1, you don't have to envy what others have. As long as you work hard, you will have it. You don't have to show off what you have, because others are struggling and will have it. More happiness, less trouble. No matter whether you are rich or poor, your status is high or low, and your knowledge is deep or shallow. Laugh every day, sleep when you are tired and laugh when you wake up.
2. Simplicity is a kind of ability and wisdom. Not everyone can have it casually. It respects simplicity, rationality, calmness, restraint, calmness and modesty. It is God's ability to give every life on the earth, but not every life can really grasp it.
3. A person with a peaceful mind can live happily anywhere, holding an excited and optimistic thought, just like living in a palace. There is no need to go through all kinds of hardships to find new things, whether it is clothes or friends.
4. Youth is meeting seven selves. A bright, sad, gorgeous, an adventure, a stubborn, a soft, the last one is growing.
If there is an afterlife, be a bird and fly over eternity without getting lost. There is fiery hope in the east and warm nest beds in the south, which drive the sunset to the west and awaken the fragrance to the north. If there is an afterlife, I hope that every time we meet, it will become eternal.
6. Only by staying happy and satisfied can a person stay away from pain; Only by maintaining youthful vitality can a person forge ahead in the torrent; Only by persisting in learning can we keep pace with the times; A man will never be young unless he keeps making progress.
7. We must not lose confidence in life at any time. We need to be optimistic about all aspects of life. Do something wrong and don't regret it. If you fall, you will get up again. Remember: learn to be strong, learn to be confident, and always be the strong one in life.
8. In the sky of life, there are sunny days and cloudy days. Not every sunny day warms people's hearts, not every dark cloud rains. Since you can't decide the direction of your destiny, live every day well; Since you can't control the changes in the sky, dress up your mind carefully. Please believe: cherish, you can have; Pay, have a return; I have passed, and I have no regrets.
9. Some people say that he became poorer and poorer when he was a child. He is short of 5 cents. He went to 5 yuan in middle school, 5,000 yuan when he got married, 50,000 yuan when he gave birth, and now 5 million yuan. The desire is getting bigger and bigger, but there is only so much happiness forever. Today, the happiness brought by 5 million yuan is almost equivalent to spending 5 cents to buy a popsicle when I was a child. The more things, the more troubles, but the harder it is to find happiness. Happiness is actually an ability, an ability to collect happy moments.
10, no matter where you go, you should learn to support yourself, give yourself more encouragement when you fail, give yourself more warmth when you are lonely, and strive to make your mind easier and your spirit lighter.
1 1. Never say goodbye when you want to continue; Never give up when you can still bear it; When you can't bear to part with someone, never, never say that you don't love him anymore.
12. In recent years, I have been busy bowing my head and moving forward, only thinking about what I can't get, but I don't know what it is. And this idea that I don't know where it came from has gradually become a kind of oppression, which can only be got rid of through constant work. In shock, the gradually stiff heart can only feel pain. Then one morning, I found that my once unforgettable feelings had been completely lost.
13, the Zen master has a disciple who likes to complain. One day, the apprentice bought salt, and the Zen master put a handful of salt in a glass of water for him to drink. Disciple said it tasted bitter. Then the Zen master poured all the remaining salt into the lake, and the disciple tasted it and said it was pure and sweet. The Zen master was very satisfied: the pain of life is salt, and its salinity depends on the container in which it is held.
14, be grateful to those who educate you, because they educate your ignorance; Be grateful to those who love you, because they make you realize the value of love; Be grateful to the person who hurts you, because he has tempered your mind; Be grateful to the person who stumbles you, because he strengthens your legs; Be grateful to the person who cheated you, because he improved your wisdom.
15. At least ten minutes of peace should be squeezed out during the day, so that we can catch our breath and have a gap where the sun can shine in. If you live in a turbulent and noisy life for a long time, you will be at a loss, upset and impetuous.
16. Never regret the path you chose, no matter ten years ago or now. Because the only thing I can do is to go on without hesitation.
17, our fate is determined by our actions, not by our origins. Opportunities will never be equal, but the result may be equal.
18, convincing yourself is the victory of reason; I was moved by myself, which is a sublimation of my soul; Conquering oneself is the success of life.
