Why do some girls feel that actively chasing a boy hurts their self-esteem?
Girls are too sensitive, think too much, and their emotions are easily out of control. It is easy for boys to give themselves an answer. This will be very passive. I have also stepped on this misunderstanding, and more than once. The average girl is very shy and sensitive. If you are not confident in yourself, it is really difficult to chase a boy. I used to be afraid to confess when I was ugly, but I didn't dare to try to chase boys when I became beautiful. As soon as I chat with him, if he doesn't reply to me in time, I wonder if he hates me or laughs at me. If he replies to me, I will sweep away the haze and be overjoyed. The mood fluctuates greatly every day. I was nervous before chatting with him, and I was very cautious when chatting. It's too hard. I've put down my body to pursue you. How can you be so cold to me?