There will always be some friction between people, and at this moment, communication between people will solve all this … but it also needs skills …

There was once a story:

A scholar went to buy materials. He said to the seller, "Come here!" The seller doesn't know the word "the person who pays the salary" (the person who takes the materials), but he knows the word "come here", so he puts the materials in front of the scholar. The scholar asked him, "What is the price?" The seller didn't quite understand this sentence, but he knew the word "price" and told the scholar the price. The scholar went on to say, "The exterior is solid and the interior is weak. More smoke, less flame. Please damage it. Your wood is dry on the outside, but wet on the inside. When it burns, there will be more smoke and less flame. Please lower the price. The seller didn't understand the scholar's words and left with the materials.

This story shows that communication in a language that the other party can understand is the guarantee of successful communication. This also tells us that if you don't communicate with others, you can do nothing.

There is another story:

There is a strong lock hanging on the gate, and an iron bar took a lot of effort, but it still can't be pried open. The key came and his thin body got into the lock hole. With a slight turn, the big lock opened with a bang. Die-hard asked strangely, "Why can't I open it after all my efforts, but you open it easily?" The key said, "Because I know his heart best."

This story tells us that everyone's heart is like a locked door, no matter how thick the iron bar is, it can't be pried open. Only by caring can we turn ourselves into a delicate key, enter other people's hearts and understand others. Therefore, when communicating, we must think more about each other, move people with feelings, and change hearts with hearts. social communication

It is indispensable, it can push open the wall of distance between people and form an eternal bridge.

Write a 400-word short story with friends

Kong Xilaiyao and I are very complacent friends. After class, we are always inseparable, playing games together and sharing delicious food. We are always happy together!

One day, we lost our handkerchiefs together. When I lost it, I quietly threw it behind her and she didn't notice it at all. I rushed over and caught her red-handed! No way, she can only perform for everyone on the stage. After the performance, she kept blaming me, and I didn't show weakness and quarreled with her. Because of this, we didn't talk to each other for several days.

Seeing us like this, Zhang Yufei, another good friend of ours, called us together after class and told us a story: Once upon a time, a pair of good friends slapped another person because of a little embarrassment, and the person who was slapped felt burning pain on his face, but he didn't say anything and wrote a line in the sand: Today my best friend slapped me. After a long time, the person who was slapped took a bath in the lake and almost drowned. His friend saved him, so he carved a line on the stone: My best friend saved my life today. His friend felt very strange and asked, "Why did you write in the sand last time and why did you carve it on a stone this time?" The man replied, "write down the hurt my friend gave me in the sand and let the wind erase it." I will always remember my friend's kindness in a stone! " "

After hearing this story, we both blushed and we made up again.

A 500-word story telling the truth.

Rough hands and feet

A kindergarten teacher plays games with the children in her class. She told the children to bring a plastic bag with potatoes from home. Every potato has the name of the person he hates most written on it, so the more people he hates, the more potatoes he has in his pocket.

The next day, every child brought some potatoes. Some are two, some are three, and the most is five. Then the teacher said, "You take this bag of potatoes with you everywhere, even if you go to the toilet."

As the days passed, children began to complain that moldy potatoes gave off an unpleasant smell. Besides, those children who have five potatoes don't want to carry heavy bags with them. A week later, the game was over and the children were finally liberated.

The teacher asked them, "How do you feel with potatoes this week?" The children said in dismay that it was inconvenient to move with potato bags, and moldy potatoes smelled bad.

At this time, the teacher told them the meaning of the game. She said, "It's like hating someone you hate in your heart. The poison gas of jealousy will erode your mind, so take it with you wherever you go. If you can't stand the smell of rotten potatoes for a week, how can you let the poisonous gas of jealousy take over your life? "

So don't carry the burden of hatred all your life. It is better to forgive others' mistakes.

2. Excellent

Once upon a time, there was a boy with a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him to nail one on the fence of the yard every time he lost his temper or quarreled with others. On the first day, the boy nailed 37 nails. In the next few days, he learned to control himself, which is actually much easier than nailing. Finally, one day, he didn't nail any nails, and he happily told his father about it.

