The old man brought up his grandchildren through hard work. Can they repay their kindness when they grow up?
I don't think it's a good deed for the elderly to take care of their grandchildren. This is the result of blood, this is the call of family. Old people are willing to pay for them.
Can the grandson repay the debt when he grows up?
Grandchildren will be grateful. When they go to work and their grandparents are still there, their grandchildren will be very filial. My grandson said when he was very young that when I got the money, I would give it to my grandparents in the first month. Granddaughter said: Grandma, when you are old, I will hug you, feed you and bathe you.
When my aunt lived to be over 80 years old, she enjoyed the gratitude of her grandchildren. My aunt brought me up when I was a child. Now their grandchildren are all doing business and living a happy life. Aunt is a farmer and has no salary. They give her money to play mahjong every month. When Xiao Yan died, her grandson cried more sadly than her son.
Therefore, as long as the elderly are blessed and live long. Grandchildren will be very filial. I also have the opportunity to take care of my grandparents. As long as grandparents brought them up, they have deep feelings for them, and everyone knows that grandparents love them the most. So I am very close to my grandparents. Grandparents grow up in poor health. They will be very concerned and will try their best to help take care of them. This is the call of affection and gratitude!
How to repay kindness is a matter for future generations to grow up. As for the elderly, it is their wish to be grandparents.
No, because when they grow up, their grandparents are gone.
Never expect it.
Do you raise your children so that they can repay you? I don't want to repay you in the future anyway. Did you get their permission to bring your children into this world? Give you a pension and die before giving birth? Then this is all for your own good. I think you did what an elder should do. As long as your children and grandchildren have no moral problems, they will certainly take care of you when you are old.
It is often found in life that a person's appearance depends on his parents and personality, and he will follow his parents, including filial piety to his elders. Some people are handed down from generation to generation and are very filial to their elders.
And in some families, the elders simply love the younger generation. Who in the world doesn't love their children and grandchildren? But there are many baiwenhang.
I just want to say here: it is really difficult to love the old and the young. I am very busy. So how do old people treat their generation when they are not old? When this question is clarified, we will find the answer.
This should be divided into people, some grandchildren know how to repay kindness, and some don't.
I know a man who stayed on his grandmother's back all day when he was a child. 4-5 years old, can't walk, grandma can't hold it, and has been carrying him. His grandmother gave him a kiss. He is 4-5 years old, and his grandmother feeds him three meals a day. Aunt filial piety grandma, all delicious, grandma didn't eat a bite, has been saved for him to eat.
Later, when he grew up, he ignored his grandmother, let alone showed filial piety, and his neighbors accused him. Word of mouth is quite bad. His parents are a pair of unfilial people.
Tell me more about my son. My grandmother brought him when he was seven years old. I brought him back. Now that I'm old, I think about giving grandma lucky money every time I come back from work. Granddaughter always wants to buy fashionable clothes for grandma. Because I have lived with my grandmother since I was a child, my feelings with my grandmother are still very deep.
Only when people know how to be grateful can they know how to repay, and this character is also influenced by family education. If his parents don't understand this, the children are not much better. Examples like this abound around him.
Every one of us is old, even if it is for our own future to be honored by the next generation. Now we should set an example for our children. Parents are children's first teachers, and children watch how you treat the elderly from an early age. What kind of person he will become in the future.
May the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation, filial piety, be passed down from generation to generation, so that our future generations can become grateful people.