Let's first analyze why some people think that 30+ girls have no market in marriage and love. Some people say that the essence of marriage is transaction, so there is nothing wrong with comparing marriage to the market. Out of the instinct of racial continuity, marriage is to have children. After the age of 30, women's fertility will drop sharply. There used to be a popular joke that no matter whether a boy is 18, 28, 38 or 88, he likes a little girl with 18. This joke sounds funny at first, but if you dig deeper, you will find that this concept is a bit smelly. Jokes come from life. In fact, men really prefer the kind of young and beautiful girls.
When women reach the age of 30, there will be fewer men to choose from, so some people will feel that there is no market after the age of 30. After the age of 30, you may still be in the prime of life, and you will add more mature charm, but compared with the girls in their early twenties, you are a little less aura. So some men will pursue younger girls instead of their sisters. And in general, women will find men who are older or the same age as their partners, and of course a small number like sister-in-law love. Boys look down, girls look down, resulting in too few people to choose from for a 30-year-old sister.
Some people say that they are left behind because they are too picky, but I think this is not picky, but an obsession with a better life. It's just that she didn't meet the right person in her twenties. In your thirties, you may not meet them. In the journey of life, some people decide to find a fixed partner at the age of 20, while others choose to stay in this position and continue to wait for the most suitable person, so they may miss many people or have excellent ones. Just like the ears of rice in the wheat field, what we can catch with our hands is not necessarily the best.
After the age of 30, you can appropriately lower your requirements, but there is no need to let yourself go. We don't need to tell our sisters what to do. After all, marriage is a personal matter. The above is my personal opinion. To sum up, 30+ women can still find partners in the marriage and love market.