19, I love you, not because of what you can bring me, but because I love you and am ready to accept everything you bring. True love means that I don't expect you to make me brag in front of others, but I have this guarantee in my heart: even if all the people are not around me, you will still stand by me.
20. People who love your appearance actually only love your appearance. People who love your wealth only love your money. People who love your thoughts actually only love your words and language. People who love your elegance actually only love your figure and movements. People who like your talents actually just respect and worship you ... so only those who love your shortcomings love you to the depths of your soul.
2 1, my mother said that as long as I admit my mistake, I will hold hands again; You said that sometimes admitting mistakes can make us hold hands again. Relatives will always forgive because you are their child; Lovers are always unforgivable because we are all children.
22. Living awake is doomed to face painful regrets, living in chaos, but unable to experience the happiness of memories.
23, men choose women, there is "no bottom line", their love is a leaderboard, different women rank differently, they can fall in love with N at the same time, there is no bottom line at all. But men have an aesthetic bottom line when choosing women. They only like beautiful ones. Women choose men, that is, "there is a lower limit, no bottom line." Women only love the man they love most, so it's hard to be distracted. But once you are in love, there is no bottom line at all, even if the other person is covered with shortcomings, cold and rotten, you will still love.
24. It is better not to know such a thing in the world. Knowing the truth will hurt you. Moreover, once you know the truth, you must take responsibility for it.
25. Give you what life will give you, without waiting or traveling. You must love yourself, life and everything. You are not superman, you will be tired, you will be painful, you will cry, you will be sad, you will be helpless, and you will be powerless. But you have to understand yourself like this. Don't ask too much, let alone compromise easily. Work hard, let thoughts and blood flow faster, and do yourself well in a planned and step-by-step manner. This is the true face of live high.
26. If love hurts the most, it's not that she doesn't love you, nor that you don't love him. It is clearly in love, she can't love you, or you can't love him. Look, but don't hug; Want to, but can't get it; Walking, but not synchronized; Said, but dare not look at each other. Even if you have exhausted your life's strength and overdrawn your luck, you can't keep approaching, and you have to face it day by day.
27. Do you know who you are? Sometimes I feel like a lonely roaring beast, standing on a boulder in the wilderness. The wind engulfs everything, and no one can really hear my roar! I am a little melancholy and cynical, but everyone is like this! I always hide my true self for fear that others will see through it at a glance. If you think I'm strange, don't be surprised. That's not the real me.
28. From today on, be a simple person and be practical. Don't indulge in fantasy. Don't rock the boat. Be happy, cheerful, tenacious, enthusiastic and sincere to people. Sincere, calm, generous, tolerant and normal. Always full of hope for life and smile at difficulties and hardships. Read more, read more, eat less and eat good food. Have a dream, even if it is far away.
29. People who meet for the first time are all strangers to each other. During the conversation, they will be more or less concealed and reserved, and even show a completely opposite side to their own personality. Therefore, it is not the first time to meet and chat happily, which is suitable for deep friendship, nor is it the first time that we can't find the same theme, which is not suitable for further development into friends or lovers.
30. I am very happy to be born in such a family now. Even though I am not the second generation or the second generation, my parents have given me the best life I can. Maybe I can't afford the latest electronic products and so-called luxury goods, but I also have enough money to go out and not sell myself for a coat. Compared with some people who spend their parents' money but look down on others, I would rather try to change my life.
3 1, some people say that parallel lines are the most terrible, but I think the most terrible thing is the intersecting lines-although they have crossed, they will always be far away from each other at some point in the future, and they will go further and further ... The reason why the earth is round is because God wants those who are lost or lost to meet again.
You don't need to bother to please people who hate you. It's embarrassing to explain too much. Let him hate you at will! It's worth pleasing the people you love and the people who love you!
33. Happiness is a feeling. Don't rely on awesome power, don't rely on extraordinary wealth, don't rely on superhuman talents. Relying on is a normal heart: always with a normal heart that laughs at the warmth and coldness of life, there will always be a harmonious and fulfilling joy. Happiness is like wearing shoes, and elasticity is self-evident; Happiness is like drinking water. If happiness is material, then happiness is spiritual. Happiness is to brew the sweet wine of life with the most bitter life.
