The answer is not necessarily. It all depends on how girls make boys feel. Think about it. When you were in high school, did the girls in your class meet more than a few times? Do you remember all your names now? I believe that most people, like me, have forgotten many girls' names, and those who remember them are nothing more than those who have left a specific impression on themselves in student life, because she has distinctive characteristics, so she will never forget it.

What are the characteristics of these girls?

1, clean and exquisite face value

When two people meet for the first time, without knowing anything, they can only get each other's first impression by looking at their faces in the simplest way.

My parents gave me all the looks. When God created some people, he put a little more material on the face value than the average person, which made them naturally beautiful. A beautiful face can make you linger in the crowd and go back in the street. Most boys don't like it.

But life is always unfair. For most people, Yan value can't reach the level of immortals, just an ordinary person in the vast sea of people. Fortunately, girls also have a technology that can change their lives-makeup. People with poor foundation can improve their face value by more than one grade through makeup. For most boys, evaluating a girl's face value is not simply looking at her face, but more about the overall feeling.

A girl may not be particularly beautiful, but if she feels in place as a whole, she will still be very likable. Of course, there is a premise here: you should keep it clean and delicate enough.

Even a fairy will be ruined by her untidiness if she doesn't wash her hair and make up and wears rustic clothes. Besides, it is already 2020, and all kinds of beauty, beauty and fitness industries are very developed. If you really have no conditions, you can even learn how to make yourself clean and exquisite through the internet, as long as you can make up your mind to improve your image.

After all, there are only lazy women in this world, and there are no ugly women.

2. Good personality

There is an effect in psychology called "the effect of treating the past", that is, people often love the new more than the old, which is simply "liking the new and hating the old".

Therefore, good-looking girls, as long as they get along for a long time, will inevitably have a little aesthetic fatigue on their appearance, while couples who are usually attracted by their appearance will usually not go far if they don't manage this relationship later.

So what kind of lovers can stay together for a long time? At least one of the two parties has a good personality, as follows:

1.？ Can respect and understand each other.

2.？ Have your own life circle, don't always rely on each other.

3.？ Will give each other enough personal space.

4.？ Have your own attitude towards life and will not be easily changed by others.

5.？ I can't keep doing this. I know how to play it by ear.

6.？ Can comfort each other and mobilize the atmosphere when the mood is negative.

Someone here must have asked, can a boy and a girl find out the girl's personality after meeting several times?

Indeed, only a few meetings can not fully understand what kind of person the other person is, but through her many performances and actions, we can also make a preliminary judgment.

For example, if this girl loves to laugh, we can see that she is at least a person with a positive attitude towards life. With such a person, at least she won't worry about living in complaints every day. After all, girls who love to laugh are never too bad luck.

Or when you have dinner with this girl, when you pay the bill after dinner, she insists on AA with you, or when she buys movie tickets later, she takes the initiative to bear it. Although it is an unwritten rule to pay for heterosexual dating in China, if I meet a girl who does this, I will definitely have a high opinion of her.

3, can chat

When couples are together, it is important to see each other, but it is more important to get along. Think of couples who have nothing to say all day. They are either in the cold war or on the way to break up.

And a girl who can chat, through several short meetings, can leave the impression that "I feel very comfortable talking to this person and want to talk to her for a while". After a long time, I will have feelings and naturally like him.

So how can you talk? I think so:

1.？ Chatting is not awkward.

Chatting is the hardest thing. In order not to keep quiet, two people were there, and they didn't even know what they were talking about. Here's a trick to avoid awkward chatting. Try not to say "Oh, ok, that's it", because it will easily make the other person feel that you are not interested in listening to him and have no desire to talk.

If you really have nothing to talk about, I suggest you stop talking and find something else to do.

2.？ connecting link

In today's Internet age, various new stalks break out every day, such as the black man's back pavilion, which has been popular all over the Internet recently, and the "yellow long skirt, fluffy hair" of the previous variety show.

If you add a stalk when you speak, the other party can connect, which will give the other party an idea of "Oh, this person is a little interesting, she knows what I like" and produce a feeling of meeting each other for a long time.

What if I feel this way? Psychology has said that "everyone likes people who are similar to themselves", and the higher the similarity with themselves, the higher the love for themselves.

When I was in junior high school, my study was particularly poor, and I was in the bottom ten in my class, so I especially liked to play with people with similar grades, but when I was with people with good grades, I always felt a little alienated.

Chatting is the same, regardless of boys and girls, as long as you can make the other person have a feeling of "reunion after a long separation" and keep it, then you will definitely attract the other person and make the other person have a strong interest in you.

3.？ This will be just the right compliment.

There is no one in the world who doesn't like being praised by others, but you should praise it appropriately. If you praise them all the time, both sides will be stiff. How?

Praise around "things"

Boys are more handsome than you. What they like to hear is that your shoes are really nice. What they want more is that their actions are recognized by others, rather than praising their appearance. Thank you very much.

So as long as you learn to praise his behavior, you can achieve good results.

When a boy thinks chatting with you is a very relaxed and interesting thing, he will take the initiative to find you and find opportunities to confess with you.

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