Sexual frigidity, also known as lack of sexual attraction or frigidity, is a kind of sexual dysfunction or disorder, which is a common sexual dysfunction of women. In different countries and regions, the proportion of women who have never experienced or rarely experienced orgasm varies greatly, ranging from 10% to 90%. In most places, more than 25% of women have had or still have frigidity. Only a few women can reach orgasm almost every time they have sex, and about half of them have more or less failed to reach orgasm. Sexual apathy is mainly manifested in women's lack of sexual desire, no requirements for sexual life, indifference, dislike or disgust to sexual intercourse, anxiety, discomfort or pain during sexual intercourse; Some people don't actively avoid sexual intercourse, but they can't make an appropriate sexual response during sexual intercourse, lack pleasure, or the pleasure is not obvious and can't be satisfied. Some women don't even know what sexual pleasure is, and they have never experienced the feeling of orgasm. The main factors affecting female frigidity are as follows: 1. Dirty psychology, due to improper childhood education, psychological trauma caused by sexual harassment, religious edification or the influence of adult role models, forms a prejudice against sexual life. For example, sexual contact is considered to be dirty, a sin, and "love between men and women", which leads to disgust, disgust and fear of sexual life. Second, fear psychology because of lack of sexual knowledge, fear of sexual contact, fear that sexual contact will cause pain, or do not understand the sexual psychological differences between men and women. On the wedding night, the man acted rudely and recklessly, and soon reached orgasm and ejaculated, but the woman did not experience pleasure. On the contrary, she felt uncomfortable or painful, and even had vaginal spasm. In the long run, you will become more and more indifferent to sex life. Third, worry about pregnancy, worry about pregnancy, fear, and lack of reliable contraceptive measures have inhibited normal sexual satisfaction and caused sexual apathy. Fourth, environmental factors due to poor living conditions, living with family members, poor sound insulation in bedrooms, etc. , will interfere with normal sex life, affect the mood, lead to unhappiness, inattention, and it is difficult to cause sexual excitement. Fifth, emotional factors The husband and wife have disharmony, mutual distrust, suspicion or disgust, and cannot produce sexual excitement; If the relationship between husband and wife is not good, the wife will refuse sexual intercourse as a means of revenge, which will also lead to sexual apathy. Sixth, bad habits Women have bad habits such as smoking, drinking and taking drugs, which will reduce sexual interest and lead to sexual apathy; The woman has had a serious habit of masturbation, the pleasure of sexual contact after marriage is not strong enough, or the man has sexual dysfunction such as impotence and premature ejaculation, and the woman can't get sexual satisfaction, which will inevitably lead to long-term sexual apathy. For female apathy, we should correct it in many ways. Both husband and wife should understand the knowledge of sexual physiology and psychology, master the different characteristics of sexual desire and excitement between men and women, understand the significance of sexual life to people's normal life and development, and abandon prejudice and misunderstanding about sexual life. At the same time, actively improve the relationship between husband and wife, eliminate psychological barriers and various negative emotions between husband and wife, coordinate the rhythm of sexual life and cooperate with each other. What is frigidity and how to treat it? Sexual apathy means sexual apathy, which means lack of sexual desire. Generally speaking, there is no interest in sex life, and some people say that sexual desire is reduced. The well-educated and healthy husband was investigated. = medium, 16% of men and women in three continents are frigid. In a childless husband. Second, sexual apathy accounts for 2%, but there are almost no people who really have no sexual desire. Sexual apathy and lack of sexual pleasure are two different concepts and cannot be confused. They may or may not appear at the same time. So there are two kinds: frigidity syndrome without sexual attraction and frigidity syndrome without sexual attraction. Sexual frigidity is called primary frigidity at the beginning of sexual life and secondary frigidity after a period of sexual life. Generalized apathy refers to any opposite sex). Any conditions. The same thing will happen. Selective apathy refers to specific opposite sex and specific conditions. The reasons for sexual apathy are very complicated, mainly in the following three aspects: ① Age factor: After 50 years old, with the growth of age, the requirements for sexual desire will gradually decrease. This is an objective law of sexual aging, but sexual desire fluctuates greatly, which varies greatly in different races, periods and environments. ② Mental factors: Some people often masturbate or fail in the first sexual intercourse due to lack of sexual knowledge, or think that one drop of semen is equal to ten drops of blood, think that semen is precious and regret it, and leave sexual intercourse without ejaculation, so patients gradually reduce or completely lack sexual requirements. Some couples are not harmonious in feelings or their sexual life is always harmonious, some are afraid of the woman's pregnancy and childbirth, some have incorrect views on sexual life, and some think it is lewd and obscene, and some are because of sexual life; After making mistakes, mental guilt, or mental trauma, the excitement of the cortical center of the brain is suppressed. ③ Disease factors: physical weakness, overwork, chronic diseases and changes in endocrine function, especially insufficient secretion of cold pill ketone by testicles, will all lead to decreased sexual desire. In addition, liver cirrhosis, congestive heart failure and pituitary dysfunction. Hypothyroidism, menopause, chronic renal failure and other diseases, some drugs such as antihistamines, Guanxinping, clonine, propranolol, reserpine and so on. Are frigid. Treatment apathy should be aimed at its causes. After 50 years old, with the increase of age, the secretion of androgen in the body gradually decreases, which is an objective physiological change law. You know, individuals are very different and don't need treatment. Psychotherapy is needed because of mental factors. When removing mental factors, it is still necessary to strengthen sexual knowledge learning, correctly master sexual knowledge and treat sexual life. In order to be successful, these treatments usually require the cooperation of both husband and wife to maintain a harmonious relationship. When men are indifferent, women should not blame them, but should be more considerate to eliminate men's nervousness, cooperate closely with doctors, and at the same time stimulate and reawaken men's sexual excitement by touching sexual excitement points. Because of the disease, of course, we must treat the primary disease first. In addition to the above methods, drug treatment can also be carried out. Albizia Albizia honey can be taken orally for a short time, twice a day, each time 15g, and a course of treatment can improve the present situation.