1. You can learn to accept it

If you don't like your major, change your major. If not, try to study a second major. If you don't have the time and energy to study the second major, then sneak around and learn what you like in private. I studied business administration in college, but my real interest is literature and media. I didn't give up when there was no hope of changing my major. I quickly found a classmate in the Chinese department at the same level in the large group of the school and asked her for their class schedule. Later, as long as there was no class, I would skip class. At first, the classmates in that class would look at me curiously. Later, I was surprised. It is in this case that I followed my Chinese department classmates to finish my favorite courses, such as modern and contemporary literature, literature introduction, contemporary literature history and so on.

After class, if there is no class, I usually go directly to the library. In the library, I searched almost every issue of the school's new reader's abstracts, speeches and eloquence, China geography (personal hobbies, with good pictures), the world of college students, and Liaoning youth (exposure) ... Later, the librarian teacher became familiar with me, and she threw it directly to me when someone was on duty at noon. In this way, after four years of college, I am either on my way to class, in the library or on my way to a part-time job. It's hard. When I am bitter, I force myself to ask myself why I work so hard. Then keep your head down and keep trying. (About why I spell this way, the following article will introduce it in detail, so I won't say much here. )

Therefore, in college, we must learn good self-discipline, know the purpose of coming to college and know our future direction. The greatest significance of college is to teach you that if you know yourself, you will become better than yesterday.

Therefore, the most important thing in going to college is that you should be clear about your clear position and the direction of your efforts.

You can learn to know yourself.

Here, I give my freshman goal positioning method, hoping to help you.

First, recognize yourself and analyze yourself comprehensively. This is particularly important. Don't think about that bad school for the time being. Your major is not what you like, and the girl you like is not in this city. Don't think about anything that can interfere with you. Then find a quiet place and ask yourself: What do I really need? What kind of job do I like best? What do I want to be in four years? On such a question, you must listen carefully to your inner voice. It doesn't matter if there is no answer at that time. Go back and have a quiet sleep. Maybe the answer will come out the next day. Then record your thoughts in real time. This is the road you will take in the future.

Second, make a reasonable assessment. Make use of all available resources, whether it is the Internet, family, friends, teachers or relatives. You should get the conditions you like and the skills you must have in your future work through various channels. After collecting this information, it's your turn to work. You should sift through this information, make a comprehensive list of the requirements for the job you love, and then make a strict comparison with yourself to see what you have, what you haven't, and what needs to be improved. When you make such a plan systematically, mark out the places where you need to improve and lack, which is the direction you should work hard in the future. I suggest you make a list for convenience and clarity.

At that time, I was completely pregnant with the dream of a writer. By comparison, I found myself with many problems in some aspects:

There are too few readings to ensure continuous input.

2. There is a preference phenomenon. I only like literary books about story types, and I am not interested in others at all, let alone books about medical geology and popular science.

3. Reading methods need to be improved. At that time, my reading method was reading for the sake of reading, thinking that it would be over after reading, and I didn't take notes at all, write reading notes or use them. So the effect is very poor.

4. The mentality is very unstable. It is dangerous to see that books are personal inspirational books that teach you how to get rich quickly in summer vacation.

5. Lazy cancer attacks frequently. I had a good manuscript in my heart, but the excuse was too late. I couldn't rest until the next day, and I lost my mind the next day.

I was shocked when I sorted this out, but it was also a good thing. At least there is so much room for improvement.

Third, make a detailed plan. With the direction of progress and the focus of your own efforts, the next thing will be much easier. At this time, you should make a credible plan according to the statistics made in the second step, consider your current situation reasonably, and set an expected time point for the goal.

Special advice, be sure to find yourself a supervised third party. When you have the right to supervise, you will keep moving forward. When you slack off, he will remind you in time and wake you up from a deep sleep. This person had better be someone you trust, he will be more attentive.

Or you can announce your plans and goals to most people. When you announce this decision to the whole world, they will all be your witnesses. At this time, there is no turning back.

Fourth, go to the field to implement. Learn to break down big goals and integrate them into daily life. Make it a part of your life. Luo Pang once said: The best way to learn is to learn to practice deliberately in the division of labor. As the name implies, it is to break down a big goal into specific small links. Then constantly challenge new difficulties and practice repeatedly in every link. This is the basic way to do anything. This is the way I use it here. I break down my writer's dream into years. What should I do every semester? Then I have to accomplish those small goals every month, and then I have to read a few books every week, write a few reading notes, publish a few articles, revise them several times, and throw a few articles. That's it. Four years in college, I'm not alone with my dreams.

Don't doubt, don't question, don't worry, since you have chosen your favorite distance, you will only seize the time to break the waves and move forward all the way.

As a college student, you have the best time and the most suitable time to struggle, so please cherish it.