At what age, losing your mother is the most painful. It is human nature that everyone has different feelings for family. For the same thing, different people have different feelings and different acceptance abilities. So at what age, losing your mother is the most painful?
At what age is it most painful to lose your mother? 1 Losing your mother "Put aside the heavy pain and face a bright tomorrow with a smile."
Walking in the street, I saw a dozen middle-aged and elderly aunts dancing in the square dance. They are dressed in gorgeous costumes, lined up in neat formation, showing their beautiful dance, and their faces are always smiling.
On the edge of the dance team, stood an old woman with silver hair. She straightened her back and held a pile of pink leaflets in her hand. Seeing me coming towards her, she smiled and asked me, "Is there only my mother around?"
"The lost mother?" I have never heard of this name.
She handed me a leaflet. Turn to talk to others.
It was not until I read the leaflet that I understood that "a mother who lost her only child" refers to a mother who lost her only child. I don't know who gave these women such names. It sounds a little sad. But judging from these dancers, I don't feel any misfortune at all.
The leaflet said that their "Mothers Who Lost Independence" choir was founded in May 20 14 and now has more than 20 members. If you have a "lost mother" around you, please bring her into this happy dance team, where there are songs and dances, healthy and happy. There is also a square QR code at the end of the article. Scan the code to enter the "Lost Mother" dance team. Technology is everywhere.
This dance team is also introduced.
The establishment of the dance team originated from Yang, the president of a caring volunteer service organization. She was heartbroken after losing her only child. After that terrible time, she met many mothers in the same situation as her, so that she could feel the pain of these mothers. She sees it in her eyes and hurts in her heart. Therefore, with the care and support of community and street leaders, Yang Chengli established this "motherless" dance team composed of mothers who lost their only child.
The "Lost Mothers" dance team organized these middle-aged and elderly women from "special family planning" to become a big family, singing and dancing together, carrying out collective cultural and sports activities and public welfare activities that love each other.
The members of the dance team come from all over the city and are all retirees from various units. The oldest is nearly 70 years old and the youngest is over 50 years old. They have all been sad and lost because of the loss of their only child. The pain of losing their loved ones often appears in their minds, bringing them sadness and pain. Now, after joining the dance team, they stand up strongly, support and encourage each other. They put aside their heavy pain and hung up their smiles again.
"It is a very caring and positive thing to form a dance team, sing, dance, entertain and participate in various volunteer activities." Yang said, but the dance team didn't go well at first, because most of these "mothers who lost their independence" didn't have dance skills, and some of them didn't have a high education level and had a poor understanding of the operation. So, Yang invited a professional dance teacher to teach them to learn dance. From the beginning of yangko dance, one action after another, bit by bit, step by step, everyone knew nothing from the beginning, and now they can perform snare drum, garland dance, fitness dance, square dance, folk dance and other dances.
At what age is it most painful to lose your mother? My mother died, and now it's three months. What should I do if I can't get over the pain of losing my loved ones?
I was born in 1990. I am not ugly, neither tall nor short, but I am cheerful. In addition, I like singing and writing, so it is very attractive for girls to get along well with the people around them in Xiaotian's own land and have a good time.
However, all this came to an abrupt end on 20 14. When I was working in Guangdong, I received a phone call from my aunt in Hunan, saying that my mother had a cerebral infarction and was being rescued in the county hospital. At that time, I really felt that the sky was falling, and the whole brain couldn't believe this fact.
Stubborn, I resigned from the company and went back to my hometown to take care of my mother, hoping that she would recover soon. However, the moment I saw her, I was shocked. She lost a lot of weight in the past, and the cerebral infarction belt turned her into paraplegia. She couldn't speak clearly and needed help when walking a few steps.
Young, I thought I could change all this by my own efforts. I never cook. I learned to cook that year and brought it to my mother every day. However, the terminally ill mother's personality has also changed. My gentle mother became irritable and criticized me in front of all my relatives and friends who came to visit me. Finally, an outbreak broke out between mother and son. We all use the most vicious language in the world to insult each other and belittle each other, but in the end we all hug each other and cry. That year, I took care of her from summer to winter, and these years have become our most precious memories.
