Some people make ends meet after shopping, and the day of spending money at the end of the month is a headache for them. Some people buy everything, but they have a surplus every month. I have never seen them worry about money.
In addition to the difference in wages, the fundamental reason for this phenomenon between the two groups is the different ways of spending money.
Some people spend as much as they can without leaving themselves a way back, while others are careful to meet their material needs without being stretched by consumption.
How to spend money has become a lesson we must master.
For women, there are two ways to "spend money", which are very advanced.
Pei Na in the TV series Invincible Ugly Woman is a shopaholic. She is beautiful and is keen on dressing herself up.
Every month's salary is used to buy clothes, skin care products, cosmetics, bags and so on.
She has no concept of spending money, and is a typical moonlight family. For a time, she couldn't even pay the electricity bill.
But even so, I still like shopping.
Because Pei Na spends all her energy on dressing herself, her working ability is almost zero.
I have no choice but to ask other male colleagues for help with my so-called beautiful face.
Over time, everyone secretly called her an ugly and useless vase.
Everyone has the desire to pursue a better quality of life, but on this basis, we should also establish a correct consumption concept.
How to spend money is the most meaningful, whether it is flashy or spending money on the cutting edge, and every penny can achieve a better self.
Andy in the TV series Ode to Joy paid for a boxing class and went to the boxing gym every day after work.
Sweat every time, but those sweats made a better Andy and carved a better figure.
Having a strong heart that can resist all pressures is the most valuable and meaningful thing to spend money.
So, learn to spend money. If money is wasted on something valuable, it is the most valuable thing.
Some people spent thousands of dollars to buy a fitness card, only went twice, and the fitness card was idle in the corner;
Some people made up their minds to lose weight. They bought yoga mats and foam shafts. As a result, they were too tired to practice with the video for two days, and then the fitness equipment was put in the corner and turned to dust.
Some people watch others pay for classes to learn programming, and they follow suit. As a result, after studying for two days, they found that the content was boring, and it was not as interesting as playing games, so they wasted thousands of dollars.
These people have also invested for themselves, but their so-called investment is like a slogan. It just begins and ends in nothingness. Such an investment is a waste from any angle.
Self-disciplined people will make every plan in life step by step and then carry it out in a down-to-earth manner, instead of blindly following the trend on a whim or after three minutes of enthusiasm, so those investments will be wasted.
Therefore, when we decide to do something, we must stick to it.
Some people only spend money, so they become moonlight families, and they can't make ends meet every month. They don't know what to do when they really need money.
Some people can only save money, so their desire for life has almost dropped to zero. They are so stingy with themselves that they can't appreciate the fun of life and lose the most basic meaning of making money.
As women, we should achieve economic independence, so that we can have confidence to choose the life we want.
But at the same time, we should be willing to spend money for ourselves and learn how to spend money for ourselves.
Only in this way can we become a better self with good self-awareness.
In this world, it is really hard to move without money. Even love with enough moisture is like a piece of sand without material support.
Therefore, spending money and saving money complement each other. Knowing how to invest in ourselves will make our life more and more advanced.