Xiao Y complained to me that the more she worked, the more she felt that she didn't want it, but she couldn't live without it. She uttered several "alas" in a row, and I could see her tangled expression through the screen.
If she wants to leave, I have heard her say so more than once in the six months that she has been in this job. But in the past, she was reluctant to leave because of rent, utilities and daily necessities. Recently, she made a mistake at work, and the supervisor cleaned up a lot of trouble for her, so she couldn't leave.
The most important thing is that she clearly knows what she wants, and she knows that the current road is wrong, but there is no turning back. I advised her to come out as soon as possible, and she said to wait until the supervisor's debt of gratitude was paid off.
The question is, are you finished? After the work is done, there is still work, human feelings or human feelings. As a supervisor, will he only help you at work once?
I think she can feel my deep jealousy through the screen: you just feel young.
Because I am young, because it is my first job, I feel that I still have time to make mistakes and have a chance to correct them.
However, when you go to your favorite field a year or two later, you are behind from the beginning compared with your colleagues.
(2)
I have neck lines.
It's not my first day to find this problem. When I first entered the beauty salon two years ago, the little girl inside told me. At that time, she said it was not obvious. She told me to pay more attention to my living habits and less attention to the maintenance of my mobile phone, which can be gradually eliminated.
At that time, life was chaotic, and there was no landing for study and work. If you feel empty and lonely, you can't live without brushing your mobile phone and playing computer. I think good living habits, running and fitness, etc. I want to do it with a good mood. A good mood will not exist until my life is on the right track.
So now, on March 8, a few clearly visible wrinkles come out on my neck to wish me a happy holiday. I don't think I can go out without a scarf. I really don't have the confidence to go out with a few meat carving necklaces. I am not that old. Without self-confidence, I immediately found that all bad luck would follow like Bonomy.
I panicked and asked around for improvement methods. The information that appears is still the same as that queried two years ago.
What if I correct it as soon as I find it? I don't think it will be as bad as it is now, if not flawless.
(3)
Why are people unwilling to correct their mistakes in time? We are always stumped by various reasons. At present, we are short of money, reluctant and afraid. When we realize that we are wrong, there are always various subjective and objective factors that hinder us. In fact, is it really difficult to go out for a run and look up at the ceiling to get rid of a bad living habit?
In the final analysis, we are too lazy to break the original rules, because breaking the change means giving up what I am used to, which makes us feel comfortable. The boss of the company is very kind to me, and my colleagues get along well with me. I have a good working atmosphere when I go to work every day, but you don't like my work.
You think you'll look back after you leave. In fact, the deeper you get, the more lazy you are to change. Habit will devour your will, and you will feel that it's been so long and you've done it, so you might as well continue to make mistakes. The point is, you know this road is not for you.
Even if one day you really make up your mind to come out, you know that some mistakes are time-sensitive. The 2-year-old baby walks in the wrong posture. You are afraid that he will hurt him, and you feel uncomfortable. Can he 18 change it?
When I was young, I thought I had enough time to try and make mistakes, but I didn't. Time passed faster than we thought. There is a TED talk that 20 years old will never come back, and 30 years old will not be the beginning of another 20 years old. Every minute we live is unique.
As we all know, he is still a good boy after he has made mistakes, but when he grows up, he lacks that kind of decisiveness. But some things in life can't be bypassed. You will find that the road ahead is still to go, but now it has become more rugged.
Then turn back in time if you are wrong, and don't let your future pay for your present.