Fortunately, this situation is not once or twice. I have often faced this dilemma since high school. Now I have more and more ability to "turn the tide".
I did well in the mid-term exam. Originally, I wanted to go to No.1 Middle School, but No.2 Middle School offered me more favorable terms: the first tuition fee reduction, plus a Li Ka-shing scholarship. Then the first year of high school basically didn't cost the family money. From the second year of high school, the monthly living expenses are 600, covering all expenses.
Although I know that if I have to pay tuition and miscellaneous fees, I can "rightfully" ask for them from home, but I don't want to. It's not that my parents won't give it to me. I think if I want them, they will save money to send them to me even if they don't eat or drink. If so, I'd rather save myself. It turns out that my reasonable planning can make me live well.
Plan every expenditure in advance every month. A lunch at school is a set meal, 7 yuan (of course better and cheapest). This meal is fixed, a bowl of porridge in the morning and evening, 1 yuan, plus a steamed bread or a steamed bread, 1 yuan, a meal is 2 yuan. The daily meal fee should be at least 1 1 yuan. 60 yuan has a fixed monthly round-trip fare for holidays, the rest is miscellaneous expenses for buying books and learning equipment, and the rest is left in the card for emergency. Later this month, later next month, when I was in senior three, I successfully helped me through the crisis of paying all kinds of information fees from time to time and avoided putting all my living expenses in.
The living expenses of universities have risen to 1000 per month (prices have also risen), but we still plan the necessary expenses and the proportion of various expenses every month like high schools, and then we can still make some money every month. Then the university can go out to work part-time, even if it encounters such a large fee for driving school, it can cope without asking for extra money from home, and it will basically not expose its predicament. Some accidents happened this main summer vacation, and then they happened.
Without money, it's no use lying in bed crying and thinking about life every day. Money won't go into your pocket, but now that you have a good life, you should live well. Don't let others see that you are poor.
Lack of money often happens, but I want to have the attitude and ability to settle down even if I am poor.
"Haha, it seems that I can't lose weight this year!" Teasing with a friend on the phone, the friend sighed and said, "Seeing that you are getting better every day, I really can't see that you have no money!" To be honest, I don't know how rich your family is! "
There is a joke in Weibo that says:
Don't let money get in the way, a good life is not that expensive! There are some beautiful things that you can have without spending money.
Quiet, no noise, no noise. When thirsty, take a cup to get hot water to drink; Tired, stand up and find a good book; It's cold, find a place with the sun.
Don't worry about writing a few words in the dormitory, someone will trouble you to pass this, and it won't be like going to the bathroom for a while, drinking water for a while, and not doing much in the bathroom all morning. In the library, you can concentrate on writing, concentrate on writing, be elated and enjoy writing.
It seems that I like to copy what I have written since I was a child, from a small notebook to a big notebook, from the exercise book issued by the school to the beautiful notebook I bought, from keeping a diary to writing a notebook now. Anyway, I think when I do this, looking at those beautiful sentences, my dream will grow with joy. When can I write such wonderful words?
Before, I was a person who seldom made friends and entered QQ space. I always feel that I have nothing to share. Just live your own life and do your own thing. What's there to say? I thought sharing meant showing off and having nothing to do.
Until one day I wanted to go back and look at my past, but I couldn't find it at all. Seven years after QQ was launched, only 82 messages were sent. At that time, I felt that sharing beauty was more about recording my own growth.
This year, I learned to take pictures, record and share. While doing this, I also have higher requirements for myself, forcing myself to become better and better, as beautiful as I see in the photo.
After all, showing off also needs capital, otherwise it will only make people feel disgusted and be the biggest deception to themselves. What's the point?
I am the kind of person who looks confident, but in fact, I often lack confidence and have great doubts about myself. I am always confused and at a loss. I feel that everyone around me is so awesome, and I am the only one standing still and marking time. It's not good to be too confident, even if you don't have confidence, but people still have to have some confidence in themselves.
At the end of 20 16, I read the book "Qian Qian the Dog" and learned to set up a "awesome file" for myself. In fact, it is not a bullish thing, but a reminder of what you can do. After April, I started to keep a diary and wrote "Little Lucky" every day. In the cat group, I wrote "Today is fierce" at the back.
