0- 1 year-old baby's mother should do 1, intellectual development 1. Talk to the baby from the moment he was born. Experiments show that adults talk more to their babies, and babies talk earlier. 1.2 Help your baby learn to crawl. In addition to physical coordination, crawling can also promote the baby's thirst for knowledge and expand the scope of safety knowledge. 1.3 Learn a few small games and spend at least half an hour playing games with your baby every day, whether he can or not. 1.4 Choose several educational toys to bring more happiness and knowledge to your baby. 1.5 Read or tell stories to your baby every day. It's not too complicated to say, and it doesn't need to be changed every day. A simple story that can be told over and over again. Experts' words: 0- 1 year old is the awakening period of the baby's physical, psychological and social consciousness after birth, from chaos to enlightenment, from ignorance to exploration and cognition. If you can get appropriate stimulation and encouragement from the outside world as soon as possible, you can maximize the development of your baby's multiple intelligences. 2, emotional intelligence education 2. 1 mother personally holds the baby at least 1 hour every day, 6 months ago, if possible, skin contact for 2 hours every day. 2.2 Smile, always smile, and let the baby learn to smile. 2.3 Let the baby learn to wait. Let the baby know that it is necessary to wait properly, waiting for hugs, waiting for milk and waiting for toys. 2.4 Make eye contact with your baby. Babies who grow up under such spiritual exchanges are better at establishing harmonious relationships with others. 2.5 Take your baby to a competition, such as climbing and shouting. Let the baby have a sense of competition from an early age and know how to have fun from competition. Expert's words: the baby's personality is shaped by parents bit by bit. For a 0- 1 year-old baby, parents should not think that he doesn't understand and there is no need to teach him. The success of tutoring is closely related to parents' oral expression. Especially the tone and posture of parents and babies will have a far-reaching impact on babies. 3. Health maintenance 3. 1 Go to the hospital regularly for children's health check-up and planned immunization. 3.2 Buy a dining chair for your baby and gradually cultivate his good habit of eating regularly. 3.3 Keep the living environment clean. /kloc-before the age of 0, the baby spends most of his time indoors, so it is very important to create a clean and tidy home environment. 3.4 Do more touching and aerobic exercise for your baby, so that your baby's immunity will be enhanced and your physique will be better. 3.5 After birth, you can start swimming and hydrotherapy. Water is a baby's natural favorite, and it also has unexpected effects. 3.6 When you are with your baby, wash your makeup and contact your baby in the cleanest and kindest way. From the age of 3.7 0, protect the baby's teeth. Although deciduous teeth will be replaced in the future, the health of deciduous teeth directly affects the health of the baby. 3.8 Before 1 year-old, cultivate the baby to have a regular work and rest, because the habits in infancy are the most ingrained. 3.9 When you are half a year old, take your baby for an eye examination, and then check it regularly to make sure that there is nothing wrong with your baby's eyes. 3. 10 Don't put shoes on your baby until you learn to walk. A pair of non-slip socks can completely survive the previous days, so that the baby's little feet can get the most ample room for growth. Expert's words:/kloc-baby care before 0/year old is perfect as long as you pay attention to the following three points. ● Good appetite and rich nutrition. If you find that your baby doesn't like to eat, you should first check whether he is sick. Because many diseases will show loss of appetite. ● Lively and happy during the day and sleep at night. If the baby is abnormal during the day, has no spirit, and always sleeps uneasily at night, it is necessary to find a doctor for examination and treatment. ● Good physique and strong disease resistance. 4. Nutrition plan: 4. 1.6 months ago, insist on breastfeeding. Breast milk contains all the nutrients needed by newborns, which is easier to digest and absorb than any other baby food. 4.2 6 months, be sure to add complementary food to your baby. The energy in breast milk and milk powder can no longer meet the needs of baby's growth and development. 