energy for educating children."

Dad's participation can make children smarter.

The study found that children whose fathers participated in teaching had higher IQ and better test scores on campus. Because mothers persuade and educate more when raising children, while fathers love to use gamification teaching methods in the process of raising children, so that children are willing to accept it. "Game Power" wrote: Mobile games are a key way for children to communicate. The father carries out cultural education according to the gamification teaching method, which makes the children willing to accept it, which is very in line with the children's nature, stimulates the children's potential and makes them smarter and more sunny.

Dad's participation makes children's interpersonal communication more natural.

Mothers are generally more rational and easily influenced by emotions, especially when they encounter something that is easy to "get angry", and their emotional fluctuations are higher, which will also hurt their children's emotions. And dad is relative and objective, which can adjust emotions well, and also make children's mentality more peaceful and more harmonious when interacting with people.

Dad's participation makes the child's personality traits more perfect.

Teacher Tian Xian, the founder of gifted education, once said: "Because of the difference of fetal gender and thinking mode, the education of father is very different from that of mother. If dad doesn't add it, the education for children is very imperfect. " Father's participation in educating children can not only make children feel the gentle love of their mothers, but also feel the broad love of their fathers. These two different kinds of love can make children have a complete personality, cultivate the level of independence and self-improvement, and make them better integrate into the development of the times. Especially the next thing, with dad's participation, you will get good results.

Exercise with children.

The study found that it is easier for fathers to stimulate their children's sports talent by taking them to exercise. Mothers take their children to exercise, and what they care about is whether the children are knocked or touched. When the child falls, the mother will feel distressed and will immediately pick up the baby to see if there is any injury, which will affect the child's enthusiasm for sports. In the long run, children will develop a cowardly temperament.

Can make children feel more spiritual happiness.

Mother's education for children is more important at the level of food, clothing, housing and transportation, while father can take his baby to feel more spiritual happiness. For example, playing with children, climbing mountains and doing scientific experiments can make children get more spiritual happiness on the premise of increasing their knowledge. Naturally, it doesn't mean that mothers can't take their babies to do these things, or they can't bring such happiness to their children. On the contrary, sometimes, men's thinking mode and their own gas field can bring many different experiences to children and play a different role in promoting their growth.