When it comes to Xu, the label "talented woman" flashes in many people's minds.

This title of Xu Cainv is not worthy of the name.

Xu was born in an ordinary worker's family. Under the supervision of his father, he began to learn calligraphy and copy Yan Zhenqing's words at an early age.

Later, because I love painting, I studied painting for several years.

At that time, Xu, who was 0/7 years old, had become a young woman in literature and art under the influence of art.

After graduating from high school, Xu, who was determined to be admitted to the Department of Chinese Opera and the Academy of Arts and Crafts, unfortunately fell out of the list.

When I was sad, I met a director who was mistaken for a performance student, which made Xu want to be an actor and was admitted to the performance department of Beijing Film Academy.

The head teacher of that class is Faye Yu, and his classmates are Alyssa Chia, Liu Zi and liu ling.

Xu Jinglei, who entered the university, gradually became more and more watery, and together with Liu Zi, Liu Lin and Xie Run, she was also called "Four Golden Flowers of Beiying Grade 93".

In her sophomore year, Xu just ended her first love. After the baptism of love, she changed from a "good girl" to a rebellious little sister.

Because I don't like acting, I often skip classes and go out to play. I am addicted to rock, dirty braids, beggar costumes and wild punk style.

It was also at that time that I met Wang Shuo, a famous writer in the literary world at that time, through the introduction of a friend.

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Wang Shuo, who was 36 years old at that time, officially entered the upper reaches of "Beijing Circle" through novels such as Half Flame and Half Seawater, I am Your Dad and Beast.

And with Xiaogang Feng * * *, the screenwriter produced the first TV sitcom "The Story of the Editorial Department" in China. After the broadcast, it received rave reviews.

Wang Shuo has gained some fame in the literary and entertainment circles. At the same time, he led Xiaogang Feng and co-founded Dream Film Company.

At that time, Wang Shuo was married and had a daughter, and his wife was also the beauty queen he was striving for.

But when she met Xu, Wang Shuo fell in love at first sight. Put aside the identity of husband and father and find a beautiful woman to come back.

Years later, Wang Shuo said, "I like those who come from rock and roll." Fan erzheng is sloppy and handsome. I especially like it. "

Xu, who is with Wang Shuo, is a constant resource.

For the first time, Wang Shuo promoted him to participate in You at the Same Table, which was supervised by Gao, and it was for this reason that Gao had different feelings for Xu, which is another story.

In order to win the beauty's happiness, Miss Wang tried her best. When Xu graduated from college, she got started in person and recommended her to the director of her buddy, which contributed to her screen debut "An Affair".

While enjoying Wang Shuo's resources, Xu fantasized about being superior.

She blatantly went in and out of Wang Shuo's house and demonstrated to his wife Shen: "I swaggered in and out of your house, please give him to me."

Shen thinks that men are like children. They will always go home after playing enough.

So he hit back at Xu: "You don't understand, I am his mother, and you can't replace me."

However, Wang Shuo at that time was carried away by passion and forgot his promise to his wife.

Simply moved directly from home to the hotel, and Xu began a blatant cohabitation.

Two years later, Shen, who finally gave up, chose to divorce Wang Shuo and take her daughter to live in the United States.

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After the divorce, Wang Shuo was not with Xu.

From 65438 to 0997, 23-year-old Xu and 26-year-old Xu met each other for their roles in the film Spicy Love Soup. After that, the two collaborated on the idol drama "Love to the End".

Subsequently, the scandal about Xu He was overwhelming. It is also because of this drama that Li, who had a girlfriend at that time, had a good impression on Xu, and was called "golden couple" because he played a couple in love.

There are different opinions about these two gossip objects, but Xu said: I didn't call Li.

After breaking up with Wang Shuo, Xu fell in love with the famous musician Sambo. It is said that she had three miscarriages during her three years with Sambo, and finally they broke up because the other party cheated on a female singer.

The point is, after breaking up, Xu Jinglei returned to Wang Shuo, and Wang Shuo accepted him again.

In 2004, 30-year-old Xu was not satisfied with being an actress and wanted to try directing, so she asked Wang Shuo for advice.

With the help of Wang Shuo, Xu's Me and Dad, which was written, directed and performed by himself, was released.

Ye Daying, Jiang Wen, and other famous people from Beijing School participated in this work, so Xu won the Best Screenplay Award in the Chinese Film Awards and the Best First Novel Award in the Golden Rooster Award, and his worth suddenly rose.

