Honey, haven't you ever thought of taking the initiative to say hello to people and ask them how they are? Can you understand this as narcissistic entanglement of feeling good about yourself and not being confident? I hope to further develop with others and feel insecure about myself at the same time ~ ~ I think why don't you approach her and talk to her yourself? Will she eat you when chatting? Are you that shy? Good luck, remember to like it when you are satisfied!