First of all, it must be clear that the pursuit of feelings requires the joint efforts and interaction of both sides and cannot be mastered unilaterally. If you want to get a boy's attention and love, you can start from the following aspects: 1. Show your unique charm, including external and internal advantages; 2. Establish good communication with the other party, understand his hobbies and life, and actively share his experiences and ideas; 3. Express your feelings and wishes at the right time and place, but be careful not to appear too active or offend the other party; 4. Respect each other's wishes and choices, and don't be too demanding or entangled. Finally, the development of feelings should also consider the feelings and wishes of both parties, and it is suggested to keep sincerity and self-confidence in the process of getting along, so as to make yourself a trustworthy and reliable partner.