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My friend collects a lot of muscular men. Does he have any psychological problems?
Hello, I'm a mind reader and a psychological counselor.

Your friends, male or female, can basically be summarized into several situations. But I judge here, it is estimated that your friend is a man, and it is understandable if a woman likes a muscular man.

In one case, your friend is more envious of the type of muscular man. Of course, this kind of love or envy may be your guess, or there may be a homosexual plot. But I don't think so. Generally speaking, there is no psychological distortion, and men who have been treated as girls since childhood will not have this situation.

I envy the muscular man because he wants to be such a person. Maybe he has been in poor health, and it is useless to exercise hard. But this mentality has been formed for a long time in my heart. At least he once had someone he knew or someone around him who was an idol. This man has a deep influence on him, mainly because he has good muscles. In the final analysis, it is to imagine that you will become such a muscular man and fight for it. Therefore, it is found that different muscle men will collect, like or prepare to imitate their own muscles or various postures.

In the second case, it may be inner weakness. Muscle man has a strong body and represents a tough life. And your friends may always feel inferior, and everyone will cover up their weaknesses and use other behaviors to change others' views of themselves. For example, people with a strong sense of insecurity will keep telling them something they often do. In fact, these things can't be wrong at all, just have to emphasize. Therefore, it is possible to collect muscle men, which means that they need a strong mentality inside and are adjusting their psychology through this matter.

The above is only for participation, because many factors are not very clear, and the accuracy of the analysis lies in a comprehensive understanding of people's personality, characteristics, habits and childhood growth environment.

If your friend is a woman, watching a muscular man watch plums all day to quench his thirst shows that she is a relatively healthy woman, but she is only partial to men's show (married and unmarried). The picture of muscular man is full of the breath of male hormones, which can awaken women's physiological demands through sensory stimulation, thus stimulating her reproductive instinct. If a single woman, it is very likely that she will take the initiative to enter the marriage stage soon and get along well with boys.

If you are not mistaken, it is indeed "he", then your friend may have some psychological problems that need your concern. Generally speaking, the same sex repels each other. Men definitely don't feel sexy when they look at men's muscles, and they don't take collecting muscle men as a hobby. If he is keen on looking at photos of muscular men, there may be several reasons:

1, he may have homosexual temperament and played the role of "zero" (female tendency). For homosexuals, the physiological characteristics of the opposite sex, such as male bones, muscles and masculinity, can stimulate love and fascinate people. Of course, homosexuals are generally not easy to come out. Out of invisibility, you can observe it through his words and deeds. If his behavior tends to be soft and pays too much attention to his own image, which has surpassed his buddies with men, then you can basically judge this tendency. If you are a man, you should confirm his position and expectation for you.

He may be an inferiority complex and timid person. He was bullied since childhood, unknown in society, gentle and kind. He lacks aggression and conquest, and feels weak and cowardly. But every injury has hurt him, and even school bullying in his childhood may become a shadow that he can't get rid of for life. This kind of person has low self-esteem, but yearns for strength and success, especially hoping to become strong. He collects images of muscular men mainly for psychological compensation. In fact, he projected his expectations on the muscular man, who is another manifestation of his narcissism. Of course, he doesn't like himself, but likes himself with muscles. Similarly, you can get to know him by observing his daily performance. If he is a good man, kind and humble, and often bullied, you should take good care of him and protect him. Maybe one day he may do something extreme.

He may motivate himself by setting goals. For example, he wants to keep fit, but he lacks perseverance. Ge You often falls into paralysis and lets himself drift. So in order to urge himself to keep fit, he collects muscular men's flags. It's like women often look at photos of beautiful women with big hips and breasts in order to become plump. They observe other people's proportions, collocation and clothes, and that's all. If your friend changes his laziness and suddenly wants to exercise, it means that he has recently met some important turning points in his life, so he will be reminded to turn over a new leaf and cheer up. For example, he may fall in love with a girl who is hard to catch up with, he has suffered setbacks in the workplace, or he plans to jump ship and so on.

The above answers are for your reference, and I will answer your psychological confusion regularly every day.

I tell you, there is nothing wrong with your friend's mind, but he has a lazy heart, and he also wants to make his body as big and strong as the muscular man in the film. But his mobility is not strong, and he always excuses himself for not exercising. At this time, you should enlighten him and encourage him to move towards his dreams. Muscle gain was not built in a day. Work hard every day and persist for a period of time, and it will have an effect. From now on, put down your cell phone and start working out. I will teach you the motivation to relax and be happy at home.

Push-ups, do four groups at a time, 20 in each group.

Sit-ups, do three groups at a time, 30 in each group.

Dumbbell squat, do three groups at a time, 20 in each group.

Bend down and lift dumbbells. Do two groups with left and right hands at a time, with fifteen in each group.

Exercise moderately, exercise reasonably, eat some foods rich in protein, have a proper rest, and work and rest regularly. Your friend will realize his dream as soon as possible and become a muscular man. Be sure to encourage him.

It's normal that he doesn't want to admit that he is gay. Please understand. After all, China is anti-state.

I also have a lot of [tears] [tears] [tears]

It is a boy's nature to like healthy meat (muscle).

He has no psychological problems. He likes to collect pictures of muscular men, and generally has the following psychology:

First, muscular man's strong body makes him feel happy, and he likes the image of muscular man.

Second, he idolizes the muscular man, and he wants to be a muscular man in his heart.

Third, he may not be strong himself, and the picture of a muscular man can make him feel a little relieved in his imagination.

He is hungry! But it's none of your business. ...

No beautiful ones, no ugly ones?

Everyone has his own hobbies and lifestyle. You can't judge and guess others with your own preferences. There are many things in this world that you don't like or don't know. You can have many kinds of ideas, but please allow him to exist. Maybe it's a wonderful thing for others.