I once read a very interesting story called Spider and Buddha. In the story, the spider was asked by Buddha four times: "What is the most precious thing in the world?" The spider answered "I can't get it, I have lost it" three times before, but the last answer was "Grasp the happiness of the moment".
? In fact, when I first read this story, I just laughed it off. I think if I can't get it, I shouldn't think about it. If I lose it, I will still miss something. These two things only added to my sadness.
? It turned out that this was not the case. People and things that you can't get will plant a seed in your heart, take root and sprout, and grow into towering trees. What is lost is the deep pit left in the heart after the tree is uprooted.
? On the contrary, it was once easy to get, and gradually I don't care. Zhang Ailing said: "A man will have at least two roses in his life, one is white and the other is red. If a man marries a white rose for a long time, the white one will become a grain of rice on the table, and the red one will become a pearl mole in his heart. But if he wants red, the red one will turn into mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one will shine at the foot of my bed. "
? What is probably not available is always the best. Especially in love. A thing that can be priced and discussed always has room for change. But love is not, and neither is marriage.
? Some people talk about love, thinking about their ex-girlfriend who just broke up and the spare tire man who just left. Some people dare not reach out and touch happiness, for the sake of Bai Yueguang. But ah, you have to be obedient, not all fish will live in the same sea.
? You can't be so greedy. We often enjoy the goodness of others, but we miss our unforgettable memories. Yuan Zhen said, "once the sea is difficult for water, it will always be amber." I once had such a delusion that I felt deeply grieved, and everything I saw had his shadow.
? But I can't force it. If you also have a heartbreaking feeling that you can't help dreaming in the middle of the night, it's better to think about it. If there is, don't let it become a regret. Try the distance. Maybe Na Pianhai in ta is only one step away from you.
? If it is impossible or you can't get it even if you try hard, then think about why. Tell yourself if you don't know, this life is not enough, and there will be better people in the future. After all, not all fish live in the sea.
? I did know that the correct answer was to grasp the present moment, but there was a small voice in my heart that kept refuting, wrong, wrong and lost.
? But I slowly put it down. This is not a month or two, nor a year or two. Time can really erase all traces. I put it down, maybe because I began to love myself. I began to understand that he and I are not a sea, separated by Wan Li, and the road is long and Xiu Yuan is Xi.
? At this time, don't worry about "the mountains and seas you love are separated, and the mountains and seas are uneven." Don't bruise yourself for another fish that swims across your world by chance. Who is worthy of your heart?
? Love yourself, start studying, start fitness and start reading. Laugh loudly with friends and care warmly with family. Become a fish that I never dared to expect before. Maybe you will attract other better fish. At this time, you will have the confidence to tell ta that you are good, but I am not bad.
? But if you can't get it or lose it, you will leave a mark on your heart, deep or shallow. So I hope everyone can get what they want and let go of what they can't get.