Therefore, there must be more than one man behind a successful woman, and Wang Shuo is definitely an indispensable man behind Xu.

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Xu, who became famous for directing Me and Dad, directed and starred in the film Letter from an Unknown Woman in September of the same year.

Huang Jue, the leading actor in the play, sparked a spark, and even they were photographed by the media going in and out of the same apartment late at night. Huang Jue also took her pet cat to the pet hospital for treatment, in a state like a couple.

For the exposure of the media, the two did not admit or evade, and went shopping and dating together as usual.

Just as people were waiting for their official statement, the news of their breakup came out.

It is said that after breaking up with Xu, she told a friend that she must find an "ordinary woman" when looking for a girlfriend in the future, so that she could live together in peace.

After breaking up, Xu was not idle. At a party, she met the musician Zhang Yadong and fell in love at first sight.

In July, 2005, Xu and Zhang Yadong were shopping hand in hand on the streets of Beijing, and were photographed by the media. It was suspected that their relationship was exposed.

However, it didn't take long for Gao Yuanyuan to reveal the evidence that he had been in love with Zhang Yadong for five years and wrote dozens of handwritten love letters.

Xu suddenly became a mistress. Gao Yuanyuan chose to leave.

However, the relationship between Xu Jinglei and Zhang Yadong did not last long, and they broke up.

At the same time, Wang Shuo's love affair with actor Olivia was exposed.

From then on, Wang Shuo and Xu Jinglei were completely separated.

Wang Shuo once said: "We have a good relationship, but each has a boyfriend and a girlfriend, who do not interfere with each other and grow up separately."

This is why some people say that artists' feelings are really hard to understand.

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In 2008, Han Han and Xu were photographed by the media at the Beijing Secret Meeting, and they were talking and laughing in an open-air chair.

Xu Jinglei replied, "Yes, Han Han came to see me, and it was just the two of us, but we are both adults. It is necessary to meet the opposite sex alone. Do you still need to report to teachers and parents? "

It is not clear whether they are really together, but what is certain is that Han Han loves Xu Jinglei.

20 10 in may, when interviewed by a certain media, Han Han revealed that he wanted to give Xu as a birthday present, but laughed and said that he was no longer needed.

Last year, CCTV news about "single women are forbidden to freeze eggs", someone took this opportunity to poke out the incident of freezing eggs.

Han Han immediately sent Weibo shelling, bluntly:

"Want to have a child but just don't want to marry a man? Can't you use your own eggs? Can't women exercise their reproductive rights independently? In addition, unmarried women do not have a birth certificate when they are pregnant, and their children will not even get a hukou in the future unless they are fined a huge amount of social support. Does fertility have to be linked to finding a man to marry? Even I can't stand this straight male cancer. "

Actually speaking for Xu, secretly protecting Xu.

Some people say that Xu's greatest skill is to surround these gossip boyfriends with him and make them close friends.

Wang Shuo also said: "If anyone does anything to Xu Jinglei, I will never let him go!"

It can be seen that Xu must be a person with high emotional intelligence and IQ.

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So far, it should be regarded as the last person promised.

In 2009, Xu directed and starred in the movie "Du Lala's Promotion" again, and the 35-year-old fell in love in the play. After the play, rumors spread everywhere and both sides denied it.

A year later, the two collaborated again in the film "Close Lover", and the scandal heated up again, but the parties still did not respond.

It was not until 20 14 that it was revealed by the media that Xu and he had lived together in Taipei, and Xu was considered as the default relationship.

He generously admitted in Weibo: "You haven't blushed or quarreled for five years, which is really something. The right person is to make you a better person. "

It can be seen that the two have been together for five years, and their relationship has become public.

Later, Xu went to Taiwan to spend New Year's Eve with his parents, while Xu and Xu were photographed at the Shanghai airport. They also look like an "old couple" and don't care about the existence of paparazzi and cameras.

Xu should have met her Mr. Right this time.

As she said, "I am often ill, and you will always have medicine."

Although the two are still unmarried, after ten years of companionship, they are increasingly inseparable from each other.

Getting married is not a very important thing for Xu. The important thing is that two people are happy and free together.

These views are the same as those of Huang Lixing, which is why they have been in love for so long.

Everyone has a different attitude towards feelings, so love looks different.

As long as love is right, everything is fine.