Dad said, "From now on, as long as you don't lose your temper, pull out a nail on this day." Day by day passed, and finally, all the nails were pulled out. Dad took him to the edge of the fence and said to him, "son, you did a good job, but look at the nail holes in the fence." These movements will never recover. " It's like when you quarrel with someone and say something ugly, you leave a wound in his heart, just like this nail hole. Insert a knife into a person's body, and then * * *, the wound will be difficult to heal. No matter how you apologize, the wound is always there. You know, physical trauma is as difficult to recover as mental trauma. Your friends are your precious property. They make you laugh and make you brave. They always listen to your sadness. When you need them, they will support you and open up to you. "

My homework was finished early on Sunday night, and my father told me a story: "When my father was young, he lived in a remote mountain village, and there was a dry well in my grandfather's yard. Although it is a well without water, the layout of this well has not changed when there is water. One day, a fox ran into the yard looking for food. When he reached the well, he accidentally saw the big cat on the other side. Because he was too hungry and couldn't find other food, he had to turn his eyes to the big cat. The big cat glanced at the fox, but showed no alarm. When the fox was desperate to pounce on the big cat, Jing fell into the dry well. This scene was discovered by grandpa who was working at home. Grandpa caught the fox without blowing off dust. That year's Spring Festival, grandpa put on a fox hat ... "

At this point in the story, I don't know if the cunning fox thought of another question and hated the big cat, because grandpa caught the big cat. Does it hate itself more? If he doesn't chase the big cat, it will be safe and sound.

Now people don't kill people for their own interests and break the law, but in the end they have no good end. Just like this fox, he lost his freedom and even his life for a cat. People sometimes lose their freedom because they are greedy for money. Although these two things have different forms of expression, their greed is the same and their punishment is the same.

If you can turn a stumbling block into a stepping stone, you are the strong one in life. That's what setbacks are like. If you beat them sometimes and keep challenging them, they will always give in. The road of life is inevitably bumpy and muddy. We should leave our footprints with this indomitable spirit, overcome setbacks and get out of adversity. You know, muddy roads leave footprints.

A composition with the theme of life story.

With the bell of the new century, another March came from walk on by around us, leaving us with the warmth of spring, the warmth of wind, the warmth of love and a new century song.

It was our beloved President Sun who wrote the first note for this new song. I remember it was an early morning, and I came to school early to be on duty. In the misty morning fog, I found a figure swaying on the eternal road in front of me. Suddenly, he bent down, picked up something from the ground, and then walked to the trash can. I walked over and saw that it was our headmaster Sun, but what he picked up was a dirty piece of waste paper! I was shocked, this is our headmaster, and he didn't seem to think of it, just walked forward. I suddenly feel that his jumping body is like a beating note, and a string of footprints behind him constitute a wonderful melody, which is a song of spring breeze, a song of dedication, a song of civilization and a song of example. He is guiding us to welcome the arrival of spring.

Back in class, I told everyone about it. Everyone expressed that they should follow the example of President Sun and be a civilized teenager who loves classes, schools and others. Thus, in the warm spring breeze and bright sunshine, young figures flashed in front of people, cheerful notes played in people's ears, and moving melodies hovered over the campus. You see, in the classroom, pots of flowers are competing to open, and the fragrance is refreshing. This is the voice of naughty king Yao Dongyang. On the playground, pots of clear water jingle and small trees spread their leaves, which is the credit of Xie Ning and Wang Benchao; Look again, under the street lamp, a chubby little boy, standing on tiptoe with a stone, stretched out his little hand and unplugged the street lamp that had been lit all night. He is Yang Kunyu from Class One (1); On the roadside, two little girls, Class Five (1) and Li, handed stacks of coins with body temperature to the disabled. Listen, it is windy. Who is closing the classroom windows one by one? Needless to say, a look at the clever figure shows that Wang Nan of Class 6 (2) is actively checking the doors and windows of each class; Listen again, who is singing for the old people in the nursing home? Needless to say, when I heard that sweet voice, I knew it was the spare time of Class 6 (1) giving laughter to the old people ... needless to give more examples. From in-class to out-of-class, from in-school to out-of-school, from dawn to dusk, bright smiling faces are proving, sweet children's voices are proving, books are proving, and diligent figures are one after another. The majestic fitness whip also proves that more than 800 teachers and students in Shi Yu primary school are chanting touching poems with love, writing civilized movements with actions and playing the strong voice of the times with true feelings!

This is exactly: the spring breeze of the century warms people's hearts,

It is spring both inside and outside the campus.

Teachers and students cultivate the flowers of civilization,

Xiangman Gankun writes new songs.

A short story composition of 100 words, used to communicate with mom and dad.

Is it good or bad for primary school students to surf the Internet?

As soon as we talk about this topic,

There must be two different voices coming towards me.

One is the voice of parents:

be

Not good, now primary school students play games online all day, which makes the original academic performance decline all the way. Not only that, but also online.

