In the emotional world, every move between husband and wife can reveal their attitude towards marriage. Similarly, the walking posture between couples also hides the quality of marriage.
- 1 -
My colleague Meng Xiao, who has been married for ten years, has long passed the passionate period, but she often shows her love in her circle of friends and shows off her husband's thoughtfulness. When I opened her circle of friends, I was greeted by a limited bag of 10,000 yuan and cosmetics in a high-end counter. The words on it were:
Someone bought me roses. Thank you, dear.
I am one year older. Thanks for my husband's birthday cake. I'm going to gain weight again.
I want XXX skin care products most, and that fool really bought them for me. What a surprise!
……
There is a calm sense of happiness between her lines, which has aroused the envy of colleagues around her. But my husband rarely shows his face in the circle of friends.
But it was not until the last vacation with her husband and wife that I found that her marriage was not as beautiful as we thought.
We couples go to the roadside to eat snacks together. Couples or couples in the same industry stand together, pulling and supporting each other all the way. When crossing the road, most men will carefully protect the woman next to them, holding her hand or hugging her waist.
Meng Xiao and her husband are far apart, and there is basically no communication. Just as I was crossing the street, I saw her husband coldly walking in front, throwing Meng Xiao far away. A car flew over Meng Xiao and almost hit Meng Xiao. Fortunately, passers-by pushed her away. And her husband has passed the red light district and disappeared.
Sometimes, a person's behavior can't lie. When you are immersed in a sweet feeling, your eyes are smiling. When you still love each other, you will hold each other's hands tightly at the moment you cross the road, and you can't help hugging each other's waist when you walk on the roadside, because you care about each other.
Walking on the road, you will be nervous about the people around you, and when you are careful; When your walking posture is one-handed liberation and one-handed tightening; Your marriage will be full of happiness.
- 2 -
In in the name of people, which was a hit a few days ago, Gao He's wife, Mr. Wu, had already lost her feelings, but for the sake of a high future, she played an exemplary role in love in the eyes of outsiders.
But whenever they are alone, they begin to show their true feelings, "taking customers as their respect." When getting ready for bed at night, there is a scene: two people are standing on the stairs, one to the left and the other to the right. Teacher Wu numbly said "good night" and coldly said "see you tomorrow." The two parted ways and went into their rooms.
Although the posture of walking can't judge a person's marriage, in the emotional world, one posture and one action can tell the degree of your love. The depth of love also determines the appearance of marriage.
Just like lovers in love, even if they are not in harmony, men will chase her. Don't be angry with each other.
Carefully reach out and protect her behind her. From the back, the man's posture must be a bit funny and unsightly, but such love is sincere enough to make people cry. At this time, even if a woman is angry again and sees this man's caring appearance, she will silently hug this man's waist and compromise in love.
The famous writer Liao Yimei said: "In our life, it is not uncommon to meet love and sex, but it is rare to meet understanding." You can see the degree of understanding between husband and wife from the way you walk.
I have seen lovers in the street. The woman holds the man's hand and looks like "this is my man". But I looked at this man's face. He looked spoiled and proud, as if to say: Yes, I am her man.
It can be boldly guessed that a woman's personality must be relatively strong and overbearing, while a man is probably more tolerant and considerate. They have already found a familiar mode of getting along with each other, and even if they face marriage one day, they can adjust their lives to be colorful and leisurely.
Just like Hou Liang and his wife Zhong, one is calm and wise, and the other is cautious as dust. When Pingzhong goes out, she often helps her wife with her bag and separates her from the traffic like a mountain. Zhong also tacitly took her husband's hand and looked at the obedience of the innocent girl.
Marriage is a mirror. Through the walking posture between husband and wife, we can see the love index between husband and wife.
- 3 -
My second aunt is 56 years old this year. After more than 30 years of marriage, she is still as energetic and cheerful as a girl.
Just after dinner in the evening, she called her uncle to dance in the square dance. My second uncle has a bad waist, but he always follows my second aunt to help her with water and bags. My second aunt said angrily like a child, "Old man, you should go quickly, it will start soon." You always hold me back. "
At this time, the second uncle himself will be wronged: "Look at my waist, old woman, and get some for you. Where can I go fast? "
"Well, it's all my fault." With a charming smile, the same aunt pulled her limping second uncle behind her and held his hand tightly. Uncle secretary didn't resist. He held something for his aunt and told her to go forward.
From the back, I can see that their backs are bent, but their walking posture is full of love. At this moment, the inner feelings of marriage have transcended the secular eternity, withstood decades of wind, frost, rain and snow, and love has experienced ups and downs, becoming soft and warm.
What about marriage, not just in the woman's face. It is engraved on the posture of walking.
Every step you take is the ups and downs of your marriage, and every gesture you make is the entanglement and confrontation of love and hate. No matter how good a man says, he can't compare with the little happiness he holds you in his arms, and marriage can't compare with the certainty and trust of holding hands.
Some people say that the best happiness in marriage is to wake up every day to see the breakfast on the table and smell the flowers on the table. Someone will wait for you downstairs and take you to work.
In fact, a truly happy marriage is that every step you take, someone pulls you, hugs you, cares about you, dotes on you, fights with you recklessly, kisses you bored, carries a bag for you to resist fatigue, and protects you at the back in the most dangerous time.
True feelings can't be faked or hidden, and everything is reflected in your words and deeds.