After reading this passage, I think Alyssa Chia is really a happy little woman now.
Not long ago, Alyssa Chia and her husband Jiexiu visited the "One-day Tour in Luyu". Seeing their intimate photos, they are really happy for Alyssa Chia.
As we all know, since Alyssa Chia married the letter of introduction, she has been taking care of her two beautiful daughters at home while working, and the family lives happily.
Lu Yu asked Jiexiu: What's it like to live in a family made up of all girls?
The letter of introduction answered seriously: "I enjoyed it." . When asked whether he loves his daughter or his wife more, Jie Kaixiu smiled and said, What's the answer? Later said: it must be a wife!
His words were questioned by Alyssa Chia, really? You were just thinking! Jiexiu primly "wife, of course! Children will have their own lives in the future. " Seeing the pleasant interaction between two people, I know they have a good relationship.
When Lu Yu has a date with this program, she always asks some emotional questions, and Alyssa Chia is no exception. When talking about her previous marriage and ex-husband in front of the camera, she has always been calm and able to face the past.
In 2004, Alyssa Chia met Sun Zhihao, a rich man. They got pregnant before they got married. After giving birth to their daughter Wu Tongmei, her mother-in-law asked her to have a DNA test. But Alyssa Chia, who loves Sun Zhihao deeply, not only received a DNA test, but was allowed to marry Sun Zhihao after half a year.
However, when she married into a rich family, she did not live a happy life. During this period, she experienced discord between her mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law, her husband kept gossiping, and her mother-in-law disliked her low academic qualifications. After only four years of marriage, they started a divorce war.
In order to win the custody of her daughter, she spent a year fighting this lawsuit, crying in front of the media, completely subverting her resourceful, charming and lovely image on the screen, which made people sympathize with her, but also a little pitiful. Unexpectedly, there is still an unknown side of her in real marriage life, which makes people sigh: money and power are good for marriage, and rice bowls are hard to end. Seeing what happened to her, many people felt sorry for her.
In order to regain her daughter's visiting rights, she also worked hard. When she cried for media support, we could feel her love for her children. Her father died young and had only one younger brother. The disparity between the rich and the poor between the two families is so obvious, which shows how difficult it is for her to go to court. However, she was willing to lose her savings for her daughter's acting, and even divorced for NT$ 26 million in order to get back her daughter's visiting rights. And promised the harsh conditions of "can't leave my daughter for more than 5 days".
The success of a weak woman lies entirely in her tenacity and maternal love, which supported her to win this lawsuit. This battle for women left her exhausted and scarred, which became the most painful memory of her life.
Now, in the face of Lu Yu's question, she admits that when she was a teenager, she had some impulses to do whatever it takes to win custody of her daughter. She said, but if I were myself now, I think I have matured, so I will never handle things like this again.
When people are impulsive, Alyssa Chia is no exception. She is a woman and a mother, and can't leave her children. She paid a heavy price for her daughter. In the process of litigation, she thought that she had a hard time living those days without assistance and family background.
Now, when we look back on her past, we really feel that Alyssa Chia's journey is really not easy. While people sympathize with her, they are also moved by the brilliance of her maternal love.
Fortunately, she is a broad-minded woman. For the sake of her daughter, she learned tolerance and forgiveness.
On June 2nd, 20 19, at her daughter's graduation ceremony, Alyssa Chia left a message to express her feelings: it is selfless love that unites us, which is beautiful. Thanks to my past, I am very satisfied with what I have now. What are the impossibilities in life?
On that day, she and her ex-husband took a group photo with their daughter as a souvenir, giving people the feeling that she was really mature and became more confident and loving.
When talking about the feud with her ex-husband, she said calmly and frankly: I never thought that we would be very peaceful, bless each other, and communicate with each other with eyes and words.
When Lu Yu asked: His hair is a little gray. She said: He is all white.
She said it was a photo that moved me very much. This should be regarded as "laughing when you meet"!
Alyssa Chia is a woman who dares to analyze herself. If that is her pain, she must face it alone and liberate herself.
