How to strike up a conversation with boys during fitness? Many times, some girls will want WeChat when they meet boys they like when they go out, but rashly chatting up boys will make them very disgusted. Let's share how to talk to boys during fitness. Let's have a look.
How to strike up a conversation with the boys in Fitness 1?
When a girl runs, she must choose a good place. The best place is in the park or school playground. It is really dangerous for girls to run on the road. If there are handsome guys when girls run, you can observe the time and rules of boys' running first, so that you will encounter more times when you run, and it will be natural for girls to talk, so that you can make an appointment to run together in the future.
Strike up a conversation skill two opening remarks
As a matter of fact, a good opening remark has shown that your conversation is half done. At this time, girls can go up and tell boys about the running posture or the shoes worn by boys. What girls want to express at this time is to praise boys, but how can boys not like to hear such words at this time? Another thing to note is that girls must see if boys have headphones at this time.
Chatting skills 3 exchange information
Girls can talk like boys at this time, but it must be harmless. It is not impossible to say such a thing. Covering up can also increase the information exchange between you.
How to strike up a conversation with boys during fitness? What should a girl say when she accosts a boy?
1, active weakness
Well, I know you are a woman at heart, but you must save face for boys. Don't do such hard work as screwing a mineral water bottle yourself. You can pretend to be weak and let the boys help you twist. Generally speaking, boys will help with small things that they can. Or the computer at home is broken, you can also ask boys for help. In short, you should take the initiative to show weakness, reflect the value of boys' existence, and then it will be easy. Thank him for his help and invite him to dinner. There is no need to go into details.
Step 2 compliment each other
As the saying goes, I can't see my fingers. Whether you praise the other person's taste in clothes or the efficiency of his work, as long as it is a compliment. However, it should be noted that bragging about something or a prominent advantage will greatly enhance boys' goodwill towards you. Otherwise, your praise is too popular, and the other person will know that you are not praising yourself and will think that you are a hypocritical person. Sincere praise will be deeply rooted in people's hearts.
Step 3 learn to find a topic
Girls want to talk to boys actively, so there is no topic. Before you strike up a conversation, you'd better think of a few topics, whether it's the latest movie or the most popular game at the moment. In short, according to the type of boy you want to chat up, find some topics that he may be interested in. Boys are not as defensive as girls. Some girls take the initiative to talk to them, and they are also very welcome. Even if they don't like you, they won't say no directly.
How do girls talk to boys?
The first time was forced. My roommate is a bold girl. If she likes someone, she will go ahead and not think so much. My roommate is a Yan Kong. The first time she met the male god, she was ready to attack directly. At that time, we were buying books in the bookstore, and the male god was picking out stationery. My roommate went straight over and pointed at me and asked the man, "My friend thinks you look good. Can you give me your contact information? " Well, she is always good at betraying her friends. I think this method is feasible. Of course, two conditions need to be met. First, boys don't care too much about the confidentiality of their contact information, and second, he has the capital to make a good impression at first sight. Of course, although roommates meet the second point, boys do not meet the first point, so they fail.
The second time was asking for it. At that time, the male god and his friends were walking to the canteen together. When the roommate saw it, he went straight over and greeted the friend of the male god with familiar eyes and said, "Hello, I want his contact information." Then naturally took out his mobile phone. At that time, the friend of the male god was a little confused, but fortunately, he was smarter and immediately reacted and agreed. But the male god has a great deterrent. He just patted his friend on the head, then said sorry to his friend and left. Well, actually, if the boy is not as cold as her male god, I think this method is also good. After all, if there are many people, boys are embarrassed to refuse. Of course, a friend who loves to hiss is also an indispensable condition.
The most suitable excuse for a woman to talk to a boy for the first time.
1, let the boys help.
This is a very common way to strike up a conversation. Girls are weak in front of boys. Girls can ask boys for a bottle of mineral water. In fact, the mineral water bottle is easy to open, but it can make boys feel that he is very attractive. Girls can also find other things for boys to help. Boys must be happy to help you out. Boys generally want to show a strong state in front of girls. Of course, they don't want girls to look down on them, so girls try to ask boys for help, so you will have more opportunities to talk to him.
Step 2 borrow a mobile phone from a boy
If a girl meets a handsome boy or a more attractive boy on the road, she must try her best to catch him, otherwise he may become someone else next moment. Girls can pretend that their mobile phones are forgotten or dead, and then borrow them from boys. At this time, the boy will lend it to the girl, and the girl will call any friend's mobile phone with his phone, and the boy's number will be stored in the friend's mobile phone. Just call your friend when you go back, so that you can naturally get the boy's mobile phone number, which is more convenient to contact.
Super effective WeChat chat-up method
First, ask for directions.
It is neither abrupt nor awkward, especially suitable for introverted boys. You can pretend to be a foreigner. You are new here and want to go somewhere, but you don't know the way. Then, you ask her the way, let her lead the way as much as possible, and talk while walking along the way. If you meet a dinner party, you can invite her to have dinner together, so that your feelings will deepen unintentionally. If she just shows you the way, I suggest that you can thank her for inviting you to dinner and ask for the contact information of the other party.
Second, make a phone call
Mobile phone is an indispensable communication tool in our life. When you meet a girl you like, you can pretend that you have something urgent to go out, forget to bring your mobile phone, ask a friend for help in case of emergency, and then call a familiar friend with her mobile phone, so that you can skillfully get her mobile phone number. You can give her a call when you go back afterwards, thank her again, invite her out for dinner, and slowly develop your feelings. Or you can seek truth from facts, apologize to her and explain your true intentions.
Third, straightforward.
If you are sincere and honest enough, just give up the routine and go straight up and chat up. "Hello, girl, I think your eyes are particularly beautiful. Can we meet? " "Beauty, can we be friends?" Remember, you must smile and behave appropriately, so that she can feel that you are a real, unpretentious and gentlemanly person, so success depends on your contact information. Either way, I suggest you strike up a conversation from the front, be confident and calm, and smile and be polite. In addition, don't make her dislike you through physical contact. Be more patient, don't be disheartened because of one refusal, stick to it several times and don't compromise easily. Of course, you can't pester others and hinder them. It is also important to have a good proper limit.