Slowly, I no longer belittle myself, think highly of myself, and doubt myself for no reason. Do the planned things in a down-to-earth manner every day, not in a hurry, step by step, slowly and steadily.
If you are also confused about the present and have no expectation for the future, you might as well take an afternoon, take out a piece of paper and make a note. From primary school to now, you have won those awards and been encouraged by that teacher. Those people said something to you, and you have changed a lot. Write it down, you will find, wow, I am still good, I believe I can be better in the future!
I don't know where I saw it, but I don't think there is a lack of stairs. Mainly for a person with short legs, besides breaking the leg and lengthening it, having a stiff ass is the only way. Hips can really lengthen the legs a lot of visual effects. You can't blame your parents for your short legs, you can only work hard by yourself.
Start running in March. Up to now, I have run 742 kilometers in the pleasure circle. At first, I ran at intervals of one or two kilometers, then I ran 5+ kilometers every day, and now I have reduced 10+ kilometers. I've lost 12 kg, and I have a vest line on my stomach.
I don't remember where I saw this sentence: "I don't want to lose weight, I just want my soul to live comfortably!" " "It is true that although I started doing these things with the goal of losing weight, now I have a more" lofty "goal. I want to have a beautiful skin first, and then it is interesting to cultivate my soul.
I don't know what I like, maybe I haven't tried many. If I try more, I will know what I really love. You won't get pregnant if you try, and these courses are free. I don't study much, and I always feel that I can't sleep well at night.
My roommate's fleshy body grew a big tree, so I pulled out a leaf below and transplanted it into a small pot. Every time my eyes are tired, I will drop a few drops of water on the windowsill to loosen the mud. I don't know why, I like succulents more and more, probably because it's called succulents, and I'm quite succulent, so I have a good impression. In fact, I also like its tenacious life. As long as a leaf is inserted in the soil, it can grow well. Life is "rough", but it looks so delicate, which I appreciate.
I don't know if it's a girl's natural sense of direction or something. Anyway, I somehow became a serious road idiot. My mother directly called me stupid, and I walked several times. Turning around, I don't know the southeast and northwest. She's worried about me.
I'm afraid I'll get lost when I go out, so the university has been in this small town for almost three years. I have never been out alone. I went out by bus with my friends, and they went in the same direction.
I know the advantages of having a house, such as being able to do what I like quietly, and I have deeply realized this kind of good, but in my heart, I have the lofty sentiments of taking dreams as horses and fighting for the world. After all, the world is so big that I really want to see it.
But I dare not even go for a walk in a small town. How can we go further?
Then I started to go out by myself, holding the mobile phone map and starting to walk. Then I walked aimlessly, watching while walking, and then I found that the imaginary place was not that far away. In another world, I am not surprised.
There are many Huang Guolan in the school, but I can't remember when they opened. I only vaguely remember the big flower, which is very white and big. I think seeing Huangguoshu always reminds me of Huangguoshu Waterfall.
On the way to the library, I saw yellow leaves all over the ground, a large golden color, which was complete. I picked up a piece and put it in the book. I didn't expect them to complement each other. This is a natural bookmark, very beautiful!
Chatting with my sister, chatting and chatting, my sister suddenly said in a teacher's tone: "Nowadays, students write in general!" I smiled, and she said, "Sister, our teacher said that a senior wrote a resume because of his good handwriting, and then he was admitted among many people." Anyway, there's no harm in practicing calligraphy, sister. Practice it well! "
This is the handwriting of a sixth-grade child in a counseling institution. I've practiced this every night for years. What a pity!
Seeing such a passage in an article, I feel really beautiful.
Walking in this world, we can't flow forever, we can't stay in Ma Pingchuan forever, but we can explore the beauty of life forever. The most important thing is that we can't stay poor forever, and there will always be a moment when there is a bright future.
This month I got my tutor's salary last month, found a part-time job I like, and earned the first "huge sum" of extra money in my life through writing (compared with other part-time jobs I have done). You see, life will get better and better, won't it?
I hope that no matter what, we will not break with the United States!
I am a slightly crazy Rinrin, a Libra born after 1995, and a girl with a dream list. I firmly believe that reading and writing can make me feel a little special. I like to accumulate a little hope for the future. I believe in the power of slow, calm and flowing water!