She said that I have been understanding this matter, so that our relationship will not be antagonistic, we will not make bad friends, and we will not fight for our feelings again. I don't want my child's life future to be full of the words of opposition and resentment in her life blueprint.
From her answer, I can feel that time has taught her to forget the unhappiness of the past, because time can heal wounds best, and forgetting the past is also the best feedback for herself.
In 20 14, she met her Mr. Right Jie Kaixiu in the gym, a man older than her Xiao Jiu, and pursued her persistently. The letter of introduction knows her pain and hardship in those years, and she is ready before pursuing her, so love and protect her. It was his sincerity that moved Alyssa Chia and decided to dedicate the rest of his life to him.
When Lu Yu asked about her present life and her husband, Alyssa Chia choked up when she spoke, which showed that her heart was more grateful and moved by the letter of introduction.
After marrying Jiexiu, she gave birth to two daughters. She devoted all her energy to children's education, cooking elaborate meals for them every day and taking her daughters to do handicrafts.
Alyssa Chia in life has really become what she wants. Very life-like and feminine. Playing with children at home is low-key and satisfying.
The marriage with Jie Kaixiu made her feel safe as a woman. She said, I am greedy and want to be a good mother, a good wife, a good master, and care about every detail and every love.
Alyssa Chia was indeed reborn in the sense of security and love of the letter of introduction.
And Jie Kaixiu is really a careful husband. Although he is older than Alyssa Chia Xiao Jiu, he is particularly mature in cognition and thinking. From his generous appearance at Wu Tongmei's graduation ceremony and his daily love for his eldest daughter at home, we can see that he really treats Alyssa Chia and his daughter, which is really admirable.
As can be seen from Wu Tongmei's birthday wishes to the letter of introduction, their relationship is very friendly.
If you love this woman, you should love all of her and treat your daughter as your own. This is the best thing Jie Kaixiu did as a stepfather.
The letter of introduction is really a good man. No wonder Alyssa Chia burst into tears when she talked to Lu Yu about her current husband. Because he gave her too much love, feelings are not just love, but more about understanding her, tolerating her, caring for her and fighting for her troubles.
Every woman has a demon in her heart. At that time, the war of robbing women seemed calm, but the pain left in Alyssa Chia's heart could not be erased. Sometimes you can forget if you don't want to, but no one will heal your wounds. A letter of introduction is the sunshine in Alyssa Chia's heart. Behind Alyssa Chia's sobs and tears, we can see a man's mind and generosity. She recalled that she was too afraid of losing her relationship with her daughter.
In the process of getting along with each other, Jie Kaixiu will patiently tell her: "It's all over, you are very happy now, with a lot of love, and then you get a lot. Don't always be immersed in that emotion. "
But women are very sensitive. Alyssa Chia, who has experienced a failed marriage, cherishes her happy life now. In her words, "even if my husband appears now, everyone will see happiness around me, but they will still be afraid of losing it."
I can understand her fear of losing. People don't care about getting, but they have so-called loss. Because I have been happy and bitter. Now the happy life, she wants to firmly grasp in her hand, so in her marriage life, the letter of introduction is her the only thrill, a psychologist who came to save her.
Alyssa Chia said to the camera, "My husband told me that you must make yourself excellent so that your children can be excellent."
These simple words can really be deeply rooted in people's hearts. It was her husband's enlightenment and persuasion that made Alyssa Chia walk out of the shadow of the past a little bit, with more smiles on her face, more tenderness in her eyes and more warm love for her mother.
When it comes to the current husband, there are tears of gratitude, but they are all tears of happiness.
Looking through her micro-headlines, I saw that March 6 was Jie Kaixiu's birthday. Alyssa Chia wrote a happy birthday message to her husband, which read as follows:
Her words are meaningful, just as she said: I am not the best model, but a good partner who is most willing to face the past and the future. I don't know what will happen in the future, but thank you for your company at this stage. She deserves praise for this sentence.
I saw a Alyssa Chia who faced life and the past seriously and talked objectively. She has no hatred or complaints. Now she is at peace of mind, feeling the happiness of her family and the love of her husband and children. Only in this way can her daily life be really quiet!