First, on the grounds of organizing activities, a man, if you want to ask a girl out, then you can tell the girl that there are many people and we can organize a party together. You take all those people to attend, and these people are familiar to her; She won't refuse you like this, she will be happy to attend; Because girls nowadays love to play. As long as they go to play, she usually won't refuse. Second, in order to help in life, everyone will meet the time when they need help; Generally speaking, people who are asked for help are embarrassed to refuse; So a man, when you want to ask a girl out, you can ask her to help you on the grounds that you have something to do; Find a reason for her to help, even if she doesn't want to go out, she will be embarrassed to refuse you. Third, I want to please a woman and make her happy on the grounds of showing her cooking skills! Then you can tell a woman what cooking you have learned recently and want her to see your cooking. Under normal circumstances, she will go out to see you in order to taste your cooking; But when it comes to cooking, it must be very distinctive, otherwise it will not attract her and make her want it. Fourth, the reasons for promotion and salary increase, in life, many people, when promoted and raised, will think about celebrating; At this time, generally speaking, a few friends will be invited to have a good time; So if you want to ask a girl out, you can celebrate with her on the grounds of promotion and salary increase. In her heart, she will be very happy and extremely happy. V. Attracting girls' interests Generally speaking, every girl has her own hobbies; Such as fitness, skating, singing, dancing and so on; So at this time, if men want to ask girls out, they can attract girls according to their hobbies; Find a girl to play with what she likes, and girls will be particularly interested; As long as you have an appointment, she will generally not refuse you; I will certainly meet your wish and meet you tomorrow. Sixth, start by thanking the girls. In life, if a girl does something for you, no matter how big or small it is, you can start by thanking her and ask her out to see you. You can buy a gift, a girl's favorite gift, and tell her that you want to give it to her to express your gratitude. Under normal circumstances, girls will definitely meet you if they refuse a few words; Because you thank her, not love her, and give her a gift, she is not easy to refuse. Seven, attract each other with food in life, for eating, every woman likes it; So if you want to ask a girl out, you have to think of a place where there are many delicious things; You can attract girls with delicious food and let her feel the taste of delicious food and the desire to eat; Then she will definitely go out to see you and taste the most beautiful feeling with you. Eight, looking for a girl as a staff member, male, if you want to ask a girl out, you can tell her that you are going to buy clothes, but you don't know how to match them more beautifully; You tell her that you want to ask her to be a staff officer, and she will definitely have a sense of existence in her heart; I think she has good taste, and I think you respect and admire her. Naturally, I won't refuse to see you. Nine, it is normal for men and women to watch movies on the grounds that new movies are released in life; So if you want to ask a girl out, you can find a movie that has just been released. Say how beautiful it is and ask the girls to enjoy it with you; It's best to find the movies that girls are most interested in, so the chances of her going to the movies with you will be very high. 10. A man who wants to ask a girl out on the grounds of dropping by can walk to the girl's door. Then tell the girl that you just arrived at her door because of something; Ask her to come out, have a cup of milk tea and have some snacks; Generally speaking, she won't refuse you when you are at her door. This is the minimum respect. The 1 routine of asking a girl out is to watch a movie. This doesn't mean you have to go to the cinema. Nowadays, many classrooms in universities can watch movies for free. Whether there is a suitable movie or not, you can try it. Invite girls you like to watch movies together. The second is that there is no chance to create opportunities to borrow things from girls, especially books. If you borrow something else, you can play freely. The third is to go out to play. When I was in college, I was relatively free on weekends. If there are good scenic spots around, you can invite a girl you like to take a walk when you first arrive at this place. The fourth is to participate in some activities. If you meet some festivals, you can often invite your goddess to attend. Fifth, if you have any skills and expertise, you can take the initiative to invite the girl you like to teach him, such as roller skating. You can do anything, such as table tennis. Sixth, you can treat yourself as scum, invite the girl you like to give you a lecture, and then invite the girl you like to eat after the lecture, so that you have more opportunities to contact. Seventh, whether it is your birthday or her birthday, it is a good opportunity to show off. If you can ask out to play together, you have a greater chance of success. How to ask a girl 1 in routine 3? Judging whether she is in the emotional window not only means that she has no boyfriend, but also means that she has no man she likes. Generally speaking, it's easy for girls to ask out during the empty window period. At this point, the girl's emotional state is blank. If she is just bored, she will basically say yes to your invitation. Since you can ask girls out, that's half the battle. A colleague had been asking a girl out for a long time before, and she couldn't even ask out, which was a long way from success. I told him a secret book, Yunkun Ji Bao Dian, so that he could learn how to fall in love. After that, it was 10 days. He successfully invited two girls and invited me to dinner for three days, expressing his gratitude. Actually, I'm very happy. If you have a brother who also wants to divorce, you can learn to improve your love thinking, which is available online. You can find it by searching. 