As for quitting smoking, it took him the longest time to correct it. We talked for three years, and it took about one and a half years from the beginning to success. So far, he hasn't started smoking. According to what he says now, he can't stand someone smoking next to him and feels dizzy! When a person gives up smoking, he must be patient. Don't keep pushing him, but don't let go. Because smoking affects your health after all, you should mention a few words from time to time. Stop nagging as soon as he takes out his cigarette. Boys will get bored. I quit the men's ticket three stages. Although the first two times were unsuccessful, it was obvious that there was less and less smoking in the back.
The first stage, smoking electronic cigarettes, in fact, it is also very painful for boys to smoke only electronic cigarettes. My request at this time is to smoke casually outside, but if there is me next to you, you can't smoke, you can only smoke e-cigarettes. In the second stage, you can only smoke in front of me where I can see it, three cigarettes a day, and give me one hundred yuan for the extra one. In the third stage, he has strong willpower. From a certain moment on, he didn't smoke a cigarette, really didn't smoke a cigarette, and now he does!
About losing weight, my male ticket was born as a professional swimmer when I was young, and I began to gain weight without practicing. Besides, the fatter he is, the less active he is. However, he is definitely not exaggerating, but he feels chubby at first sight. Sports may have favorite ingredients in their bones and are easy to correct. I gave both of us a fitness card, but I didn't force him to exercise. I said that the couple card is cheap, and then I go to the gym after work every day. He was influenced by me. Every day I go, he goes, compares the time when I go to the gym, and then gradually becomes that I don't go. He went to the gym on his own initiative, and then he lost weight very quickly. This is unfair. Why do boys lose weight when they exercise casually, and I lose weight every day?
He may not have this consciousness about cleaning up the kitchen. He usually cooks. The process of cooking may make the kitchen messy, and then he will sit on the sofa and watch TV after dinner. I'll watch it with him for a while at this time. I won't ask him to clean up. I'll clean up myself. When he saw me cleaning the kitchen, he said, stop it. Let's have a rest. I said I had enough rest and I would clean it up.
Regarding the problem of not washing a pile of socks, I am super good now. I not only wash my socks myself, but also wash mine every time, and sometimes I talk about myself. If I leave them for another day, I will ask why I don't take them off right away. This correction process is very interesting. I told him that you didn't like washing, and neither did I. You can wash it in the morning and evening. We wash each other, I help you wash, you help me wash. Every day we spit on each other's socks, and then he got into the habit of taking them off and washing them every day.
As for the problem of littering clothes, it turned out that he threw them on the sofa as soon as he got home. He really tried many ways to solve this problem, but he couldn't change it. Finally, I prepared a shelf for him, regardless of his bag, trousers and coat. I put them on this shelf as soon as I get home. I won't say anything about him, but I can't just throw them away. It's much better, because the shelves are much better to put away.
The problem of changing bad temper into good temper cannot be clearly stated in one or two sentences. In addition, it is estimated that there may be fewer boys like my boyfriend who blow up a little bit. I'm too tired now, and I really don't want to play. If I really want to know, I will answer it again.
I can't finish writing a book about changing from a steel straight man to a warm man. Boyfriend's love experience is basically zero. When I met him, he had graduated from college for two years. Told me that I had talked about two girlfriends before, but I didn't ask him carefully. Later, I got along with him for a while and felt that this man was really too steel. I asked him how his ex-girlfriend could stand him, and he said that a junior high school and a senior high school were particularly ignorant. The problem that is not with me is simply a collapse. My boyfriend is so warm now, which is really my blood and tears for three years. This question is probably not for everyone. If necessary, we will discuss it again.