Just yesterday, March 8, Zhang Weili, a rural girl from Handan, Hebei Province, brought the best gift to women in China with her fists and blood and tears:
She played five rounds in a row, beating the legendary woman fighter Joanna Gidar Zesik beyond recognition. She couldn't bear to look straight in the eye and won the gold belt of the boxing champion in one fell swoop, showing the world the power of women in China.
Now Zhang Weili stands at the top of the world, representing the light of China people and winning applause and cheers from all over the world.
However, the glory of all this can not be won by simple efforts, but by hard work.
/kloc-When she was 0/2 years old, she was sent to a martial arts school by her parents to study Sanda. However, as a girl, she was often bullied by her stubborn brother and was always beaten black and blue. She has suffered humiliation and pain, but she has indomitable resilience.
She studies hard with her teacher. Finally, seven months later, in actual combat, she defeated all those who bullied her and became the best student in the school. She made great strides, and won the junior Sanda championship in Hebei Province at the age of 14.
However, the good times didn't last long. High-intensity training and real boxing under heavy blows brought irreparable harm to her body.
After all, dreams are not as cruel as reality. Suffering from illness, she had to give up her love for Sanda, retire from the glory of the champion and live an ordinary life of finding a job, making money and supporting herself.
At the age of 20, regardless of her parents' opposition, she resolutely joined the North drift army and began to live alone in the North drift.
She used to be a cleaner, a physical education teacher in kindergarten and even a security guard. 20 10 is Beijing, but no job costs more than 2000 yuan.
Once she went to a gym to apply for the front desk, and the boxing sandbag in the gym hooked her eyes. As a result, she insisted on working here without even asking about her salary.
Because she can regain what she loves, which means she is one step closer to her dream. In front of dreams, sometimes money can be really worthless.
Although the work in the gym starts every afternoon, she can't get up at 6 o'clock every day, practice until she starts working, and then train until 12 o'clock in the evening after work. At the end of the day, her mind is full of work and training.
However, she never felt bitter. On the contrary, she thought it was very rare to have the opportunity to regain her hobby, so she cherished it even more, trained harder and even spent New Year's Eve training in the boxing gym.
Fortunately, luck is reserved for those who don't give up easily. Through the boxer she met in the gym and her later coach Cai, she got to know her idol. Since then, she has successfully transformed into a professional player. With professional guidance and platform support, she can finally have a good time.
She began to overload training. In order to adapt to the high pressure, she forced herself to compete with male athletes weighing 160 Jin, which greatly stimulated her physical potential and made herself more flexible in the face of female athletes.
She stepped from domestic competition to the international stage. During this period, the blood and tears she shed and the pain she left behind were all tenacity and perseverance that ordinary people could not imagine.
According to international practice, she invited nine other top ten players in the world. For this fledgling player, most people are dismissive: "Who is Zhang Weili?" ? Refuse to fight. ?
Until finally andrade, the world champion, agreed to the invitation.
As a result, it took her only 42 seconds to beat the Brazilian female boxing champion andrade, and she won the first UFC champion in China and even in Asia (UFC is the world's top comprehensive martial arts competition, and its influence abroad is comparable to that of the NBA in basketball).
After defeating her opponent, the host asked her how she felt. She said three words to her foreign friends in English: "My name is Zhang Weili, and I'm from China. Remember me!" ("My name is Zhang Weili. I come from China. Please remember me. " )
This year, she once again appeared in front of people and lived up to expectations. With an iron will and unyielding stubbornness, she defended her title with a total score of 2:/kloc-0:, representing China people and Asian yellow people once again standing at the peak of the world.
From the growing process of Zhang Weili, I saw two seeds destined to lead her to a brilliant life.
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As you can imagine, if Maxima Zhang Weili hadn't met her Bole Cai, her battle path might not be as invincible as it is now.
When he learned that Zhang Weili was injured, he did not hesitate to take her to the club, teach her how to train correctly, arrange every meal for her and give her meticulous care.
Even in a training session, Zhang Weili accidentally kicked the coach's eyelid, and he was bleeding on the spot. She tried to stop but was stopped. She cried and played for five minutes. Until now, the coach still has that scar in his eye corner.
I met her coach Cai by chance, met Cai by chance, and met Bole by chance.
Charles Munger once said, "The safest way to get what you want is to make yourself worthy of what you want."
Cai, the light in Zhang Weili's life is actually earned by herself.
At that time, she was still working at the front desk of the gym. She challenged the male athletes and no one cared.
Only Cai, who was sitting in the audience, carefully watched every attack and defense of the little girl. Every time she is hysterical, he sees the unyielding stubbornness and strength in her little body.
Since then, he has been trying to recruit this little girl into his club. In this way, Zhang Weili met a man who changed his life.
As we all know, a noble person is very important. He may give us a chance at a certain moment to make our life shine.
Many people always complain that they are unlucky and can't meet their own Bole nobles. As we all know, the stable establishment of any relationship is based on the principle of value exchange.
Noble people are noble because their time is precious and it is impossible to waste it to help an ordinary passerby. Only when he sees the potential value in you, will he be willing to spend time and energy on you.
Therefore, the reason why we can't establish a relationship with cattle people is that the ability gap between us and cattle people is too big, and the value exchange can't really be realized.
For example, now that you have the opportunity to meet Li Ka-shing, the richest man, and have lunch together, what can you do? What topic will the other person be interested in?
In addition to taking selfies and sending friends to express worship, what you can do is very limited. So much for a big lunch. There will never be another one.
Therefore, without your own ability, no matter how many contacts and financial resources are wasted, because you can't give stable and sustainable output value to cattle people.
So there is a good saying: "I am afraid that you will be used, but I am afraid that you will be useless."
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The second reason why I believe Zhang Weili will succeed is that she has blind confidence in the future.
In every interview, whenever it comes to winning or losing, she always replies, "I never thought I would lose because I paid too much."
So before Zhang Weili succeeded, he almost exhausted all his strength, but he never lost confidence in the future.
Li Xiaolai, a famous angel investor worth 7 billion yuan, often encourages young people to be blind, full of confidence in a bright future, and even believes in the future with 1.20%. If someone throws cold water on them, they can only allow themselves to be hit by 20% confidence, so they still have 1.000% confidence in the future. Not only that, they have to find ways to raise their self-confidence index to 65438+.
When Li Xiaolai was in college, he drew this future growth curve for himself. The cost line crossing the curve reminds him all the time that the difficulties, challenges and grievances he is facing now are all caused by being lower than the cost line. As long as he is willing to continue to act, he will one day be able to cross the cost line and achieve accelerated growth.
So he often curses: I don't believe I can't make money in the future.
Therefore, if we can firmly believe that our future is such a curve, then we should have a blind and confident attitude and firmly believe that the seemingly long and distant turning point (milestone) will actually come soon.
Yes, when we choose to continue to act like Zhang Weili, the reward may be late, but we will never be absent.