After the New Year, I came to 20 15. My kind mother thinks I can't delay my life. She encouraged me to work hard in big cities and pursue my own happiness. However, leaving home this time always feels different from before. I always feel uneasy about her when I work outside, and I have made many low-level mistakes at work. The original performance was very good, and suddenly it became a drag on the company. This may also be the beginning of my personality change! Then I made another decision that I will regret for the rest of my life. ...
April 20 15, because I missed my mother so much, I resigned behind my family's back and took the train home. I think I can change my mother's condition by myself, naively thinking that I can make her as healthy as before. I also think my behavior is particularly cool, and I want to go home and surprise her, but my mother lost her temper when she saw me. She thinks that I don't listen to her and run amok outside, and my anger and anger are even heavier.
I am also angry with those who do bad things with good intentions, and I don't think she understands my filial piety, so we resumed the rhythm of loving and killing each other the year before last. It's just that her condition is getting worse. She used to be able to walk a few steps, but now she has to rely on a wheelchair, and she has begun to incontinence. Our whole family began to panic and had to send her to the hospital to save her life. Dad also had to stop working and accompany her wholeheartedly. ...
August 20 15, I went out to work again. I'm still gagged every day in the company. I don't have any ideal or desire to get promoted. Go to work every day and wait for work, and pay at the end of the month. I have no spirit every day ... it is very painful to miss someone and not see anyone. I call my mother every day, and she always tells me that her illness is getting better and better.
In this way, it is winter again, and it is the end of the year in a blink of an eye. Every time my mother answers the phone, she asks me when I will go home for the Spring Festival. She will cry on the phone. So I asked for leave from the company and wanted to find something to go back. Seeing that my performance was getting worse and worse, the company leaders agreed to me half-politely, so I went back at the beginning of the twelfth lunar month that year, ending my wandering life in recent years. ...
Surprisingly, this time we didn't quarrel, and the whole family was buying new year's goods and preparing for a happy New Year. However, on New Year's Eve, she suddenly cried for a day, as if she were burying the seeds of grief. She may have a hunch that this is her last New Year ... In the first month, relatives are discussing how to treat her mother's illness. My uncle and aunt said that they knew experts from the city hospital of traditional Chinese medicine. And everyone is prepared to pay a certain amount of medical expenses, so we discussed sending her to the hospital after the fifteenth day of the first month!
Our family are impatient people, so we sent our mother to the city hospital of traditional Chinese medicine on the twelfth day of the first month. When we arrived at the hospital, we still had a routine registration check, but this time she also found out that there was a tumor in her head, and our hearts became heavier. Every day, she has to take intravenous drip in the hospital for seven or eight hours, go in and out of various therapeutic devices, and be consulted by several doctors. Seeing her terminally ill mother suffering like this, I wish I could suffer for her.
Therefore, high-intensity treatment has not improved much, and the doctor quietly told us to prepare for the worst. Our whole family thinks it will be a long day, and we can't accept this fact ... On the 18th day of the first month, an old man with the same disease died in the hospital, and she was even more afraid, clamoring to leave the hospital, saying that she would die at home and go back to her hometown in the countryside if she didn't want to die in the hospital. We are a small place, that is, people can't enter the village when they die outside, so the old people who want to leave their leaves and return to their hometown in the countryside before they die.
We couldn't beat her, so we had to send her back to her hometown in the countryside on 1 24th. In fact, when she went back, she was in good condition, and she could bask in the sun, watch TV and chat with villagers who had not been around for a long time. I think she can go to the hospital for further treatment and should believe in science, but she is convinced that she will not go back to the hospital because she is superstitious.