There are four or five hours on the Internet, some eight or nine hours, and even endless, which makes my eyes nearsighted.

The second is the voice of our primary school students:

Yes, very good,

Because surfing the Internet can increase our knowledge,

It has a great influence on learning.

Ask for help; Another point is that you can watch the news and broaden your horizons.

Investigation report on primary school students surfing the Internet:

The history of "touching the net":

60%

The history of students touching the net is one year or more.

40%

These students are one year old.

Now, there is not a student who hasn't been online.

Average daily online time:

23%

Insufficient students.

1

Hours,

69%

These students are

1

Until/very

three

Hours, otherwise

8%

These students are

three

A few hours or more.

Where to surf the Internet: Most people surf the Internet at school, followed by Internet cafes, and then at home. Including

2/3

classmate

I think the security situation outside the Internet cafe is ok, but

1/3

Some students think the situation is worrying.

Internet content:

40%

Of the students are chatting, having fun,

Thirty percent

% of students are looking for information, and there is another one.

Thirty percent

Students of

Just playing games or something.

Attitude towards netizens:

55%

% of the students are just chatting with netizens.

38%

Students realize that

For netizens and real friends,

7%

Some students think that netizens are not real friends. At the same time,

13%

Some of my classmates have

I have had the experience of meeting netizens outside the network.

The impact of the network:

87%

60% students think that the internet has brought them positive influence.

That is, from the internet.

In the future,

Life is more fulfilling,

Rich;

Learning is easier,

Simple;

Closer relationship with friends;

I become more cheerful, optimistic and confident.

13%

Some students think that the influence is negative, that is, since surfing the Internet.

After that, I became estranged from my former friends, interpersonal communication was more difficult than before, and my academic performance dropped.

Effective communication composition between peers

In a rural area of America, there lived an old man who had three sons. Both the eldest son and the second son work in the city, the youngest son is with him, and the father and son live alone.

Suddenly one day, a man found the old man and said to him, "Dear old man, I want to take your little son to work in the city, can I?"

The old man said angrily, "no, absolutely not." Get out! "

This man said, "if I find a date for your son in the city, is it okay?"

The old man shook his head: "No, you go!"

The man added, "What if I find Rockefeller's daughter for your son, your future daughter-in-law?"

At this time, the old man was tempted.

A few days later, the man found Rockefeller, the richest oil magnate in America, and said to him, "Dear Mr. Rockefeller, I want to find someone for your daughter, can I?"

Rockefeller said, "Get out!"

The man added, "If the person I am looking for for your daughter, that is, your future son-in-law, is the vice president of the World Bank, is that all right?"

Rockefeller agreed.

A few days later, the man found the president of the World Bank and said to him, "Dear Mr. President, you should appoint a vice president at once!" " "

The president said: "impossible, there are so many vice presidents here, why should I appoint a vice president, and it must be done right away?"

"If the vice president you appointed is Rockefeller's son-in-law, is that okay?"

Of course, the president agreed.

Although this story is untrue and full of doubts, it reflects the power of communication to some extent. This story tells us that self-confidence is very important in communication. Only by knowing in your heart that it is good for both sides can you get the cooperation of the other side and achieve the success of communication. After realizing this, we must persevere and not be afraid of being rejected until we win the final victory. Communication is a big topic, which can't be explained clearly in a few words. Below, we use a few short stories to look at communication skills:

A fable about an argument caused by lack of communication (used in writing)

A fierce conflict broke out between the lion and the tiger. In the end, both sides lost. When the lion was dying, he said to the tiger, "If you hadn't insisted on grabbing my territory, we wouldn't have fallen into this situation." The tiger said in surprise, "I never wanted to rob your territory." I always thought you wanted to invade me. "

Communication! People can't live in this world alone. In this colorful world, people should learn to communicate and understand. The lion and the tiger didn't communicate, but acted according to their own wishes. As a result, they sacrificed their lives and paid a very heavy price. Imagine if we had to communicate and understand each other's wishes before, I think the outcome would have changed a lot. I remember there seems to be an advertisement on TV now: "Fifty years ago, we communicated with a city, now we communicated with a world, and in 2008 we communicated with a dream!" The significance of communication is profound. Communication originally refers to ditching to connect two waters, and later refers to connecting both sides. It also means unblocking each other's opinions. It seems that communication can smoothly connect things. Indeed, our conversations with everyone, parents, friends, teachers, colleagues and leaders, are all exchanges. In order to buy what you want, you should communicate with your parents for money; In order to go out to play with friends, communicate with friends; In order to solve a difficult problem, communicate with the teacher; Communicate with colleagues in order to complete a project; In order to meet the needs of your own work, you should communicate with the leaders ... If you don't communicate, you will do things rashly according to your own voluntary behavior, which will often end in failure. Without unity and contact with the outside world, it is impossible to do things independently. Learn to communicate, consider problems from an objective point of view, and put communication in a very important position, which is a step closer to success.