4.3 It is necessary to ensure a few hours of sunshine bath every week, which will stimulate the skin and make it produce vitamin D..4.4 Making your own baby juice and vegetable juice is more nutritious and healthier than buying it in ready-made shopping malls. 4.5 Fruit juice cannot replace fruit. After adding complementary food, taking 2-3 fruits a day can make your baby have good skin. 4.6 Use natural foods as snacks for your baby, such as boiled carrots, a few soft boiled peanuts, shelled walnuts, etc. Snacks in the supermarket are not children's food. 4.7 Buy a nutrition cookbook for your child and cook according to the above method. Expert's words: whether the baby is breast-fed or breast-fed, the nutrition of breast milk or milk can't meet their growth and development needs after half a year. Therefore, it is necessary to add high-calorie complementary food to the baby to ensure the healthy growth of the baby. 5, parent-child life 5. 1 Give the baby a quiet and peaceful environment. 5.2 Record the baby's growth with words, pictures, sounds, etc. When the baby grows up, you will find how precious these things are. 5.3 In the first year of raising a baby, you don't have to go out to work, but don't neglect to enrich yourself at any time. 5.4 Save a set of clothes worn by the baby as a child and give it to him as a birthday present when he 18 years old. 5.5 Pay attention to the role of the father. It is best for the baby to communicate as much as the mother, so that the baby will be more cheerful when he grows up. Expert's words: From 4 months, the baby can know his mother, and at 6 months, he begins to know strangers. Knowing strangers marks the beginning of parent-child attachment, and it also shows that babies need to build more complex social emotions, personalities and abilities on the basis of attachment to their parents. Generally speaking, most 8-month-old babies are a little cautious or afraid when they meet strangers. The baby's acceptance of strangers reached its peak in 8- 12 months, and then gradually weakened. It should be noted that these months are a crucial period for babies and parents to form a strong parent-child relationship. 1-What the mother of a 2-year-old baby should do1,intellectual development 1. 1 Prepare a special study space for the baby, put his books and toys, and don't put anything else. 1.2 Tell your baby a useful story before going to bed, preferably interactively, and cultivate his imagination. 1.3 Give the baby enough space. When someone asks about your baby, don't rush to answer for him. Be sure to give him time to think. 1.4 seriously answer every question raised by the baby. If you don't understand, tell him that his mother doesn't understand either, and then discuss it together. 1.5 Play with toys correctly. If necessary, learn how to play with a children's toy first, and then teach the baby patiently. 1.6 Let the baby learn to pick up toys by himself. Although it will take him 65,438+0 hours to finish the work, it may take you a few minutes to finish it, so don't bother. 1.7 Creating opportunities for babies to solve some "difficult problems" by themselves is a good way to cultivate their will and develop their wisdom. 1.8 expose your baby to languages other than your mother tongue, such as English. Expert's words: Every baby's potential is basically the same, and how smart a baby can become when he grows up depends on his study the day after tomorrow. The more learning opportunities, the more brain potential development; The sooner learning opportunities are provided, the sooner the baby's intelligence improvement will begin and the sooner the baby will become smarter. 2. EQ education 2. 1 Put an end to accusations. Even if the baby makes a mistake, there is a better education method than blaming. 2.2/kloc-Babies over 0/year old always say something "disrespectful". Don't laugh it off just because it's fun, but tell the baby seriously. This is not right, otherwise there will be many annoying little troubles in your life in the future. 2.3 1 year-old babies sometimes make unreasonable demands on adults. Treat it seriously and correctly, and let the baby know that everyone should restrain their behavior, and not everything can be done. 2.4 when raising a baby, adults should keep the same opinion, and there should be no role differentiation of red face and white face. 2.5 Please pay attention to correct the baby's habit of asking for things from others, and don't think that the baby is not sensible and let it go. 2.6 To cultivate the baby's love, parents should have a kind heart, and the baby can imitate and experience the love of parents and gradually gain love. 2.7 Cultivate faith. Young babies can't talk about faith, but they have their own childish plans and wishes, which should be encouraged. Expert's words: to cultivate your baby's emotional intelligence, high education is not necessarily an important condition. If the baby is creative, knows how to get along with others easily and can tolerate high pressure, then he can better adapt to the changing social environment. 