2. Judge her qualifications When you invite a girl, you are likely to encounter some unexpected situations. For example, she can't come temporarily and suddenly doesn't want to go out. Therefore, before inviting, you should find out her status and see if she is suitable for dating. Make a simple judgment before you decide whether to invite. 3. fuzzy invitation if you can't judge whether a girl is willing to date you, you can use fuzzy invitation to test it. A vague invitation is when you tell her that you plan to date her and see if she wants to date you. For example, you say: Next time you come out for afternoon tea, tell her what you think and see how she answers you. If she says yes, you can formally invite her next time. 4. Catch the signal that she wants to ask you out. Sometimes, a girl really wants to ask you out, but she usually doesn't tell you directly. She gave you more hints. For example, she might say: I'm hungry. When she keeps stressing this sentence, she just wants to have dinner with you. If she repeatedly tells you which movie she wants to see and just wants to invite you to see it, be sure to seize the signal. How to send out an invitation 1, and learn to expect management when dating. Many boys think that dating must be formal. If you give a girl a feeling, the next date will be a very formal process. She will subconsciously look at you with a formal standard and have very high expectations for you. If you only have a little problem, she will deduct your points. But on the contrary, you told the girl in advance from the beginning that this is just an ordinary meeting, just to meet a friend, so she won't have too high expectations for this process, and she won't ask too much of you. Maybe her whole date was six points, but you gave her one point by moving a chair like a gentleman, one point by improving the dinner in advance, and one point by giving her small things such as napkins. In an environment with low expectations, it is easier to give you extra points. 2, grasp the home advantage, you ask girls, of course, you need to control the home. For example, if you often come to this store and are familiar with it, you can choose to bring your sister to this store. Because of familiarity, you will appear more natural and confident. Even if something unexpected happens here, you can always handle it well, instead of being more flustered than girls when facing the problem, so as to show your reliable side to girls. 3. Sort out the dating process in advance. You invite girls to dinner. Is it just a procedure for eating? Of course not. You should have an idea of what you need to do from meeting to leaving, especially when you meet a girl for the first time. It is inevitable that you will feel strange when you meet for the first time. No matter you or he, once this strangeness cannot be eliminated, future activities will only be more embarrassing. * * * Doing the same thing together can easily bring the two sides closer. For example, if we go to clip dolls, play billiards and bowling together, the key is not whether we have fun, but whether we are happy and whether two people participate in this process. Wrong invitation must be avoided 1. After the opening remarks, an invitation was issued in less than ten sentences. 2. The other party keeps giving you a reply of "Oh, Hehe" or an IOD with an expression, and you still insist on choosing an invitation. 3, do not understand each other's preferences, blind invitation. She likes watching movies. You have to take her for coffee. 4. When inviting, you need to expose too much, for fear that the other party will disagree, and send a lot of words to persuade the other party to come out. (the result can only be counterproductive. 5. The invitation time is not well chosen. For example, if you want to invite a girl to dinner at night, you won't go until four or five o'clock in the afternoon. If you don't give the other party time to prepare, you are likely to be rejected immediately. 6. Keep inviting. Many friends have the firm will not to stop until they reach the Yellow River, not to hit the south wall and not to look back. After being rejected by a girl once, continue to make an appointment the next day, be rejected again, and make an appointment the third day. Until it was hacked. Precautions for chatting with your sister 1, don't talk all the time, minutes. It seems that there is nothing to do but chat. Its value is so low that my sister can feel it. 2, don't be too arrogant, deliberately cater to the sister. Many brothers are principled in the face of low scores and can stick to their own framework when speaking, but they are completely panicked in the face of high scores. For example, I really didn't expect you to reply me. I thought you wouldn't talk to me anymore. Hello, goddess. What is the goddess doing? You are so beautiful. I don't think I deserve you. And so on similar low-value language. These low-value languages will make my sister feel that you and she are not from the same world. Originally, my sister didn't think she was a beauty, but under the contrast of these languages, my sister thought she was a beauty, and you were a low-scoring man who circled around her.