Girls are always soft-hearted when they are in love, because it is easy to meet people they like, so they tolerate all kinds of problems. But ask yourself, do you really like this person, or are you afraid of not finding someone better because you are not confident? If your male god waits in the back, will you endure it again?
There will be three results: 1. It hurts, like Qiu Yingying; 2. I can't go on for a while, so I'm done. 3. I will be a setup, and I may have a hard time.
1
Ningning was born in a traditional family, so she didn't have puppy love in school, but she was still alone in college.
After graduating from college, Ningning became a gentle woman with an ordinary appearance and a virtuous appearance, and still had no love experience.
After work, Ningning was pursued by male colleagues in the same unit.
The first time I fell in love, although the other person was not handsome and a little fat, Ningning liked it very much and gave in to the other person.
The man is two years older than Ningning and more independent, so when they disagree, they listen to him.
After being in love for half a year, the man asked to see his parents, and Ningning followed him home.
Climb to the top floor on the sixth floor, and the new house is next to my husband's house, separated by a wall.
She is a little unhappy in her heart, but after all, she hasn't reached that point. She said that she would make people feel that she had too much to do, so she continued to be gentle.
After meeting my parents, I gradually got familiar with them. Sometimes my mother-in-law will ask Ningning to go shopping together.
My mother-in-law is very generous, and she is never soft when she buys things for Ningning. Ningning and her mother-in-law are sisters.
Gradually, Ningning also found that everything in her boyfriend's family was decided by her mother-in-law, and her father-in-law was like an invisible man.
When it comes to marriage, my mother-in-law said that you don't have to pay the bride price, and you don't have to pay for electrical appliances and decoration. You can marry a car.
I would rather not feel well, accept it gladly and comfort myself that money is the same anyway.
During the preparation for the wedding, Ningning found that her life revolved around her mother-in-law, even less than her boyfriend.
Mother-in-law should follow her birthday; Dating, mother-in-law should follow; Take a wedding photo, and the mother-in-law should follow; Pick a wedding ring, and your mother-in-law should follow; When choosing clothes, my mother-in-law should follow; Pick home appliances, mother-in-law should follow; When picking furniture, my mother-in-law should follow; ……
However, since she has reached this point, she can make do with it. At this juncture, she dare not say stop!
According to her mother-in-law's opinion, her husband didn't come to pick up relatives, so Ningning got married and didn't feel happy at all.
On your honeymoon abroad, you should call your mother-in-law every day to report your safety. As soon as I landed at the domestic airport, my mother-in-law's condolence phone was crowded in.
Life after marriage, it is conceivable that Ningning was disturbed by her mother-in-law.
Because I live across the hall, my mother-in-law will come at any time, when you take a shower, when you don't get up, or even when you two cheat. ...
On the first anniversary of marriage, my mother-in-law also came to bless us and have dinner and watch movies together.
At this point, how can she say no? She wants to talk to her husband.
Husband also told her mother-in-law truthfully, hoping that she would not follow her in the future. My mother-in-law flew into a rage and rolled around.
So, keep following, keep pestering.
Mother-in-law also began to demand that Ningning and her husband take her running around, grab a medicine, buy a dish and go shopping, regardless of the details.
Ningning finally couldn't bear it anymore and had a showdown with her husband. It can't go on like this.
Invalid. My husband said frankly, I can't do anything about my mother, and we always do.
Ningning realized that everything was arranged. I bought a new house next door, not because my mother-in-law said it was cheap, but because I couldn't live without my son. I bought home appliances when I got married, and I also bought one for a cabin where no one lives, so that I can move in later.
So the mother-in-law's aggression is far more than that.
Finally, when her mother-in-law began to spend the night at their house, Ningning could no longer make do with it.
What was waiting for Ningning was her husband's slap, and this slap completely awakened Ningning.
What will the previous grievances be for? I just rely on myself to comfort myself again and again, and give myself time to each other. What if it gets better? What if the other person has changed? We are all human beings, how can we not communicate? Wouldn't it be nice to communicate?
Sorry, good girl, there are people in this world who can't communicate.
If you can't change it once you endure it, benign communication is useless, because that's the rule that people have lived for more than 50 years. Can you change it in a few words? Don't feel that you have to sacrifice something to achieve your goal. Just because you sacrifice now doesn't mean you can sacrifice later.
Ningning is leaving, because her mother-in-law said that she would give her children to her mother-in-law in the future, and no one could touch them.
2
Qiu Qiu and her boyfriend are childhood friends.
As soon as the college entrance examination is over, my boyfriend can't wait to take Qiu Qiu home to meet his parents.
