Tracing back to the source, the problem actually lies with parents.
Children are addicted to mobile phones, neglect their studies, and even commit suicide because they can't play mobile phones, struggling desperately with their parents.
Many people only see the current situation of children's addiction to mobile phones, but they don't delve into the reasons behind them.
"Why is my child addicted to playing mobile phones?" "Why become so extreme?
In the final analysis, the root cause is still on parents.
When children learn to sing, dance and play games with mobile phones, we think that mobile phones can promote their intellectual development.
More often, children are noisy, and a mobile phone instantly makes the world quiet, so we can relax. Therefore, unconsciously, the mobile phone has become the most convenient "electronic nanny" for us to use. I didn't have the energy to coax the child, so I gave the child to my mobile phone for a moment. After a long time, it is natural for children to become addicted to mobile phones.
Other parents have their own cell phone addiction. They usually have no time to spend with their children and communicate with them. Finally, they have time to brush WeChat and watch Tik Tok on their mobile phones. ......
The child complained: "I only see you playing with your mobile phone, and you only play with your mobile phone." You are almost not my father, you are almost the father of mobile phones! " These unaccompanied children have always been hopelessly lonely in their hearts and are often more addictive.
At this time, watching parents play mobile phones all day, children naturally play with them.
Therefore, children's addiction to mobile phones is the result of adults' desire to save trouble and "set an example". Don't wait for mobile phones to replace parents, children will regret it if they only recognize mobile phones and don't recognize their parents.
After children are addicted to mobile phones, the practice of prohibiting children from playing mobile phones is only a temporary solution, but children will pay more attention to how to play mobile phones.
What should I do to "treat the symptoms and cure the root cause", help my child get rid of mobile phone addiction, and let TA take the initiative to put down the mobile phone?
Parents should set a good example.
Parents should set an example if they don't want their children to play with mobile phones. After coming home from work, everyone should spend more time with their children. As long as the children are around, it is best not to play with mobile phones.
During the period when children are forbidden to play mobile phones, please insist on it with your children! If you don't want your child to be addicted to games, do it yourself first, and don't be addicted to mobile phones.
2. Don't play with your mobile phone when you are with your children.
When parents accompany their children, whether they are accompanying homework or playing, they can mute their mobile phones in advance, and don't let them be exposed to the children, not because they ignore them, so as to ensure that their parents' companionship is undivided. Then, what is conveyed to children is also positive feedback, rather than that children will no longer need their parents' company if they have a mobile phone in the future!
Don't use the mobile phone when the child loses his temper.
Children are a species with changeable emotions. Sometimes when no one bothers him, he sulks or annoys you alone. Parents feel bored and don't listen. At this time, they took out a magic weapon-mobile phone. Most children's mobile phone addiction is infected in this way.
Therefore, parents should stick to their own principles, no matter how angry their children are, don't play mobile phones for their children in a quick way, and don't develop the bad habit of children relying on mobile phones.
4. Don't use the mobile phone as a bargaining chip to reward children.
Many parents like to use their mobile phones as chips when their children are naughty or rebellious. When children are disobedient when they don't eat, let them play with their mobile phones in exchange for obedience. If children can get such a' reward' every time they rebel, then they will naturally rely on mobile phones.
5. Let children participate in outdoor activities and group activities.
Parents can take their children outdoors or for group activities. Once they are busy, their dependence on mobile phones will decrease. At the same time, you can also make friends, broaden your horizons and strive for a job.
6. Make children aware of the dangers of mobile phones.
Don't tell me that children may never think that playing mobile phones is harmful, such as reducing their eyesight, affecting their studies, reducing their friends, gaining weight and so on. At the same time, everyone should help children to enhance their self-control ability.
For children to play mobile phones, in addition to some methods, the key is to start from the roots.
The most fundamental thing is to let children establish their judgment and let them realize the harm that playing for a long time has done to themselves. If you simply kill his interest, I'm afraid it will be counterproductive.
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