Sometimes, even if you don't confess, your actions betray you. A girl is not a fool, but she can still tell whether you like her or not.
When you continue to pursue a girl, only to find that she has no feelings at all, you should know that you really can't attract her now.
A woman can be moved, but she will never fall in love with someone because she is moved.
Even if we are forced to be together, when the heat drops one day and you can't touch her anymore, breaking up is an inevitable result.
Besides, when you find that a person you don't like loves you, emotional pressure such as guilt and bondage will make you want to stay away from him. Everything he does is ulterior motives in your eyes.
From this perspective, many people pursue a girl who doesn't love herself. The ways and means used are all putting pressure on each other, that is, pushing away the distance between you.
To change this situation, the first thing to do is to stop "chasing her"!
If you are not mistaken, don't chase her, at least don't let the other person think that you still like her in words and deeds.
The purpose of this is to eliminate conflicts and contradictions between you, stop losses in time, and re-stabilize your relationship as friends.
Don't think that she will lose her because she knows that you don't like her, because you have never got her, and many things are just your fantasy, which adds to your troubles.
Think about why girls and friends can chat in Kan Kan-because there is no pressure.
What girls resist most is pressure, so the first step is to release the pressure between you and give each other a buffer.
The second step is to make progress by retreating, remolding and attracting many people to ignore the stage of having a friend before falling in love.
Girls are slow-heating, and this stage we attract is often in the case of friendship.
Imagine that when a girl you don't like pursues you frequently, it bothers you. Suddenly one day she gave up, what would you do?
Suddenly relaxed, but also a little uncomfortable, after all, human nature is cheap.
At this time, you may be a little curious. Why did he suddenly give up? Is it because I am not talkative and coquettish enough, or do you think highly of Pang Hu?
So this stage is to retreat and rebuild the attraction. You need to examine yourself, what is the reason that doesn't attract her.
If the appearance and temperament can't meet each other's requirements, then improve yourself from the outside to the inside and change your new image. Ugliness is not the root cause at all.
To paraphrase a girl, there are no ugly men in the world, only lazy men. A person's appearance depends more on your hairstyle, clothes and temperament.
If you want someone to love you, you must first learn to love yourself. A beautiful hairstyle and costume will even affect your confidence and aura.
Just like when I was a child, every time I put on new clothes for the New Year, I would stand up straight and pay attention to my words and deeds, because at that time I thought I should be worthy of this new suit.
If the life state and communication methods can't meet each other's requirements, then love life again, socialize more, enrich your life, improve your communication skills, or come to me to learn chat skills.
Why do we like to be close to someone? Men are mostly attracted by girls' appearance, while girls are more attracted by boys' living conditions and inner personality.
In other words, when she wants to know about your life, and even wants to participate in your life, this is the beginning of your real contact and attraction.
At this time, it is to build yourself with what you like, but not for her, but to really improve yourself, otherwise girls will still be under pressure.
Just like girls like literature, suddenly you know a lot of literature, even with great connotation, which will naturally narrow the distance between you.
But if you only wear flip-flops for a few days and stay at home to play online games, girls will have no desire to touch you.
Therefore, the clear purpose of the second step is to be her real friend, and never expose any sense of need for her, so that girls can find the bright spot in you.
The third step is to break the comfort and enter an ambiguous relationship. When the second attraction is established, you will intuitively feel that there are more and more connections between girls and you.
In other words, you will become really good friends.
But this process must not be too long, otherwise you will really become her male best friend, and it will be difficult to jump out of the friendship zone.
Therefore, in this process, you should accurately judge the window period of a girl and selectively upgrade your ambiguous relationship when she is in a good mood.
Including the usual communication, talking more about love and gender topics, teasing each other appropriately, vague language and moderate physical contact, so that girls can get used to the intimate relationship between you imperceptibly.