Time: July 20 18, July 2 1, 15:00- 18:00.
Personnel: Li, Xiaoying, Molly; A4 Police Tactical Unit: Pepsi; Non-onion personnel: Cythina
Venue: Shili Yintan, Huizhou
Special thanks to this seaside gathering+book club:
? One-night accommodation provided by Sister Xiaoying.
? Captain Qiong Yu's seaside photography responsibility
? White wine and jewelry beauty support of Cythina beauty
Reading club process
? Cythina beauty cosmetics share
The general introduction of this book.
? Share three points or stories
Ask questions and exchange ideas.
Our life is full of all kinds of information, and we are forced to accept another kind of information before we can digest it, resulting in a lot of information being processed unconsciously and no time to think deeply. It makes it easy for us to fall into deception, and this book helps us expose those wrong common sense.
The book reveals several major scams: consumer scams, workplace scams, social scams, and knowledge scams. This time I shared a part of a social scam: "Mastering social secrets will make you a heartthrob."
1, you can be handsome when you mix in the crowd.
Uploading photos and group notes on social networking sites makes you look charming. This is the cheerleading effect. Cheerleaders stand together. At first glance, everyone is beautiful, but it is common to enjoy it alone. This is because when many objects appear in front of us, the visual system can automatically calculate the average value of these information. When several faces are seen, the vision system can automatically calculate the "average face shape", which is very popular.
2. Low-frequency boys are invincible.
Low-frequency boys are particularly attractive to girls, so the secret of success is that boys speak low. Under the influence of hormones, women will unconsciously like low-frequency male voices, and research shows that women in ovulation period especially like low-frequency boys, and men will unconsciously think that female voices in ovulation period are sexy.
3. The fatal attraction of red
Using warm red will make you more attractive. Red has biological significance. Primates have cone-shaped cells that can perceive long waves (red light), so it is easier to detect ripe red fruits, and it can also help primates find some important signals from their peers' "expressions", such as anger and high testosterone concentration that will make them blush, which all represent social status and combat situation. This makes us pay special attention to red. Therefore, the secret of attracting boys' attention and looking particularly charming is to wear red clothes.
Li added: The book shared by Sister Xiaoying is a bit strange. After she finished the first two points, she was spit out by us. After the third point, she was banned by us.
"History of Western Philosophy" and "Western Culture" are two elective courses that I often take in college. Zhao Lin teaches these two courses at Wu Da University. At that time, the lecture hall with more than 300 people occupied seats in advance every night, otherwise there was no place to sit on the steps, and even the podium and the door were crowded with people. After leaving campus for so many years, I still miss his class very much, which has a great influence on me. Because of his class, I have the enlightenment thought of western cultural philosophy and the enlightenment understanding of religion. Those who have thought alone in the long night are existential and self-conscious. After I understand philosophy, I can continue to explore freely.
This book is the handout of his public elective course "History of Western Philosophy" in university. I mainly shared three points:
1. The definition of philosophy
2. Comparison between Chinese and Western Philosophy
In Marxist philosophy, philosophy is defined as a set of theoretical and systematic world outlook and methodology, and an understanding of the general laws of nature, human society and human thinking.
Literally, this definition is correct. But it's too general, and a big and general definition doesn't make any sense. Therefore, even if we know this philosophical definition by heart, we still know nothing about philosophy in our hearts.
Zhao Lin said that philosophy is a kind of skepticism and critical consciousness, which grows and develops in the endless process of self-denial. A continuous exploration of metaphysical questions that never have a clear answer.
In contrast to the differences between Chinese and western philosophy, this book quotes a conclusion of Mr. Miao, a master of western philosophy. Mr Miao believes that the characteristics of China's philosophy and China's culture are "focusing on the world, focusing on achievement, and applying what they have learned", while the characteristics of western philosophy and culture are just the opposite, that is, "focusing on transcendence, focusing on speculation, and learning to know". Western philosophy is addicted to pure speculation and likes to ask the essence behind things. The purpose of learning is to acquire knowledge, which has nothing to do with function.
In sharing, I also initiated a small discussion: Why do you study philosophy?
Li: I have been thinking about the relationship between self-awareness and emotion since I was a child, which has aroused my interest in philosophy.
Pepsi: Think about these three classic philosophical problems. Who am I? Where is the land I come from? where am I going?
Molly: Because philosophy is a discipline that transcends other knowledge.
Sister Xiaoying: Philosophy is not my target field.
Mollie recommended a book about the development of western philosophy, Sophie's World, and I intend to put it on the waiting list.
Starlight does not ask passers-by, and time pays off.
In the dance mirror, all the moving stories at present are not the first time.
The edge is deep and shallow, and the edge is scattered, so it is difficult to climb with the edge.
