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It is said that no one can be young forever, but Elva Hsiao's boyfriends really can, one is younger than the other. I have to admit that she is a "female version of Wang Sicong" and a veritable "fresh meat harvester".
Ask a woman, who doesn't want to be Elva Hsiao? Unfortunately, the strength does not allow!
After all, the people of Elva Hsiao are happy because they are a diva with excellent singing and dancing, online image and charm, and the key is not bad money.
He is a rich second generation and inherited hundreds of millions of assets from his mother. What we ordinary people lack is not only these, but also the tireless concept and mentality of harvesting fresh meat one after another.
Look at Elva Hsiao's concept of love. Generally speaking, it is: believe in love, pursue it bravely if you like it, and never hide it. In love, I also pay great attention to my own growth, with a high degree of self-discipline and unambiguous fitness exercise. Of course, there are also high standards and strict requirements for lovers.
Recently, Elva Hsiao's boyfriend Huang Hao, who is 0/6 years old, vomited blood and was sent to hospital, which attracted much attention. She asked her boyfriend to be diligent, learn acting and practice piano. Mother-like "finding a husband to become a dragon" can be described as well-intentioned, but it makes the little boyfriend quite stressed.
My sister has to ride the wind and waves, but my little boyfriend can't sit back and relax. I changed from an 18-line artist to a diva's boyfriend, because I was touched by her light and enjoyed the high-quality resources she brought. If I don't work hard to be excellent, how can I get into my sister's eyes in the future?
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To tell the truth, I admire Elva Hsiao very much. She can bear and let go of her feelings and never feel sorry for herself. Breaking up with so many exes, there are almost no scenes of swearing and tearing each other.
This is the most valuable. When you love each other wholeheartedly, when you realize that you don't love each other, it doesn't matter, you don't pester each other, and breaking up is also a friend.
Remember, the famous Xu also loved, let go, resented and entangled, and became friends and good brothers with his predecessors Shuo and Zhang Yadong. This kind of mind and pattern is beyond our reach.
In life, many people think that men can find a little girl and even have a love affair with their grandchildren. Double-label women are really insulting and solid. "Only state officials are allowed to set fires, and people are not allowed to light lamps." I can't hide a woman looking for small fresh meat.
If men tend to be young, beautiful, gentle or sexy young girls, it is understandable that women like young, energetic and hormonal boys.
There is nothing wrong with men and women, loving what I love, not hurting the innocent, and not breaking the law and discipline. Between men and women, it is personal ability and personal will, not just age. True respect and equality are sometimes easier said than done.
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The progress of society makes women more and more independent and liberated in ideology, economic ability and social status, which provides more possibilities for their lives and even mate selection. Don't say that age is not a problem, even the situation that women are strong and men are weak is nothing.
As for what kind of love you want, the new girls all have their own opinions on how to be happy. What kind of lover to find, when to fall in love, when to get married and when to have children, we don't want to be directed by others, just feel that everything is decided by ourselves, not by others.
But don't forget that if you want to "do whatever you want", you must be self-reliant and economically independent, and you can't lose your proud capital and confidence.
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Speaking of "women are strong and men are weak", it really subverts the traditional stereotype of men and women falling in love. In reality, "women are strong and men are weak" is a special existence, which can attract more attention and public opinion than the conventional collocation of men and women.
The two sides really can't bear it without a certain psychological endurance, especially for men who are in a "weak position", and their ability to withstand pressure should be first-class.
If there is something wrong with the love between a strong woman and a weak man. It is because the two sides did not see the situation clearly and overestimated their ability to withstand pressure. Many times, it is men who feel stressed, feel that they are living under the aura of a strong woman, depressed and want to escape.
At that time, Ma Yili, a minor celebrity, married an article about her 8-year-old self, but she was unknown. This feeling is not taken seriously by the outside world at all.
This is a typical "strong woman and weak man" in people's eyes, but Ma Yili supported her husband wholeheartedly. Later, the article made a small achievement, but she cheated on Yao Di.
What Ma Yili did and cherished really upset the people who ate melons. Ma Yili devoted himself to his career, polished his acting skills, won numerous awards, and ushered in a highlight moment. Five years later, Ma Yili chose to divorce, and she became a mistress.
If a man betrays and runs away, a girl should remember to stop the loss in time. He wasted your love and consumed your energy. You must have the courage and confidence to fight.
In fact, there is no fixed pattern of love. Strong women and weak men also have a sweet look.
Luyu made an appointment to interview Chen Lihua, a wealthy businessman. In the program, the gentle Tang Priest has been standing beside Chen Lihua, handing her water, wiping her sweat and helping each other to cross the threshold. He silently guarded his wife, and his eyes were full of love.
Chen Lihua's husband, Zhong Ruichi, is the actor of Tang Priest in the TV series The Journey to the West. In reality, he is pursued by many girls. In order to eat "Tang monk meat", Chen Lihua, who was divorced and took care of her children, also got up the courage to pursue it actively and finally got happiness.
Look at this "strong woman, weak man", what outsiders see is so superficial. I don't know that in the hearts of lovers, each has its own advantages and disadvantages. You know me, I understand you, and we need each other.
They have been working hand in hand for 30 years, and they also call each other "Chairman" and "Mr. Chi". They always respect and care for each other. This is the way they get along.
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It is said that intimate love is the most ideal. Reality often backfires.
Tu Lei once said: "The key for many couples to have a happy marriage and a harmonious family relationship is that a truly powerful person does not hesitate to show his weakness. A seemingly weak person can actually be strong at a critical time.
Indeed, I quite agree.
No matter men or women, there is always a strong strategy in intimate relationships. The strong side will unconsciously give orders to the other half.
You know, even if the other half is silent, it doesn't mean they don't have ideas in their hearts.
In short, in feelings, the two sides neither "bully others" nor look on coldly. It is true love and only cherish.
Just let it be, just like my social elder sister, if you love, you should love well, if you don't love, you should get together and leave well, and be considerate of each other.
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Author: Mei Meichen
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