Happiness is like a button falling under the sofa-you can't find it when you concentrate, and when you forget it, it will roll out on its own.
Believe in love, even if it brings you sorrow. Sometimes love is believed not because it is seen, but because it is believed.
36. Find a wife and find a woman who loves to lose her temper. A woman who never loses her temper is like a cup of boiled water, which quenches her thirst but is tasteless. And a woman who loses her temper is as exciting as white wine and unforgettable. When you were late, she lost her temper with you because she was worried about you. She's afraid something will happen to you. When you drink, she loses her temper with you because she is afraid that no one will take care of you after you get drunk, and that something will happen to you and leave her alone!
37. I am waiting for someone who is willing to come into my life and share my joys and sorrows, someone who knows that I have been waiting endlessly and therefore cherishes me more, someone who may not be able to participate in my yesterday but is willing to walk hand in hand with me through every tomorrow, and someone who knows that I am imperfect but still likes me and even appreciates my imperfections.
38. When you can hold hands, please don't shoulder to shoulder; Please don't hold hands when you can hug. Please don't say goodbye when you can fall in love.
39. Your happiness is shared by too many people, not necessarily lovers. If you are happy, you are good and sad, but not many people can share it with you. You are willing to tell him your sadness, he is the person you want to be close to and cherish most.
40, little fool, not everyone is sincere, so don't believe it so easily; Little fool, not everyone is worth paying, so don't be so stupid to pay; Little fool, you must cry if you are not sad, so don't be so stingy with your smile; Little fool, you are not the only one trying, so don't give up easily. Little fool, remember: be happy!
4 1, when we are in love, we expect each other to love not only my appearance, my achievements, but all these are just a part of me and will disappear with time. We expect him to love my area, where there are my frailty and inferiority, my most helpless and shameful moments, my fears, my dark side, my habits and my dreams.
42. The same eyes have different views; The same ear, listening in different ways; The same idea, different ideas; A person's dusk is still beautiful, but it is very short; A person's sunshine is still bright, but not warm; A person's work, still busy, but very lonely; A person's life is still regular, but there are no surprises; A person's road still has a direction, but it is very long.
43. If you take a person too seriously, it will be easy for the other person not to take you seriously. When you can't bear to refuse all the time, the other party begins to give you the cold shoulder. Gradually, we learned to say "no". Refuse, not because of meanness, but to prove that we can also have the ability to let go.
44. Maybe love is just because of loneliness, and you need to find someone to love. Even if there is no ending, your persistent fantasy always hurts you again and again and gradually becomes selfish. Many people don't need to meet again, because they are just passing by. Forgetting is the best memory we can give each other. How much time can a person give to another person in his life? Love may only be a moment, but this love also makes people remember for a lifetime.
45. Life is beautiful only when it comes out, and it is not brilliant when it comes out; Life has no beginning once and for all, and there is no irreversible end. Even if everything is lost, there is no reason to despair as long as there is breath. We may not be able to change the environment, but we can change ourselves; You can't change the past, but you can grasp the present; You can't do everything smoothly, but you can do everything wholeheartedly; You can't choose your appearance, but you can show your smile.
Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go and be what you want to be, because you only have one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.
47. A person's true happiness is not staying in the light, but staring at the light from a distance and running towards it. Only in that time of desperate selflessness can life be truly enriched.
48. With you, I understand that happiness is neither getting nor giving. Happiness can only exist when giving to each other and arousing each other's desire to give.
49. If a man doesn't make you feel that you like yourself better because of his existence; It won't make you feel more sensitive and richer than when you are alone; Not through him as a medium, but to determine your obscure personality and characteristics, and therefore recognized as a charm; It won't make you feel as bright as the moon, it affects your inner world; If you don't feel a better you, then you may fall in love with the wrong person.
50. Are people gambling? Everyone wants to win? However, life always has to give up. We wasted a lot of time doing what we thought would win and loving someone we thought would die together, but we lost miserably. What kind of useless gamblers are we? Until the empty pocket turned away and set foot on the vast way home, I said to myself as I walked: I don't have to win, I just don't like the feeling of losing. Amy Cheung