On the morning of January 27th, she began to feel something was wrong. She leaned to the left in her wheelchair and began to cry and throw things again. Dad had to let her lean against the wall in case she fell, but she stopped talking and eating at noon and didn't want to eat cooked Chinese medicine. In the afternoon and evening, she closed her eyes, so we had to carry her to bed and lie down. Everyone knows that she is going to die. ...
On the 28th of the first month, she still didn't wake up, just kept panting. The old man who came to visit told me that she would not live for a few days, but I just didn't believe it. I always thought she would wake up again. My sister and I have been calling her, and my father is calling her name, but she didn't respond to us anyway, and our family is about to collapse. That night, my sister and I kept vigil in turn, praying that she would wake up. ...
On the 29th of the first month, at 9: 16, she completely stopped breathing. My dear mother passed away at the age of 62. At that time, I felt that the sky was falling, so I began to cry. I don't want to believe such a cruel fact ... the funeral was held in the countryside, and we took out all our savings of 60 thousand yuan and realized my mother's dream of returning to the capital. In the next few days, I felt like a walking corpse, and all the funeral procedures felt that others were pushing me away. Three days later, looking at my mother lying in the coffin, I touched her cold face. When the mage closed the coffin, I knew our mother and son were doomed in this life. ...
Because my parents got married very late and gave birth to me, they have always kept me as a treasure, but the generation gap between the post-50 s and post-90 s is too big, and I have been working against them. Looking back on the past twenty years, I have been willful and ignorant most of the time. If only I could turn back the clock!
Now, three months later, I still can't get over the grief of my mother's death. On the contrary, I miss her more and more. Sometimes I even miss her during the day and hope to dream about her at night. I hope she can come to my side again and comfort my face with a smile.
At what age is losing your mother the most painful? Thank your mother on Mother's Day.
1, Mom, you have worked hard for my black hair to turn white. Today is your festival, thank you! You have worked hard! I will try my best to repay you-my dearest mother! Happy Mother's Day!
2, the stage of life is like a play, maternal love has never been absent, wonderful performances in front of the stage, behind-the-scenes care and encouragement, constant concern, irreplaceable position, reading all the joys and sorrows of the world, warmth to accompany you to continue. May today's protagonist-mother be beautiful forever!
3. Mother is a mountain, which is the constant reliance of children; Mother is a tree, sheltering children from the wind and rain; Mother is the sea, which contains all the children. Mom! My son has exhausted all his words, and he can't express his respect and gratitude to you! May you live younger and younger!
4, beside my mother, sprinkle another jiao; Thousands of miles away from home, talk more sweet words; Washing dishes and mopping the floor, doing housework is the most practical, speaking from the heart and communicating more is the warmest. On Mother's Day, I wish your mother always young!
5, pregnant in October, painful and happy; Take care of children, tired and happy; Look forward to success and accompany silently; Children get married, fall in love and be happy; For the sake of children as women, pay silently. Mother's Day is here. Good luck to your mother!
6. Take care of yourself all your life, be kind to yourself and others. Remember that happiness is more important than anything else. Only after suffering can you know the value of friendship. It's good to have you in my life. Happy Mother's Day!
7. I am willing to be a stream and take away your troubles; I would like to be a breeze, blowing away your fatigue; I would like to be a white cloud, embellishing your mood; I would like to be a little flower, fragrant your years. Happy and healthy Mother's Day!
8. I used to stick to you, and you hit me and scolded me and ignored me; Now that I leave you, you miss me and care about me. Everything is that you love me, love me and care about me! I want to say: mom, happy holidays, I will often go home to see!
9. Mom: Your tolerance has taught me to forgive. Your kindness has taught me compassion; Your self-esteem has taught me patience; Your strength; Let me know. Let's face it. Mom, I love you!
10, there is a person, no matter where you are, she will silently miss you, worry about you, care about you, bless you, love you, and ask for nothing in return. This person is her mother. May all mothers in the world be happy and healthy on Mother's Day.
1 1, give love wings, come to your side, and bring my deep concern. I can't stay with you every day. I just hope you can be happy, healthy and safe. Mom, you have worked hard. Happy Mother's Day! From now on, children want you to be a happy mother.
