I think the best state of college students is: be calm, reconcile with yourself and reality, and generously admit the Excellence of others; Think clearly about the ideal state of life, set a few goals, find ways to achieve them, focus and persist. Here I'll start with my favorite passage, * * *! When you are old, when you look back on your life, you will find that when you study abroad, when you decide on your first job, when you choose to fall in love alone, and when you get married, it is actually a huge change of fate. It's just that you were standing at a fork in the road and saw the wind and clouds. The day you made your choice was quite dull and ordinary in your diary. At that time, you thought it was an ordinary day in your life. But great changes have taken place. The earth shook and the mountains shook, oblivious. Only Tao was unusual at that time. Don't all the joys and sorrows of life and death in the world begin and end in emptiness? For universities, there are three core lines: 1, regular work and rest, keeping healthy body, even the best body can't achieve regular work and rest. The porridge in the morning is more delicious than the wine in the evening; 2. Enjoy the time alone, be cautious and independent, and cultivate a relatively independent personality; 3, study hard, besides major, develop other hobbies by the way, such as writing, expressing, bragging, making money and so on! I think the biggest gain of my four-year undergraduate course is to find my present wife. This is a person who will accompany me all my life, far more important than getting a scholarship, making money, taking part in the postgraduate entrance examination, traveling and so on! The following is my feeling of studying for a master's degree for 7 years. After the process of double non-undergraduate and 985 master's degree, many feelings will be deeper! First, about learning for learning's sake, let nature take its course. Go to class when you are in class. Should practice, one's deceased father grind. Ask your classmates and teachers what you can't do. It's really impossible to ask about the massive open online courses or even Zhihu, and only look at the national quality courses. In fact, there is nothing wrong with skipping an unrelated class occasionally and covering it well. It's not a big problem to be out of line occasionally, but being caught playing truant is recognized as a bachelor. In addition to the courses arranged by the school, you can also take CET-4, CET-2, office skills, driver's license and other useful and necessary certificates. By the way, you can learn writing, ps, video editing, time management, caution, expression and so on. These things will benefit you for life. Nowadays, in universities, in some schools, skipping classes and not studying seems to be a kind of political correctness, while studying hard seems to be a sneaky thing. Actually, it's not. If you have nothing to do, go to your dream school and feel the atmosphere of 985, 2 1 1. You will find that the better the school, the stronger the learning atmosphere. In college, scores, grade points, competitions, papers and CET-4 and CET-6 are actually very important and specific reference items, which must be taken seriously. These are very important for employment or postgraduate entrance examination. But in fact, these are very simple. Just let nature take its course and prepare calmly. Down-to-earth preparation is the fastest shortcut. Such a big fart will not rise to the height of self-discipline. I always think that a certain meaning of self-discipline is self-abuse. If normal people have nothing to do, they will be as self-disciplined as chicken blood every day. If you look at the diaries of Ji Xianlin and Hu Shizhi, you will find that playing cards and watching beautiful women are the main themes of college life. Why does Qingqing live like an ascetic? When I was in college, my dream schools were Southeast University, Nanjing University and so on. So I went to these two schools when I was traveling, and you will find that you are full of motivation when you come back, really. Fortunately, I also went to Southeast University in World War I during the follow-up postgraduate entrance examination, which made up for my regret. Why didn't I go to Nantah for postgraduate study? Because Nantah didn't have our major. I think the most correct decision I have made in the past 20 years is: it is a qualitative improvement in my life from double non-postgraduate entrance examination to 985 postgraduate entrance examination, but I am also grateful for my four-year undergraduate life, because it is wonderful and has shaped my outlook on life and most of my cognition! I am a non-graduate with a master's degree of 985. I can directly feel the difference between Shuangfei and 985, undergraduate and master, so important issues such as whether to take the postgraduate entrance examination, whether to take the public examination, whether to go abroad and so on. Must be considered in advance. What you have to think about now is whether to take the postgraduate entrance examination as an important part of your subsequent college and study life, just like love, club