If you want to chat without pressure and passivity, you must find the same topic to narrow the distance between two people. For example, you can make your songs through childhood, school days, travel, movies and other angles!
For example:
Boy: You are such a lovely girl. There must be a lot of boys chasing you when you are at school!
Girl: Hahahaha, no, everyone is studying hard.
Boy: How nice! I just met him.
Girl: Ha, ha, ha, why do you feel that you are prepared?
Boy: Am I that obvious? hahahaha
Girl: I suddenly found you very funny, hahahaha.
Many times, when we choose a topic, we can consider girls' hobbies. For example, she is a confident girl, so we must step on the thunder directly, but if we touch it generously, we will get a good impression.
In addition, girls can chat with you, which shows that there is room for development and they have more confidence in themselves. After all, girls' desire for love is not lower than that of boys, so as long as you persist and don't let nature take its course, you will win the girl you like sooner or later.
As for why I am so clear, it is because I helped the brothers of 999+ to take off the bill. Because of their beliefs and willingness to throw questions at me, they can learn and grow from each other. So if you can't handle it alone, it's better to leave the problem to me than to struggle alone.
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Second, what topics can be further discussed?
If like-minded is the relationship between you and your friends, then extending to the individual is the senior stone of the relationship.
For example:
If you want to know the girl's information all the time and ask her what she is doing, you might as well infer what the other person is doing through your own narrative, so that the other person will not only think that you are auditing the accounts, but also think that you are interesting and clear-headed.
For example:
Boy: I just saw a flower on the road and saw many girls taking pictures, so I want to share it with you!
Girl: It's really beautiful. I like it very much.
Boy: Send an expression pack+I'm going to the library now. What are you busy with at this time?
Girl: Sometimes I go shopping with my best friend, or rest alone at home.
Don't be blunt when chatting with girls. Using soft modal particles and expression packs can promote girls' desire to chat with you. Because the speech is too official, girls will feel that they need to punch in and chat after a few words, so they should plan ahead.
At the same time, in order to further develop the relationship, we must learn about girls' hobbies and personal information through effective chat. Through bit by bit collection, that person's natural harmony will rise rapidly. At that time, the relationship was naturally ripe and there were many topics.
The reason why many boys don't want to talk to themselves when they meet girls is that your needs are too obvious, or your purpose is too strong, which is easy to be disgusted and bored by girls.
Again, chasing girls depends on thinking and patience, rather than looking at the mood step by step.
If you want to know each other's confidence, we can sell ourselves through our own value first, so that girls can get the same information in return, so that you can establish a more benign development direction. Girls' minds are really easy to understand. The reason why people can't chat is because they don't know how to empathize to understand the core of chat. So brothers don't want to miss the girls they like, and they don't want to take detours. Then click on the small card below, add WeChat and chat with me, which may benefit you a lot.
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Third, how to maintain a long-term chat frequency?
Many people may not know the importance of this link, so they just want to chat and get the results in three days?
Such an idea will not only make your image in the hearts of girls plummet, but also lead to the collapse of your mentality.
It is necessary to know that the establishment of any relationship requires a gradual cycle of time to develop the process. You chase girls by patience, not by buying and selling. I hope she will like you soon.
So in addition to strengthening the study of (1) and (2), we should also consolidate ourselves. For everyone's happiness, I made a list below to let you know what to do and what not to do!
1, the daily chat time only needs to keep a fixed frequency, which gives both parties a certain sense of space and is conducive to creating the beauty of distance.
2. Create freshness, enrich your life and let girls know that you love life, and the content is not monotonous.
3, don't always turn around each other, it is best to sell yourself and get to know each other and chat.
4, appropriate initiative to disconnect chat, can let girls know our value!
5. Keep yourself busy, be yourself, and then share your daily life with girls!
Once you can focus on the above five points, you can not only solve the passive and topic-free situation, but also let you know that the real way to chase girls is to attract them.
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Fourth, how to realize feelings through chatting?
What would you think if a girl talked to you for a long time and just shared it?
But if a girl is chatting with you and constantly involves your emotions, what do you think of this girl?
For example:
Boy: I can see the sunset glow every day. Why can't you see it? (I want to see girls every day)
Boy: If I like you one day, don't be surprised, because it's a long, long-planned two-way trip.
Boy: I dare say that if you have eaten my cooking, you will definitely fall in love with me!
Sometimes we can tease girls calmly and do our own things without thinking about anything after sending them, even if the girls reply to you, we will not pay attention. Trust me, it works!
No matter how much you like your girl, she will definitely think of this relationship in an instant, and then we will continue to share and chat normally and get to know each other through time.
But this time is different. We have slowly opened the door to implant feelings, and girls have begun to notice that we have feelings for her, which can effectively prevent girls from thinking that we are bored and chatting with her.
To sum up, the best way to realize the relationship is to transfer the emotional value to personal feelings and let her understand the meaning of our existence. It will be better to make an appointment again at this time!
In the face of the girl you like, you must submit a satisfactory answer sheet, otherwise you can't grasp it yourself, and you can only watch her being robbed of the opportunity of the catwalk by other boys. You know, someone always loves her, why not yourself? So contact me, I don't know how soon I can taste sweet love, but I can tell you exactly that if there is me, there will be someone in front of you.