1, no moral cultivation
Fu Seoul once said: Nowadays, parents' moral quality is uneven, and the only occupation in the world that does not require a certificate is being a parent. Parents without moral cultivation will eventually find it difficult to cultivate excellent children. In this society, parents' literacy is uneven, and many parents don't understand why their baby will become a bear baby that everyone hates, which makes people angry. Such a baby is also raised by parents who have no moral literacy.
2. Overindulge your baby.
In this era, few parents don't love their babies. Everyone holds the baby in their hands and dotes on it, especially the one-child family. And the angry baby bear is also raised by parents who love the baby too much. The bottomless love of parents makes the baby lawless and makes him a bear baby that everyone hates.
3. Never care about the baby.
Some parents attach great importance to their careers. After all, everyone's life pressure is relatively high, and they all want to create good living conditions for their babies. If necessary, the baby will be taken care of by the elderly. However, parents focus on their careers, not their babies. Babies will not feel cared for when they grow up, which will also turn them into a nasty Xiong Haizi.
How to raise a humble and courteous child?
1, get along with children in a gentle way
Whether a child can become polite has something to do with the way people get along with him. When parents usually get along with their children, they always "export dirt" and don't know how to respect others. It is difficult for such parents to raise their children courteously. We can get along with children in a gentle way, pay attention to our words and deeds in the process of getting along with him, and don't say some dirty words and rude behaviors in front of him, so that children can become humble and polite.
2. Guide him to be polite
Most of those pesky Xiong Wa lack manners, which makes people feel that he has no moral cultivation and is not respected. In the process of raising a baby, we must guide him to be polite. At least when you meet acquaintances, you should take the initiative to say hello and know how to put yourself in others' shoes, so that you can become a humble and polite boy.
3. Make him feel more respected.
The formation of baby bear also lies in the process of his growth. We didn't make him feel respected. It is difficult for a baby who doesn't feel respected to respect others. Children's self-esteem also needs our care. Don't underestimate their self-esteem In life, we should make them feel more respected, so that they can become humble and polite.
Most of those angry bear dolls were raised by their parents in an improper way. Raising a baby should pay attention to the above three aspects in order to make him humble and polite.