12, only mothers are good in the world. No matter whether children are treasures or not, children can't love them enough. Tired is only good for children. Only mothers are good in the world, and maternal love is priceless and difficult to return. Only hard work and filial piety on Mother's Day.
13, please keep a good attitude every day, because you are not alone now, you still have a little life in your belly, and he or she will become the love of your life and you will become a mother. So, I wish you a happy holiday!
14, loving mother's heart is in love, and her son will never move. Motherly love is the most intimate, showing warmth everywhere. The bright moon shines in the sky, unforgettable guardian shadow. Growing up bumpy, infiltrating teaching sound. Never want to come back again, silently protect my calf. Mother's Day is coming, I wish my mother good health and always smile!
15, when you are sad, you are comforting; When you are depressed, you are full of hope; When you are weak, you are strength; No matter how things change, things are changing; Even if time flies, I will always be your child. Happy Mother's Day!
16, mother, you gave me life and I became your eternal concern. I wish your mother peace and happiness every day when I can't accompany you.
17, an ancient legend, because angels can't always be around every little angel, she becomes a mother. Mother is as great and holy as an angel, and selflessly dedicated her life to the children. Mother's Day is coming. Happy holidays to all mothers in the world. May the little angel become the pride of her mother when she grows up.
18, it's not just the White Temple that can enjoy holiday blessings; Not only children and grandchildren can feel the warmth of the festival. Today is Mother's Day. Bless you in advance. May your future mother road be full of happiness!
19, when you succeed, everyone will hug you and praise you; When you are frustrated, only your mother comforts you and encourages you. I wish all mothers in the world happiness forever and Happy Mother's Day.
20, the head can be broken and the blood can flow, and the integrity of the person cannot be lost; Love can be abandoned and hurt, and mother's upbringing can't be forgotten. Today, I carefully collected all the best wishes in the world and gave them to the greatest mother. I wish mom a happy holiday and good health!
2 1, a few years ago, your crying made your mother suffer from it; How many years later, your sweet words are considerate to your mother; More sincere words and practical things will make mom the most beautiful forever! Happy mother's day.
22. In the dream, your smile is still so kind; In my ear, your nagging still warms my heart. Mom, may your son's blessing, with the warm wind of spring, quietly drift into your dream and keep you warm forever!
Mom, you are very concerned about me in my study and life, and encourage me to have confidence in myself. I want to wish you a happy holiday, good health, always smiling, smooth work and a good mood every day.
24. Line, the line drawn in your palm, outlines your beautiful face; Day by day, inch by inch. I think the rotation of seasons is just to record that day, that year, and that moment of maternal love is like reeling a cocoon. Happy Mother's Day!
25. The carnation in May is not as elegant as peony, nor as fragrant as lotus, but quietly exudes a refreshing fragrance, just like the love of mother.
26, the sky is vast, not as broad as the mother's love; Sunshine is warm, without the warmth of mother's true feelings; Flowers are bright, not as bright as mom's smile; Rainbow is bright, not as bright as mom's happiness. Happy mother!
27. Happiness At this time, I look forward to the birth of a child. He or she is the most precious gift from God. I believe you are ready to be a mother. Mother's Day is coming. I wish you a happy holiday!
28. Mother's Day, love children, carnations, a girl without sadness! I bless my dear mother with a lifetime of gratitude: life is getting healthier and happier! The mentality is getting younger and more beautiful! The days are getting warmer and happier! Happy Mother's Day!
29, Mother's Day, holding a bouquet of carnations to send you the fragrance of happiness, carrying a wisp of breeze to send you the information of happiness, folding a paper crane to send you the blessing of peace, saying thank you to send you sincere gratitude, mom, I wish you a happy holiday!
30. Mom, today is Mother's Day. I will pour you a cup of hot tea to express my heart. I wish you all the best and stay young forever! You see, the sun is so warm and bright today, even the sun father-in-law is telling you!