Parallel world, diversified life, I hope you and I can travel around the world from nine to five. "
Knowing big ice begins with "Be good, touch your head", a story-telling book that records an ordinary but legendary story. This book has also become an opportunity to get to know Da Bing again. Da Bing was originally the host of "Sunshine Express" of Shandong Satellite TV. As a host, he is also the owner of the bar "Big Ice Cabin", as well as a painter, singer and wild writer. Da Bing said that he never used the money as a host to maintain the expenses of the bar. The two worlds are parallel, and he doesn't want to cross. Therefore, in "Big Ice Cabin", he is just the owner of the bar, never taking photos with anyone or signing his name. Someone criticized him on the Internet, saying that his attitude in the bar is extremely poor, but I want to say that while satisfying your own curiosity, please also respect other people's principles.
I wanted to go to the big ice hut when I went to Lijiang before, but I didn't go at last. Maybe the hut full of stories is just in the book. I don't have enough confidence in reality and don't want to break my imagination.
The protagonists in the book can be divided into several types. Ordinary people like you and me, through various efforts, make their lives different. People who suffer misfortune in life but are still optimistic about life; There are people who are suppressed by reality but are still struggling; Whether the world is good for them or not, they are trying to make the world a better place. There are so many beautiful stories, regrets, wonderful stories and disappointment that life should be colorful. Embrace life and feel this colorful life.
Da Bing has profound literary attainments, and his narrative style is particularly humorous. In his words, he has a thorough understanding of life, a sense of humor and a free and easy indifference. Reading his words and stories is a pleasure. While enjoying the fun brought by words, feel the twists and turns of the story. I strongly recommend the big ice series books, each of which is wonderful.
Pepsi tells a touching love story in the novel Sauvignon Blanc.
Seeing this, my heart trembled. I like you only because you are you. Remove all the names, identities, property, all the things outside, even clothes, leaving only the remnants of torture, but such a broken me can make you blush, which makes Jiing feel her real value for the first time when her will is defeated, and she has the hope of living for the first time.
I deeply understand Jiing's feelings. When torture can't make me yield, you use humiliation to make me doubt myself, whether others' respect comes from my own identity and the value of my existence. In Xiao Liu's eyes, he felt his own value for the first time, as a human being.
When I realized this, my inner joy was beyond words. Just like growing up. I was praised by my parents and elders as a good boy since I was a child, and I was praised by others for my good grades. When I grow up step by step, I find that my clever appearance will die, and my excellent grades will not be done once and for all, and I begin to doubt my value. Only by peeling off the cocoon, digging yourself, facing your own process, and truly accepting all your beauty and darkness, will you realize your value, not what you have worked hard for, but a kind heart willing to give everything for your parents and relatives.
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For me, this is a special reading club, and the content shared is displayed by several beautiful women. Before I left, I brought an extra set of clothes and some trinkets. I thought I would take more photos of the seaside, but I didn't expect it to bring some unexpected changes to several beautiful women.
Pepsi beauty
Clothing: highly educated, emotional and intellectual cola is a white-collar worker. I once heard her say that clothes are professional clothes. There are full-time photographers here. I hope you can keep some good memories. When I went out, I asked her if she wanted to try on my retro dress. The styles are too different for coke beauty. Since it is a holiday, consider it a breakthrough challenge. Beige suspenders with off-the-shoulder bubble sleeve lace and a belt at the back are very fairy. The off-the-shoulder careful machine design is both sexy and elegant. Ou Ting retro, a pair of pearl pendant earrings, beige retro bow woven straw hat. Coke beauty has a sweet smile, fair skin and even figure, especially the collarbone strapless skirt looks good. Dressing is to highlight the advantages and weaken the disadvantages. Barefoot on the beach, the waves and the wind gently brushed up the skirt and smiled like a girl like a seed of love.
Eyebrow type: the existing growth direction is that the eyebrows are down, and the whole person is listless. When trimming eyebrows, the eyebrows are tilted upwards. Eyebrows in the five senses are very important. If the eyebrows droop, the eyes will be weak and listless.
Hairstyle: It is designed for working knowledge. Coke's hair is special, easy to fluffy and oily at the same time. On weekdays, the comb is very smooth, giving people the feeling that it is rigid and inflexible, and the international line is a bit high. I suggest cutting it a little, which can balance the proportion of the face and reduce the age. Coke beauty wants to be more intellectual, so let's change it. The shape of the electric coil rod is like a semicircle arc of a 25-degree electric rod. Are elegant, intellectual and not feminine. Choose a small electric coil for rubbing hair as long bangs, and the rest can be tied up and dried.
Moli beauty
An engineering beauty, who likes to exercise and read books after work, has healthy bronzed skin, slightly muscular figure and enviable height, can be regarded as a perfect clothes hanger. She has a warm smile, firm and calm when serious, and a sweet voice. This is the legendary combination of rigidity and softness. She said that in order to come to the seaside, she specially bought a small floral suspender dress, and the upper body effect was well received by everyone. There are fewer reasons for being busy at work, and it is much more inconvenient to wear skirts.
Because of the time, I was in a hurry to go to the seaside, just adding a headdress made of crystal and pearl thread to her hair. The embellishment of a small accessory breaks the indifference and dullness of the black dress with suspenders and softens the facial image.
