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With the development of society, many families now basically have one child, and many young parents are also only children. Considering such young parents, the pressure is still great. In order to reduce the pressure of life, ordinary couples have their own jobs, so who should take care of their parents' children becomes a problem.
Can old people take care of children? In fact, these three types of children brought up by the elderly are not only smart, but also have high emotional intelligence.
1. Old people who like to take their children out to play.
Everyone has this phenomenon. When the weather is fine, we often see a small garden downstairs or a small park outside the community. Many old people take their grandchildren to play and generally have fitness equipment. Many old people take their children to exercise together. Some old people sit on stone benches and bask in the sun. Some old people take their children to chat together.
Old people who like to go out to play will take their grandchildren out to play when they take care of them. At this time, children can meet many children and increase their sports opportunities. In this environment, children will gradually stop being afraid of strangers and communicate with other children by imitating the communication methods of adults.
When children communicate with other children, they can gain friendship and improve their communication skills, and their world will become bigger. This is the beginning for children to know the world. It is better for children to know the outside world through their own abilities than for their fathers. What the mother said is more helpful to the child.
If an elderly person who doesn't like going out to play and rarely communicates with others takes care of the children, the children will take them home as early as the elderly. Their world is as big as a house, with parents, grandparents and so on.
Children cannot communicate with strangers and have no chance to make new friends. Even in the face of strangers or unfamiliar environment, I don't know how to say hello, even timid.
They often stay at home and are afraid of the outside world. Their children may become otaku or otaku when they grow up.
And because of regular exercise, old people who often take their children out to play are less likely to get sick than those who don't exercise. Children taken away by healthy old people are also healthier, because when children often follow the old people out to meet people, they will become smart and have high emotional intelligence when they grow up.
2. Highly educated people
In old age, knowledge may not be so important. It is common for many elderly people to have low academic qualifications. Although the education of the elderly is not high, some elderly people are well educated, and some elderly people have their own family education, which is very strict. Therefore, it is also a good choice for the elderly with high academic qualifications to take care of their children.
As we all know, some people in life are still young, but their backs are bent. Why? It may be genetic factors, personal factors, or human factors, but if such an old man bows his waist with his child in his arms, he will strictly demand to hold his chest and teach his child some ancient poems.
Some old people who know calligraphy will teach their children to write Chinese calligraphy. Old people write with a brush in the garden, and children may imitate it. Old people will teach their children to write calligraphy and cultivate their interests.
If the elderly are well educated, their words and conversations may be more gentle and refined. This kind of old people's life attitude and speech behavior have a great influence on children, and the children taken away are also very generous and civilized.
People with low education are prone to make embarrassing and hurtful voices when raising children or when children are still disobedient. After a long time, children will learn in the same way. When they speak, they sometimes say some unpleasant spells, or when they become incredible, they will say some curses.
So it's best to take children to the elderly with higher education. The children brought by these old people are not only smart, but also have high emotional intelligence.
Third, the principle of the elderly.
Both the principled old and the young are welcomed by everyone. We must have seen it while watching TV. Most children from academic families in TV plays have principles.
In fact, many elderly people are also very principled in their lives. These old people are educated and guided by traditional education, so they can become principled people.
In fact, many families today have children because of one child. Some old people are more prone to coquetry when taking care of their children. As long as the child is happy, any request will be met. However, the children brought by such old people are generally outrageous. As long as you feel happy, you will become selfish.
Old people who have children according to principles are always strict with their children. If the child is crying, such an old man will generally not meet the unreasonable demands of the child at will.
The subtle influence is enormous, and the children brought out by such old people will gradually have their own principles and know what they can and cannot do.
Children will have their own principles and opinions when they grow up. They won't change their ideas and principles because of others. Children brought by such old people will become smarter and have higher emotional intelligence.
It is said that children are most at ease with their children. Although this is a good sentence, in real life, many parents can't take care of their children by themselves. Naturally, it is natural for the elderly to take care of their children. With children, parents can rest assured that these three types of elderly people are no worse than their parents.