A 300-word composition about a quarrel in a short story on campus.

My classmates and I may be inseparable friends. We go to school together, go home from school together and play games together. We are very close. An unpleasant thing happened between Xu Mengran and me after school this morning. The two of us had an argument over a trivial matter. They said to each other, and soon we quarreled. After the quarrel, I decided never to talk to Xu again.

When I got home, my mother and I talked about it. My mother looked at me and said seriously, "you, what do you think Xu did wrong?" What's wrong with you? " "What did I do wrong?" Mother smiled and said, "Think about it. If you don't argue with her when talking about you, but reason with her, won't there be a fight? " I thought about it and said, "It was Xu Mengran who quarreled with me first!" Mom said, "If every good friend of yours is like her today and you ignore them, then you won't have any more friends, and then you will feel very lonely." Mom went on to say, "Everyone has his own advantages and disadvantages. Don't take other people's shortcomings to heart. Even if others do something wrong, don't haggle. Forgive her generously, and you will have more friends. "Although Xu is wrong, you shouldn't argue with her again. I hope you will apologize to Xu this afternoon and stop making her angry, ok? " I looked down and whispered, "All right, Mom! I went to apologize to Xu in the afternoon. "

When I came to school in the afternoon, I was still wondering if I might ignore me. As soon as I saw Xu, Xu and I both bowed our heads and apologized. We looked at each other and then laughed together. We all regret what happened this morning. We made up again and became very good friends.

Composition material or short story on the topic of tolerance.

An essay on tolerance: learn tolerance by making a system

Tolerance is a kind of accomplishment, but also a virtue. Tolerance is not timidity, but magnanimity. Be a man and learn to be tolerant.

Tolerance is like water. Tolerance means forgiving others' mistakes, not complaining about others, not haggling over every ounce, and being kind and generous. Tolerance is like water, and encountering contradictions is often more effective than excessive retaliation. It is like a clear spring, slowly erasing each other's temporary hostility and making people calm and sober.

Tolerance is like fire. Because further tolerance not only means not caring about personal gains and losses, but also means warming others' hearts with your own love and sincerity. Calm as water tolerance is rare; The tolerance of giving charcoal in the snow is even more commendable and moving. Tolerance can melt the freeze in each other's hearts and shoot the heat of love into each other's hearts. Isn't this tolerance exactly what people need in this competitive era? Choosing tolerance means choosing care and warmth, and also choosing the vastness of life.

Life needs a communicative composition. 300 words

Flowers communicate with nature with its fragrant smell; People communicate through spiritual communication; The bridge is connected to the dam with tight stones. Life is beautiful because of communication, and life is wonderful because of communication. The stream is blocked and overflowing, and only communication can flow into the sea unimpeded. When I was a child, my father was very strict, especially in learning the piano. My father is very strict, but my grades are still standing still. I have a bad impression of my father. I always feel that he is cold and uncomfortable when I see him.

But that morning, to my surprise, my father stopped urging me to learn the piano, but told me a story: the sun competed with the north wind to see who would let the pedestrians undress first. The north wind is blowing, but pedestrians wrap their clothes tighter; On the other hand, the sun gives off great energy, which makes pedestrians take off their clothes. After telling the story, I found my father staring at the keys for a long time, and then looked away.

Later, my father stopped asking me to practice piano every day, and I learned from that story: a person who really knows how to play the piano first loves music actively, and passive love is just a form ... It is communication that makes me look at my father with new eyes, and it is communication that makes me understand my father's love. Perhaps it was under my father's invisible education that I began my budding search for music and began to consciously sit in front of the piano and understand my father with music. ...

That night, after practicing the piano, I secretly read my father's manuscript, only to suddenly find that it was full of information about pianists, Chopin, Beethoven and Mozart-all of them were musical saints. At this moment, I suddenly realized that although my father doesn't play the piano, he is a person who loves music very much and pinned his hopes on me. At this time, I knew that the notes came from my fingers and connected the hearts of our father and daughter. The true meaning of music is to communicate without words. This invisible inner communication and collision made me grow up at once. Communication is an indispensable note in life. Communication let me know that I must stick to my work. Communication made me understand my father.