3. Health maintenance 3. 1 Take the baby for physical examination regularly and closely observe the height, weight and organ development. Even if there is developmental disorder, it can be nipped in the bud. 3.2 Before the baby is 2 years old, it is necessary to develop the habit of regular defecation. After this period, this habit will continue until he is 4 years old. 3.3 Before the age of 2, the baby is required to complete the hand washing process by himself. 3.4 Control the time your baby watches TV. You can't let your baby watch TV for a long time just because you want to avoid doing other things. 3.5 Teach your baby simple basic knowledge of safety, such as not touching boiled water or spinning fans. 3.6 Learn some basic first aid knowledge for your baby. In times of crisis, timely nursing is very important. 3.7 If the baby is ill, please put everything down to accompany him. 3.8 Help your baby to establish good sleep habits. 1-2 years old's sleep habits will affect his life. 3.9 Pay attention to the baby's bad mood. Most of the bad feelings of the baby before the age of 2 are that the needs are not met. Find the reason in time. 3. 10 Choose healthy and comfortable clothes for your baby, and don't wear leather shoes and nylon clothes for your baby. Expert's words: 1-2-year-old baby's health care is the most important thing, and it is necessary to strictly distinguish it from adult's nursing habits. Remember that the baby at this stage is not suitable for accepting the healthy habits of adults, and there must be special and targeted maintenance to take care of the baby. 4, nutrition program 4. 1 At least one dish per meal is specially made for the baby. 4.2 Add less seasoning to the baby's dishes, and basically use a small amount of salt as the main and only seasoning. Limit sweets. 4.3 Refuse any drinks, such as cola, fruit milk, etc. 4.4 Remember to drink at least 400 ml of fresh boiled water every day to help your baby develop the habit of drinking water. 4.5 Ensure the daily intake of dairy products. 1-2 years old can try fresh milk. Others, such as cheese, are also good sources of nutrition. Expert's words: 1-2-year-old baby's digestive ability is gradually increasing, and the diet has changed from milk to mixed food, but the baby's digestive system is still immature. The food made should be soft and delicate, not only to adapt to the baby's digestive ability, but also to arouse the baby's appetite. 5, parent-child life 5. 1 No matter how busy you are at work every day, you should leave your baby an hour. During this hour, listen to your baby's voice. 5.2 Get rid of your bad habits, such as swearing, smoking and drinking. 5.3 Improve their own ideological and moral cultivation, and self-education is the most powerful way for parents to influence their babies. 5.4 Learn some physiology, child psychology, pedagogy, etc. Only when parents have a solid foundation can they educate their babies well. 5.5 From now on, buying insurance for your baby can not only protect your baby, but also save money for your baby to study or travel. Expert's words: Early education is a kind of zero-distance education, which especially needs our care, patience and love. Once a developmental parent-child relationship is formed between parents and babies, early education is one of them. 1-2 years old to establish a good parent-child relationship can lay a solid foundation for future education. What the mother of a 2-3-year-old baby should do is 1, and the intellectual development is 1. Let the baby choose his hobbies, let him feel that he has autonomy, and don't force him to do things he doesn't like. 1.2 Take the baby to the bookstore once a month, and bring back some books according to the baby's own preferences for him to keep. From the age of 1.3 3, let the baby learn a musical instrument. 1.4 Say "You are great" to your baby every day. Encouraging education is always more effective than compulsory education. 1.5 Encourage your baby to fantasize. Being able to fantasize is a strong evidence of children's intellectual development. 