I often feel this way. After coming home from work every day, I nest in an empty house. There is no movement on the WeChat phone. Watching the light turn from bright to dark, watching the sunset go down to night arrival, I feel lonely.

I thought I was not afraid of loneliness. I once proudly declared that I could live a good life alone. I prefer to live alone. However, time has proved that those declarations are all melodramatic and ignorant when they were young.

I feel lonely. What can I do?

Only find something to do, make life full, even busy. When a person lives for a long time, when people around him gradually pair up and step into the marriage hall; Especially when rejected by the boy you like, that kind of loneliness makes people suffocate. Why do you feel lonely when you come home from work? Because I am busy with work during office hours, I have no intention to think about loneliness at all. Therefore, to get rid of loneliness, the most important thing is to ignore loneliness. So after work, I have a full schedule. I arrange to run in the gym for an hour every day. After running, I take a bath. It's nearly eight o'clock. Then I ate something in a hurry, picked up a professional book and read it for more than two hours. Profound mathematical proof only gave me time to doubt my IQ. I don't know what loneliness is. Near 1 1 o'clock, I went to bed exhausted, and the day passed.

It may be sad to live a busy life, let yourself take care of any negative feelings that have no obvious benefits, and let yourself be like a robot accurately and rationally, but there is no way.

I don't give myself any chance to feel lonely. If loneliness suddenly comes to my mind, I will pick up my mobile phone and play two rounds of the glory of the king. I will forget my loneliness in qualifying, so as to avoid the nervousness of giving others a head, and try my best to win. I will go to bed before eleven o'clock, because the night is getting deeper and deeper, and my loneliness will become stronger and stronger. People are always fragile at night, always sad, imaginative and sentimental. In this case, don't give yourself a chance to be lonely.

That's it. Loneliness is an unbearable torture for a person. It is not unbearable loneliness, but as a gregarious social animal, loneliness may be more appropriate when you feel that your world is empty and there is no one else, when you are not sure that there are people who care about, appreciate and like yourself in this world, and when you face this unusually responsible and difficult world alone. Since we got rid of our mother's baby, we have been looking for new baby and new arms all our lives.