In love, it is never just how good men are to women, but whether men can get married. Attraction? Woman.

For men, career and love are never single-choice topics, but double-choice, and even career is better than love.

A man with a career loses love, and there will be love in the future. A man who has lost his career may still have love at the moment, but such love can't stand the slightest sign of trouble.

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When I saw Zhang Mao again, he hid in a 30-square-meter rental house. Footprints are everywhere on the ground, and there is a half-drunk beer can on the table.

29 is the most embarrassing age for a man. It has nothing to do with youth, but it is still far from maturity.

Zhang Mao, 29, has just lost her love and career.

At the age of 25, Zhang Mao entered the workplace for the first time. He has the unique vitality of young people. He can work overtime in the company until the early morning because of a project, and he will wait for customers shivering in the cold wind because of an order.

At that time, everyone said: If people like Zhang Mao can't succeed, others can't even catch the tail of success. ?

But in Zhang Mao, at the age of 25, everything changed. Zhang Mao met 24-year-old Xiaoying at a social dinner.

Xiaoying is young and beautiful. She smiles and lowers her head, which is the focus of girls. Zhang Mao is full of vigor and vitality, and her career is booming, which is the focus among boys.

Excellent people always attract each other. Zhang Mao and Xiaoying soon established a love relationship after they met at dinner.

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There is such a man who is confident and rational in normal interpersonal communication and work. Even if he is already excellent, he will feel inferior in the face of love.

Zhang Mao is such a person. After being with Xiaoying, she is always afraid that Xiaoying will leave her.

Zhang Mao devoted all his time to Xiaoying for fear that Xiaoying would leave her.

In life, Xiaoying is completely centered and her attitude towards work has changed.

From the last one to the first one after work, he disappeared completely after work, and all his savings were spent on Xiaoying.

Traveling and researching with Xiaoying not only fully supported Xiaoying's hobbies, but also helped Xiaoying sign up for various classes. To save money, I stopped exercising for two years.

Xiaoying is getting better and better, but Zhang Mao's job is a mess and she missed many promotion opportunities.

Besides the changes in work and life, the feelings of Xiaoying and Zhang Mao are also changing imperceptibly. From the beginning, the equal communication gradually changed into Xiaoying running in front and Zhang Mao chasing behind.

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What are the factors that determine whether a relationship can continue?

Many people say whether two people in love are still in love.

But in fact, the real factor that determines whether a love can continue is whether two people are equal.

In a love relationship, whether it's a man or a woman, if it's almost, love can continue, but if it's too much, the backward person will be given up sooner or later, especially when the backward person is a man.

Even if this woman is a man. Keep? Get up.

Their love lasted nearly four years. Xiaoying is more mature and excellent than four years ago, while Zhang Mao has changed from high-spirited to cautious in the workplace four years ago.

Everyone should have value in the workplace, and if they lose value, they will be abandoned. Although they never made a mistake, Zhang Mao lost his due value after standing still for four years, and was finally dismissed by the company.

It rained all night, and Zhang Mao, who had just experienced a career failure, was proposed to break up by Xiaoying.

From the age of 25 to 29, the most important period for a man to grow up, Zhang Mao chose love to give up his career, and eventually his love career also went away.

Regarding the ending of this love, Xiaoying said this sentence: I am a woman after all. What woman doesn't want a husband who can give her a sense of security? Zhang Mao can't give me a sense of security now. ?

Women need a sense of security, and men need a sense of security. At the moment when Zhang Mao gave up his career for love, he lost the capital with a sense of security.

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Men have no money, women don't love them, and men who give up their careers for women? Stupid? .

Although this sentence is very? Sweet? But it's also realistic.

Whether in love or marriage, a man must have a career. Because of feelings, isn't it? Beg? Yes, it was attracted.

Zhang Mao gave everything to Xiaoying, gave up his career and devoted all his energy to Xiaoying, but in the end, no marriage could get a good result.

It's not that Zhang Mao doesn't deserve Xiaoying, but that Zhang Mao does? Not worthy? Xiaoying is young.

Is it not only a requirement for marriage and affection, but also a requirement for maintaining marriage and affection? Good medicine.

Men must understand this: you can pay for the person you love, but you can't pay for the person you love? Self-destruct the foundation? In particular, you can't give up your career, which is not only responsible for yourself but also for the other party and this relationship.