1.6 needs memory training. The baby's head is an undeveloped land, and hard work will pay off. 1.7 Choose a good preschool for your baby to receive formal education. Experts' words: 2-3 years old is the most acute period for babies to learn various skills, so it is also the best time to develop their intelligence. Comprehensive and diverse educational stimulation can get twice the result with half the effort. 2. EQ education 2. 1 Say "I love you" to your baby every day. 2.2 Manage your own marriage and family with more care. 2.3 Give the baby a chance to make his own decisions, such as going out to be a guest, what the owner gives the baby to eat, and not making decisions for him when playing. Let him decide for himself. This can quickly improve the baby's social skills. 2.4 put an end to lying. Even small things should be taken seriously. 2.5 Maintain the baby's self-esteem and restrain vanity. In front of outsiders, try not to say the baby's shortcomings; Similarly, if you really want to praise, you should be subtle. 2.6 The baby correctly understands the separation. As the baby grows up, it is sad to need independence, separation and separation. A positive attitude of adults can make babies more relaxed. 2.7 Find 1-2 good friends for the baby, regardless of age, as long as they get along. Create conditions for the baby to find his friends. Expert's words: A person's emotional intelligence plays an important role in future human relations, leadership, coordination, learning ability, husband-wife relationship and moral standards. Therefore, when the baby is young, it is necessary to cultivate him to form a good emotional intelligence. 3, health care 3. 1 Let the baby do what he can and cultivate his independent personality. After the age of 3.2 2, bathing your baby every day is not only a way to maintain hygiene, but also a way to make your baby confident. 3.3 Prevent dental caries from childhood and pay attention to oral hygiene. 3.4 Pay attention to baby safety, including toy safety and life safety. 3.5 correctly let the baby know his gender and understand the most basic sexual knowledge. 3.6 Pay attention to the baby's psychological activities. The 3-year-old baby has a strong sense of self and has his own thinking ability. At this stage, we should pay special attention to the child's psychology. Experts' words: 2-3-year-old children have more contact with the external environment and adults, and the chances of infection are also increased, but their resistance is low, so the incidence of acute and chronic infectious diseases is high, and it is necessary to strengthen their physical exercise. 4. Nutrition Plan 4. 1 Reject fried videos and provide plenty of fresh and carefully prepared foods to achieve a balanced nutrition. 4.2 Eat tofu at least twice a week. 4.3 I would rather be hungry than have a baby. Eating too much food is far more harmful than starving babies. 4.4 Regular vegetarian diet. It is also necessary for the baby to clean the stomach regularly. The safest and most effective way is to be vegetarian for half a month or one day a week. Experts' words: Children need to eat enough protein, carbohydrates, fat, vitamins and minerals to have a healthy and strong body. If you can provide your baby with a wide range of choices, your baby will definitely get everything he needs. 5, parent-child life 5. 1 rational love baby. Do not spoil or drown, distinguish between right and wrong, and reward and punishment are clear. 5.2 Understand that "it is the father's fault to raise but not teach". Father is an indispensable person in education. 5.3 Don't quarrel in front of the baby. Even if you are full of anger, you must never get angry in front of the baby. An anger may affect the baby's opinion of you. 5.4 Say "OK" more than "No, No" and allow the baby to play in his own way. If the baby does something wrong, explain it clearly, or give him a chance to find out for himself. 5.5 Remember to keep your promise. If you make a promise to your baby, you must keep it. So the baby can trust you. 5.6 Don't be ashamed to say "sorry" to your baby. Everyone makes mistakes, and your baby and parents should be equal. 5.7 Take your baby out to travel regularly to increase your knowledge. 5.8 Create a good family atmosphere. A harmonious and active family is most conducive to the baby's growth. Expert's words: find the baby-this is an important responsibility of parents. The defect of family education in China is that parents lack humanistic care for their babies and real understanding and discovery of their babies, resulting in a generation gap. Therefore, parents of 3-year-old money babies should pay attention to all kinds of changes in their babies and take "discovery" as the top priority.