activities, social practice and making money. Postgraduate entrance examination is only a possible part of your college life, and I should be an important part. The websites for finding postgraduate entrance examination information are: 1, China Graduate Admissions Information Network: registration, printing admission tickets, adjustment, official channel admission, and estimated number of students admitted; 2. China Education Online: the national line over the years, the cinema line of colleges and universities, and the enrollment ratio of colleges and universities in previous years; 3. Official websites of schools and colleges: enrollment brochure, enrollment catalogue, bibliography, examination outline, exemption list, retest list, retest results, proposed admission list, tutor information, etc. ; 4. China Academic Degree and Postgraduate Education Information Network: used to inquire about institutions, professional rankings and other information; 5, Zhihu, Bi Li Bi Li: Senior and senior students posted the experience of postgraduate entrance examination, such as the following one, with 53,000 praises to ensure the postgraduate entrance examination experience. Very dry, very helpful! What is the specific process of postgraduate entrance examination? 59000 agrees with 663 comments. I'm a junior now, preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination. I want to ask where all your online courses come from. 7732 agree 14 1 comments The two most important things are whether the postgraduate entrance examination can be successful: choose a suitable school and get the highest score possible! For example, why I dared to take the 985 (Southeast University) from a double-non-school at that time was not determined by my enthusiasm, but was finally determined on the basis of analyzing whether Southeast University discriminated, the score line of recent 10 years, the number of students admitted and other data. Maybe you will say, I don't know how to collect a lot of data from the postgraduate school. It doesn't matter, Zhihu used his big data to get the first-hand analysis data of many schools, formed a set of postgraduate entrance examination materials, and gave a free public lecture on choosing schools for postgraduate entrance examination. At that time, I received "school selection package+notes of three open classes+online classes", and also obtained which schools were blacklisted and whitelisted in the early stage in this way (the postgraduate entrance examination is fair and non-discriminatory), and Southeast University is non-discriminatory in the whitelist of postgraduate entrance examination. Don't look up these planning courses. First of all, they are free. Secondly, if you look at a few more, you will know that the postgraduate entrance examination is so much. There's nothing tall, there's no need to demonize it ~ Choose a school for postgraduate entrance examination and choose professionalism * Plan 0.00 to register immediately. I think these students who have a sense of postgraduate entrance examination in their freshman year are all students who have clear plans for the future. For the postgraduate entrance examination, it's really too early to be a freshman and a sophomore, because you haven't even attended basic courses such as basic advanced mathematics and professional courses. However, this does not affect freshmen's awareness of postgraduate entrance examination and their understanding of postgraduate entrance examination process. It doesn't mean that you have to buy a review book to learn to do problems in your freshman year, but you have made the postgraduate entrance examination a very important part of college life. Even if you finally decide not to take the postgraduate entrance examination, it must be carefully considered before you take the postgraduate entrance examination, rather than not taking the postgraduate entrance examination after a slap in the face! Similarly, even if you finally decide to take the postgraduate entrance examination, it must be the postgraduate entrance examination after comprehensively weighing your own situation, rather than taking the postgraduate entrance examination as soon as your brain is hot! After reading this answer, what you have to do is: find the corresponding postgraduate exchange group in the target institution (directly search on Q: xx school, xx major), and then concentrate on observation to find out the specific details such as professional course books, enrollment ratio, retest ratio, discrimination, etc. At the same time, you can observe which teachers these two students chose, which books they used and which pits they stepped on during the initial and second exams for postgraduate entrance examination, or you can directly observe them after their second exams. At the same time, combined with Zhihu's post about the postgraduate entrance examination experience, see if what he said is compound with the law you observed. Combine some planning lectures and treat the postgraduate entrance examination as a game. Imagine that you are a junior, and you are about to take the postgraduate entrance examination. How should you plan your own review process for