From August 2065438+2009, I read at least 4 books every month, and I have been sticking to it until today. More precisely, it is a reading habit that started from the book McKinsey Elite Efficient Reading Method. One thing, you want to insist, but you can't. Don't PUA yourself, and don't call yourself garbage.
Smart people will adjust their way of doing things first. It is natural to find a method that suits you and stick to it. For example, I once wanted to keep exercising and tried running to keep fit. Although I kept doing it for a while, it was actually very painful at that time. When I think of running or fitness, I don't really want to go out to the back. The accumulated resistance is far greater than happiness. A small opportunity, like rain, I completely gave up …
Later, I became fascinated with dancing, and every time I danced, I was as happy as I was dazzled by eating five pounds. I think I can dance until I am 80. It's all exercise, but how you choose to exercise also determines how long you can last. As the ancients said, "Nothing is difficult in the world, only if you put your mind to it". This heart is not only a heart that wants to "do things well", but more importantly, it is to think hard and how to do it. How to do it more easily?
And if you want to insist on efficient reading, McKinsey elite efficient reading method will tell you a set of very specific, simple, efficient and easy methods to help you minimize the difficulty of reading.
Next stop, Bai
After reading it, I want to send a knife to the publishing house. Think about that stupid title and cover! A sober female workplace monster raiders, simply packaged as "confidant literature." But I still recommend it to everyone! One! Shit! A girl who has just entered the workplace, or is about to enter the workplace, or is flattering and self-righteous!
I promise, it's hard for you to read so directly from other places! So sharp! Such butterfly irrigation! In that case. Let me briefly extract a few words: only women will inexplicably hope that everyone likes themselves. If you can only do what you have been doing, then you can only get what you have got. Don't spend your life in depression and loss. Tell others what you want bravely.
Among all kinds of worries faced by women, the most common one is called "bitch phobia". Perhaps, each of us has had such a personal experience: in the face of a thorny issue, we clearly know that we have to safeguard our own interests and stand firm, but we vaguely consider such a worry: "If I continue to be tough, she/he will definitely treat me as an unreasonable bitch!" If she/he pats her ass and leaves.
Don't deal with me from now on. What should I do? "This wonderful speech in the book can be seen everywhere, and it is very annoying and very unkind. If you need a starting point in your life, start with this book!
Inferiority and transcendence
Among the masters of psychology, Adler has a unique optimism and tolerance. He paid attention to the individual and founded individual psychology. He liberated people from a very passive state. In addition to passively inheriting your parents' genes, being passively left in an environment, such as fierce competition, and passively encountering things that make you unhappy, such as injuries, you still have the right to "explain" everything you have experienced, and your "explanation" is the key to everything.
For example, in the face of other people's success, some people feel inferior, some people are also injured, some people are timid from now on, and some people will over-repair like muscles and become stronger after suffering. The right to interpret the outside world gives us the freedom to "transcend".
Some people look strong, but they are actually a big sandbag that can be broken with one blow. Some people are very small, but they can exude infinite power, such as physicist Hawking, and Xiao Y, who has been hacked by the whole network, is now more calm and firm, and his popularity is getting better and better. Real power comes from a person's heart. The sooner you read Inferiority and Transcendence, the sooner you discover your inner strength. If you don't think this book is very good to read, then try the courage to be hated.