The sea breeze blows up the hair decorated with crystals and pearls, and stands in the waves and smiles at you, as if to tell you that she is the legendary mermaid in this sea (with long arms and good at swimming).
# Hair and makeup transformation #?
Base makeup: for pore problems.
I gave a suggestion to a beautiful woman. No matter how busy you are at work, you should take good care of your skin. When your skin and muscles are good, it will give you a refreshing and clean impression. My own experience is that refreshing toner should be used in summer, not sticky. You can pat the water several times without increasing the sense of heaviness. Apply a little eye cream properly. In the case of daytime makeup, the lotion can be omitted directly. Apply liquid foundation directly after toner. If you use too much, then apply dry powder of liquid foundation for sun protection, which will be heavy and sticky. I use my own plain cream for beautiful women. The advantages are non-stick powder and uniform decoration. If I press a little dry powder to mend it, my makeup will still be very docile. The only drawback is that the color number is not suitable. This problem is not difficult to solve. If you have oily skin, you should always keep oil-absorbing paper. After a few hours, you will find that the facial makeup oil is used up, and add some dry powder. Keep your makeup clean and symmetrical.
Eyebrow and eye makeup: choose universal earth tones, and create a little smoke with dark brown metal and dark coffee. Beautiful pupil lines make the eyes more vivid, drawn between or under the eyelashes. If it is not painted above the eyelashes, it will make the eyelashes look layered, and the ends of the eyes will be slightly elongated, which will make the eyes more charming. A little parallel at the end of the eye will make the eyes more gentle and peaceful. As for eyeliner, only practice makes perfect. Waterproof and oilproof eyeliner is also a must for girls. Whether the eyebrows are semi-permanent or natural, if you wear a simple set of makeup, please use eyebrow pliers or eyebrow powder to retouch the picture. Be sure to choose the eyebrow shape that suits you. Don't follow the trend to make any eyebrows that are popular at present, and keep your own characteristics while increasing the aesthetic feeling.
Blushing: A ruddy face is synonymous with a person's health. If it's too late to put on eye makeup, it's recommended to sweep a little blush after putting on makeup to make yourself look younger. I believe that no one will hate a girl who seems to be in a particularly good mental state.
Lipstick: Retro red is adopted, which is also the temperament color pursued by many girls, making the sense of humiliation fuller, the facial features more stereoscopic, and the women capable and charming. According to the book shared by the elder sister, red also has the function of attracting the opposite sex. Temperament goddess preferred color.
Hairstyle: it is also the most important thing I often emphasize. Mollie has long hair over her shoulders, quite a lot, which may be the reason why she often swims. In addition, her hair has been dyed and curled, and her hair quality is rough, because it is very troublesome to go to the swimming pool to do hair care several times before. Compared with a healthy and supple hairstyle, it is the first step to pay attention to, and snacks should also be served in the choice of hair salons and products.
This can only be roughly suggested. Personally, I think it is suitable to use deoiling shampoo in summer. In addition to good cleaning, long hair and short hair need to be treated with conditioner and hair mask frequently. If I work hard on conditioner and hair mask, I usually buy two or three instead. Goddess makeup, of course, is indispensable for curly hair. The first one has a lot of partial plastic surgery, and it will curl hair from the top of the head. Modifying the face shape can make the whole image more charming, and it can make me personally feel that one-off styling will not hurt my hair, and the damaged hair phosphate will not change the internal structure. In order to reduce burns, I can also use hair cream before I send it to prevent burns. One of the advantages of self-modeling is that it can be varied, and different styles are different. If I have a chance, I'll show it to you myself. This may be more vivid.
Xiaoman beauty
Because it was getting late at my sister's house, Xiaoman quietly changed into a small white floral dress before going out, which somewhat subverted my impression of her. She is the mother of the two most assertive boys and dolls in the reading club, with short hair. According to my personal understanding, I have seen several skirts and photos of hair at ordinary times, and it is really a neutral skirt. The V-neck white floral dress showed me her feminine side, so I immediately thought of a milky irregular multiple pearl necklace. The single skirt is actually amazing. Personally, I just think accessories just look more feminine and gentle, not monotonous. I look forward to giving her a good makeup and hairstyle next time.
Cythina concluded: We were influenced by the environment and limited by some fixed thinking since childhood, some of which came from the helplessness of life, which made many women ignore their beauty. The most classic sentence in the book: dress up for your future job, not for your present job. In fact, we can also understand that it is better to find your own versatility by dressing for the ideal life you want. Instead of changing yourself, it is better to know yourself again, give yourself some surprises, and bring more beauty to people around you. Life is too short to be beautiful for others, but only for yourself, which is also a wonderful thing. Expect more surprises.
There are still some regrets about this book club. For example, both Wen Ping and Xiao Ying prepared good books, but they didn't have time to attend the reading club and share them. When playing a party+ book club together, you still need to plan and arrange, first set aside the time for the book club, and then make free time.
When traveling with children in the future, it is also a good attempt to hold a parent-child reading meeting as suggested by Captain Qiong Yu.
After editing this article and reading Cythina's comments on American clothes, I think she can consider changing her career direction.