After returning home, Qiu Qiu asked her boyfriend, who truthfully said that my mother thinks you are too introverted and my father thinks you are not beautiful enough.
Qiu Qiu has been angry for a long time. The first meeting is not formal. Besides, your son is not handsome. Why should I be like an angel?
Boyfriend coaxed Qiu Qiu for a long time, because it was not worth it. Qiu Qiu so comfort myself.
When I went to my boyfriend's house again, his parents asked his son to come out to eat fruit, but didn't ask her. People didn't pay attention to her after eating watermelon.
But Qiu Qiu, a good girl, thought, I am so kind, smart and lovely, but they just don't know me. It would be nice to have more contact.
Therefore, in the marathon between Qiu Qiu and her boyfriend, Qiu Qiu tried her best to be atmospheric and rational.
Later 15 to 25, other students talked about marriage, but the man was still boring. Even if you are not married, you can talk about engagement.
Boyfriend's mother always intentionally or unintentionally said that it's nothing for boys and girls to fall in love now, and some of them are pregnant and broke up.
Qiu Qiu really understood that people despise themselves. Kindness, intelligence and loveliness are useless. If you don't like them, you just don't like them.
But Qiu Qiu still thinks that love is a matter of two people and has nothing to do with his mother. He loves me and treats me well.
Most importantly, we have been talking about 10 years. What a pity! Where can I get another 15 to 25?
Qiu Qiu will wait. When he is 27 years old, men and mothers can't wait any longer. Let's get married.
Does marriage mean approval? Of course not.
My mother-in-law urged me to have a baby. Qiu Qiu said that I just changed my job and got married. I want to get used to it first. Mother-in-law immediately said, you want it, you can't get it. Look at your little body. Are you sick? Let me show you.
Having children, her mother-in-law is happier than Qiu Qiu, and she lets Qiu Qiu rest at home and be diligent in all aspects. Qiu Qiu thinks she'll make it.
When the child landed, everything was not good or even worse. The feeding posture is wrong, choking the child; Go out for a walk, hungry child; You won't let me hug you, but I hug you in front of you. What can you do with me? I have the key to your house. I can enter if I want, and I can come if I want. Must I say hello to you?
Qiu Qiu is a good girl, and she is timid in front of her mother-in-law. She is just a new mother, but her mother-in-law has been through many battles. But this time, looking at the little life in his arms, Qiu Qiu wanted to be brave for him.
Qiu Qiu just left this month, but she hasn't recovered and her husband is not at home. She asked her mother-in-law to help her buy some food in the market, and her mother-in-law turned against her. Mother-in-law pointed to Qiu Qiu's nose and cursed her, saying that she had put up with her for a long time. She counted every penny spent on Qiu Qiu, saying that Qiu Qiu was far behind her daughter-in-law.
Qiu Qiu didn't make any noise or cry. She smiled and held the child and looked at her mother-in-law until she was too nervous to speak.
Mother-in-law wanted to fly into a rage, but Qiu Qiu was very gentle and refused to accept it. After this incident, Qiu Qiu didn't complain, but told her husband that your mother and I turned against each other, and I didn't make any trouble.
A week later, Qiu Qiu cleaned the double bed in the guest room and turned it into a nursery, saying that he would give the children a room to play.
Mother-in-law naturally didn't want to, so she scolded Qiu Qiu, but Qiu Qiu was gentle and calm.
A month later, Qiu Qiu's security door became pregnant. She changed the key and no longer gave her mother-in-law a spare key.
From then on, Qiu Qiu's family went to her mother-in-law's house to pay their respects and came and went freely.
three
My favorite girl is Jessica Hester Hsuan.
Brave Aries girl, not so gentle, but just as cute.
When my boyfriend pursued me, you were also teasing me. Eating, drinking and watching movies together are sweet but not greasy.
After the romance, Jessica Hester Hsuan wants to go to the gym with her tired boyfriend.
Boyfriend just wants to eat and drink Lazar and stick together, like a child.
When eating and drinking again, her boyfriend dropped Jessica Hester Hsuan's mobile phone to the ground and broke the screen.
Jessica Hester Hsuan is very unhappy. I didn't expect my boyfriend to be more unhappy. In order to apologize to Jessica Hester Hsuan, I threw my mobile phone on the ground.
This is the first time, Jessica Hester Hsuan said to her boyfriend, and this is the last time.
In order to calm down, the boyfriend's next behavior is more radical. Kneel, beat and cry.
Jessica Hester Hsuan will never answer her boyfriend's phone again, no matter how her boyfriend asks her to give her another chance.