Actually, it's not bad to be older. After all, the other person has experienced more things than you. Many things can guide you to take fewer detours and make fewer avoidable mistakes, and you will be more mature in thought and will know how to tolerate you.
But there will also be some bad things, because two people encounter different things, he has traveled more roads than you, and the spiritual level may be different. Two people have different views on things in some places, depending on who is more tolerant between you.
As long as the other person is not married or married, I don't think your parents will mind very much.
But if the other person is married or married, I think it may not be suitable for you.
I have a friend who is the same age as me, 2 1 year old, but she has found a man who can be a father in his forties. At that time, she and I both worked in a cake shop.
I remember the first time I met her, the kind of girl who was really a little rustic and super-provincial, and even reluctant to buy a glass of water. She drinks a bowl of water every day, and is reluctant to buy more clothes for herself. She didn't wipe anything on her face, and her face was covered with pimples. Wearing a flowered skirt with canvas shoes gives people a feeling of being a little rustic.
? Later, she had a good chat with the cake delivery chef in the store, calling him uncle or something every time. Later, the man bought her glasses, took her to the gym, bought her a mobile phone and bought masks box by box. Master has a sweet mouth, so people can't see that he is in his forties and looks like a man in his thirties.
? At that time, we all thought they were quite ambiguous, but we didn't think they would really be together. Unexpectedly, one day a woman with a big belly came up directly and asked whose husband our mistress was seducing. It really shocked us at that time, because we didn't know he had a wife. Later, I heard from his wife that they were divorced and moved in together again, but they didn't get a license, but the baby in their belly was about to be born.
In fact, their family is quite rich and runs their own restaurant. I really don't know why that man came to the cake shop as a cake delivery man. A month/kloc-more than 0/000. I really doubt that I am here to pick up girls.
? His ex-wife said that the reason for their divorce was that the man lived with a woman older than him for several months and didn't come home. Finally, he chose a divorce. As a result, he ran out of money and came back to make up for it because one of their daughters 18 years old. So she chose to get back together for her children, but I didn't expect him to cheat again.
? At that time, we all thought that the girl who was killed must have taken her out to play and bought her things because the man gave her a material life.
But I really didn't expect them to be together now. Calculate, in fact, it has been two years. Maybe this is true love, although I personally don't agree with their feelings.
Therefore, if the man you like is married or not divorced, I suggest you stay out of it. It's best to keep your distance, because many things are unclear.
? I think my uncle who is 1 1 older than you should be in his thirties. If he is unmarried, I suggest you check it out, because there are some reasons why he is not married in his thirties. Girls are still responsible for themselves, and others will be responsible for you.