3 1, Mom, I thank you for giving me life. You taught me the truth of being a man. No matter what happens in the future, I will always love you! In this festival that belongs to you, I wish you a happy holiday and happiness forever!
32, take a few happy trees, take a few pieces of good luck, a little peace, and cook a happy meal for you; Use a few ounces of pleasure, choose a few dollars of luck, hook a little health, and brew a happy wine for you. Happy Mother's Day!
Your care is meticulous, your exhortation never stops, your eyes follow all the way, and your figure will remain in my heart forever. Dear mom, I sincerely wish you a long and healthy life, stay young forever, and have a happy Mother's Day!
Perhaps, in our life, many people and things will be forgotten when they turn away, but in our hearts, we will never forget our mother, and our deep love for her will never decrease because of the passage of time. Happy Mother's Day!
35, you don't have the sweetness of lily, but it makes people feel excited; You don't have the smiling face of peony flowers, but you are dazzling; You hold up the warm blue sky for me with the emotion of life. I am willing to put the love of my life by your side. Happy Mother's Day!
36. You are like a spring breeze, awakening my sleeping wasteland. You are like the dew in summer, nourishing my thirsty heart. You are like a clear spring in autumn, washing the village where I grew up. Wish: Happy Mother's Day!
37, the sky is vast, not as broad as the mother's love; Sunshine is warm, without the warmth of mother's true feelings; Flowers are bright, not as bright as mom's smile; Rainbow is bright, not as bright as mom's happiness. Mother's Day is coming. I wish your mother a happy holiday and every day!
38. Life is like a journey, and we will bid farewell to many traveling companions. But there is one person whose eyes always follow our steps. On the occasion of Mother's Day, I put a lot of gratitude in one sentence: Happy Mother's Day!
39. When I am wandering on the dark road of life! You are the star on the horizon! When I was caught in a storm in the wild! You are the little tent. When my heart is cold! You are warm chicken soup! Happy Mother's Day!
40. Legend: Because an angel can't always be around every child, she becomes a mother. Motherly love is as sacred and great as an angel. On the occasion of Mother's Day, Happy Mother's Day, Mom!
4 1, SMS to send surprises, big task to send. Today is Mother's Day. Be good to your mother, and her kindness will be spilled on you. I wish my mother happiness.
42. Women always judge the depth of a man's love by the length of time he pursues. In fact, the object that is too difficult to chase has inspired men's ambition to win, and finally found that men's enthusiasm came to an abrupt end at the moment of "winning"! Love is not a tug-of-war of endurance. If you wait too long to get it, you don't want it.
43. Children walk on Wan Li Road, while mothers follow! Children are happy and care about their mother's heart! But how much love has an inch of grass, and I got three spring rays! Motherly love is the most selfless, and mother's kindness is deep! Mother's Day is coming. I don't appreciate your kindness. To carnations. I wish my mother happiness, health and happiness!
44. No festival makes me think a lot. Only mother's day misses my beloved mother. No text messages make it so difficult for me to express myself. Only Mother's Day can express my love for my mother! Bless all mothers peace!
45. Mice like rice. Baby loves mommy: I love you, and baby loves mommy. The baby will love you no matter which day. I wish you a happy life and a happy Mother's Day.
46, drinking water does not forget to dig wells, Yongquan is difficult to repay the mother. Work hard every day for the children and dedicate yourself to the family. I have worked hard for myself, and I only hope that everything will be fine for my children. Mom, you are the most selfless person in the world. Mother's Day is here, I wish you a happy holiday!
47. The great thing is that my mother is ordinary and I am ordinary; Kindness is my mother's naughty, and I am; Mom paid the phone bill, and I sent the text message! Haha, mom is so nice! I love you! Happy Mother's Day!
48. Love mom and call home! Love mom, always go home if you have nothing to do! Love mom, talk to mom! Love mom, don't let mom worry! Love your mother and be more filial to your mother! Mother's day, bless your mother!