All girls please remember that others can't be responsible for our lives, and happiness is our own. More and more girls are beginning to understand that their lives should not be bound by marriage, children and family. She should have a life. More and more girls play more and more roles in society. Since they can give everything to themselves, there is no need to find someone who doesn't like it and can do it to participate in their comfortable life.
Because we have to face many problems when we get married, such as how to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If we are in a patriarchal family, we may be rejected if we can't have boys ... So girls prefer to be alone and free. As Guan Juer said in Ode to Joy, the boy wants to marry her because she is suitable for marriage, and the other parents like her, but this is not love.
I hope you can understand that life is too long, and meeting the wrong person is more terrible than loneliness. An Sheng said? "Unless you love this man very much? Otherwise, men can't stand it "? I think it's too difficult to meet this person. I don't want to get married, but I don't want to settle. I just want to meet a man who really loves and cares about himself. I hope every girl can marry love.
At present, the divorce rate is too high, mainly because of infidelity, domestic violence and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Women pay too much in marriage, and the risks are too great. Marriage law only protects property, not women. When a woman marries and has children, it not only affects her career, her work, her income and her health, but also spends most of her energy and time on raising children and housework, which makes her feel insecure.