Before, I didn't value willpower and self-confidence. I thought that only the protagonist with aura in TV series would show it through performance. In reality, I don't talk about everyone, at least I think it doesn't matter. But two things made me change my mind: First, aerobics, which we also call slimming aerobics, is very famous in Duoyan Zheng, North Korea. Of course, my initial idea was to lose weight, so I started to do it. However, I found a very interesting phenomenon in the process of doing it. For example, Duoyan Zheng's "Little Red Riding Hood" aerobics, its overall design is from weak to strong. If the first half is easy for you, then the second half will definitely make you feel very tired, at least for those who didn't exercise much before. Of course, the whole aerobics should be done continuously for more than five days, so that the thighs can gradually adapt, but at the end of each time, it is not physical strength but willpower. Sometimes I can finish it easily, but sometimes at the end, it's like running the 800-meter finish line, and it really takes some willpower. Only then did I really feel the role of willpower. People with strong willpower can really stick to the end. And the potential of self will be developed bit by bit with the persistence of willpower.
The second is singing. Everyone can sing. Of course, singing is one of my great hobbies. Every night when I have nothing to do, I will sing a few songs with software. My voice is low, so it may be difficult for me to sing high notes. Later, it was found that high notes need to be sung with the abdomen. I gradually changed my breathing style and learned to breathe with my abdomen. Later, I can sing higher notes. However, I still found an interesting phenomenon, that is, I really need a little confidence when I often play high notes. I call it confidence. If you don't have enough confidence when singing high notes, you can't sing it out or break it. When you feel confident, you can really sing it magically. This is self-confidence.
Of course, this is only my experience, a small experience, but it is enough to prove that the importance of willpower and self-confidence is not groundless. Although people's potential is infinite and there are so many things that can be developed and utilized, many people have hardly developed any potential, largely because of their lack of self-confidence in willpower. You know, success needs a little accumulation and an instant outbreak. In addition to relying on consciousness, we must persist in accumulating by willpower and then explode in an instant with confidence. This is the role of willpower and self-confidence.
A person can have nothing, but he must have willpower and self-confidence, because this is a necessary condition for success. When he is in the same environment and under the same external conditions, people with strong willpower and self-confidence often win, and it is between the accumulation of bits and pieces and the instantaneous outbreak. Sometimes we tend to pay too much attention to the external conditions of others, such as good looks, prominent family background and accessible contacts, so we will limit ourselves to unsuccessful or even mediocre people from the beginning. We always find various reasons for successful people, such as he is a genius, he was born like this, he doesn't need much effort, he has a lot of money, even if he loses, he can start over ... and then we compare it with these external conditions that we don't have, and then draw a conclusion. Have we really lost to these external conditions? Maybe, but mostly because we have lost our fighting spirit and self-confidence, we have lost before we started.
The civilization of this world is mainly created by human beings. Human labor can create many things. Of course, people's willpower and confidence can also make people do seemingly impossible things. Behind every success is the sweat of willpower and self-confidence. I believe you can do it, too. The accumulation of small things will become big things. Start with small things, exercise your willpower and spirit, and constantly change yourself. You will find that everything is so simple, but it is not easy like here. I've always been deeply impressed by Liu Yuanyuan's speech "It's hard to have a child in a cold door" in Super Speaker. I also believe in the voices of many people in her speech. It may be that we are born with ordinary families and ordinary parents. We may not have a good appearance, but we can still work hard. We can learn knowledge, improve our cognition, make up and lose weight, which we can all get through hard work, maybe on the road.