? At first, I just looked at the house and watched love. Because I believe that as long as you work hard, there will be a house and love. When the house price is getting higher and higher, and fewer and fewer girls are willing to talk to me about marriage, I feel a little restless. Next thing you know, I started my? House slave? Life: brand-name stores dare not visit; Expenditure on fitness, tourism, etc. It is even more unimaginable; Shopping in the supermarket is cheap and good; The entertainment between friends and colleagues can go or not; Try to take a one-yuan non-air-conditioned car to and from work?
Listen to the woman first: why should we care about this? Room?
Miss Ma: Married! I want to have my own nest!
It is said that women before the age of 25 choose love and women after the age of 25 choose houses. This sentence is really classic. My husband and I are 28 years old this year, and now we are both in Shenzhen. My husband graduated from graduate school and has been working for three and a half years now. The total income is about 1.6 million (maybe it should be 220 thousand? But about 60 thousand's commission card is in their boss's hand, and he has zero deposit at present, alas I have been with my husband for 5 years. I am in my prime, but he is still a poor man with zero savings. However, I still hope to have a nest of my own at the age of 30 to realize my little happiness. Isn't that too much? !
Ms. Fang: Three years of love was ruined by this house!
In May 2008, we took a fancy to a moderately priced house and prepared to pay a down payment. I prepared my money early and told him to get it ready and send it on Saturday. However, I never expected that he didn't bring 50 thousand yuan, but he sent his mother's message: if they want their family to pay 50 thousand yuan, they must register first, otherwise they can't. I felt ashamed at that time, because it was a matter of course to sign up, and their family took 50 thousand yuan on the condition of signing up. Now, I still want to talk to him about how to solve the problem, but he has begun to avoid me and stop contacting me.
Fangfang: I bought a house and scared away all the men who didn't have a house.
As soon as I graduated from college, I asked my parents? A loan? Bought a house of more than 90 square meters. At that time, I thought: now that I have bought a house, even if I get married, I will have a shelter after quarreling with my in-laws! After work, I look like a strong woman. How can we make money? A loan? . However, after buying a house, I found a cruel reality: the boyfriend I talked about in college left me. I care about my feelings. I asked my boyfriend why he broke up with me. The boyfriend said:? I don't like living with a strong woman who has a house. ?
I heard the man say: there is no room, so I have to live like this.
Get married because we have a house; We don't get married because we don't have a house yet. Ask your parents. At that time, most of them were marriage proposals. Dear, the unit has to write two people's names if it wants to divide the room. Then let's go through the formalities. ?
Xiao Wang: High housing prices make our love more and more blurred.
? Xiaoman, don't be fooled! Now the house price is 6000, which is a high point, and the real estate bubble will soon burst. Why buy a house at this time? Believe me, wife, it's time to buy a house in another year, and get married when you buy a house. Honey, you must just hold your horses and don't want a woman's opinion. Look at the attitude of the sales girl, you can't let her succeed! ?
It's not that I don't want to buy a house and marry her, but I can't imagine the days when we are struggling to repay the mortgage. Can our vague love stand the test of reality?
Mr. Zhao: Although we love each other, we divorced for the house.
One day, she came and said in a panic: the bureau will build a fund-raising house for employees. Everyone paid 30 thousand yuan first and asked me if I had any money. She is still short of 8000 yuan. I gave her 8000 yuan without saying anything. The money was paid and the house was almost built, but the trouble came again. She came to me in a panic and said it was broken. The people in the housing management office got back the key to the new house they just issued. I asked: What's the matter? She said that someone reported that her two public houses did not meet the relevant regulations and could not be assigned to this fund-raising house. I hesitated for a long time, then gritted my teeth and said, ok, let's get a divorce!
Lao Qin: I don't have a house now, but I have love
I had dinner with her parents the other day and mentioned the house again. This time is different from the first half of the year. At that time, when her father went to see it, the house in that community said it was sold. If you buy it, you need to find an acquaintance. The room type is not necessarily the one you are satisfied with. With such a high housing price, LP and I worked hard. With the support of our parents, although we could afford it, we still needed a loan, which affected our quality of life in the future. So we can only wait! I believe there are many people like me in China.
Between love and house, everyone has his own choice.
Love and house should never be equated. House is a material that writers have always ignored in historical love masterpieces from ancient times to the present. The current generation can only save enough money to buy one or two square meters after working for one year. This is the dilemma faced by most young people in China at present, which is really depressing. Depressed young people like this can be found everywhere in cities in China. When it comes to houses, I am distressed: I don't lack anything now, so I need money. If I have money, I can buy a house and marry a wife. ?
And the girl's mother often teaches her baby daughter in her ear for her daughter's happiness? For the sake of her daughter's lifelong happiness, if you want to have a car and a house with a man, at least you have to have a house, otherwise your mother will not be at ease and watch you suffer. ?
The house has become an important bargaining chip for love to lead to marriage. For friends whose economic foundation is not very good or whose family environment is not very rich, a house is a painful and unforgettable choice between love.
On the balance of love and house, the weight of an ant will affect the final balance. It is not uncommon for lovers who have been in love for many years to choose a house between love and house and throw themselves into the arms of others. Give up the temptation of the house, pursue the supremacy of love, and share joys and sorrows with their children. In the years of working hard for the house together, I still face the suffering of helplessness and reality. House, house, someone is happy for you and someone is worried about you! Someone gets hurt for you, someone bends over for you, and the house changes your life unconsciously.