the postgraduate entrance examination, choose schools from the postgraduate entrance examination-choose books and teachers for the postgraduate entrance examination-how to arrange the review for mathematics, English, professional courses and political thoughts for the postgraduate entrance examination-how to arrange the first round, the second round and the first round? At that time, I also watched some free lectures on postgraduate entrance examination planning and shared them with you. They are more practical. The early bird catches the worm, and a person's preparation determines how far he can go. 24 Postgraduate entrance examination: Xiaobai steals the plan and gets it right away in 0.00. In college, scores, grade points, competitions, papers and CET-4 and CET-6 are actually very important and specific reference items. We must pay attention to it, which is very important for employment or postgraduate entrance examination. But in fact, these are very simple. Just let nature take its course and prepare calmly. Down-to-earth preparation is the fastest shortcut. Such a big fart will not rise to the height of self-discipline. I always think that self-discipline is self-abuse. Normal people go to self-discipline every day when they have nothing to do, and look at the diary of Ji Xianlin's old man. Maybe some students came to this school because they didn't play well in the college entrance examination, or they didn't choose their own major, so they have regrets! But when it comes, it is safe. It's no use accepting what has happened and complaining. We might as well think about how to change the status quo, whether to change majors or take postgraduate entrance examinations. Just dissatisfied with the change, try to change the status quo. Say a few extra words about the study article: 1. Learn early, the earlier you learn some things, the higher you will benefit! /kloc-When I was 0/5 years old, I found it difficult to swim, so I gave up swimming. 18 years old, when someone you like asks you to swim, you have to say "I won't". 18 years old, found English difficult and gave up English. At the age of 28, I have a great job and need English, so you have to say "I can't". The more troublesome my early life is, the lazier I am to study, and the easier it is to miss the people and things I am interested in and the new scenery later. No matter what major you study, don't fail and waste your time. It's simple. Just visit the library and the print shop. Stay in the dormitory as little as possible, even if you want to play king, you'd better find a classroom or library to play, so it's easy to get more points! Dormitory is the tomb of youth. Try to go out, in the library, outside the campus, in the classroom, etc. Don't stay in the dormitory! Dormitory is by no means a place to study. Maybe some dorms have a good atmosphere and everyone is in harmony. But the best place to study is always the library or the classroom, and you must go to the classroom or the library to review if you don't accept any refutation, including the postgraduate entrance examination. 4. Pay attention to the information of postgraduate entrance examination and insurance research from freshman and sophomore. Everything is established in advance, and it is abolished. Pay attention to the common sense of postgraduate entrance examination and graduate study in advance, and find out the probability of postgraduate entrance examination in your own school. What schools are there when you graduate from the senior year? In this way, our expectations for the follow-up will be very clear. Second, regarding self-reconciliation, I accept 1. If I go back to my freshman year, the first thing I have to do is: don't care about other people's eyes, don't play truant, don't stay up late, don't dance, don't play mindless, and so on. In the end, we will accompany ourselves for life, so it is most valuable to please ourselves rather than others, to do what we want and should do, and to please ourselves! I recommend reading Meet the Unknown Self! Learn to recognize the Excellence of others and praise their advantages and strengths generously. Strength is interactive. For example, when I see that this answer is particularly good, I will generously praise, comment and collect it, because I will see that generous boasting will subtly affect a person's future personality. At the same time, learn to accept your imperfections, such as being a little introverted and unable to express. Let's learn how to express consciously. There are many tutorials on Mile Mile and Zhihu. 2. Accept setbacks: high school focuses on scores and has a single standard, while universities are not. You may encounter many setbacks. These are the only ways to grow up. No one knows everything at birth, and most skills can be learned. Remember one sentence: everyone is a human being. As long as I am not embarrassed, no one will be embarrassed. If I don't do well this time, I'll come again next time. Growth is a process. 3. Accept loneliness: Some people say that it is basically difficult for universities to find sincere friends. I don't entirely agree with this. It's hard to be sure to find a bosom friend, but it's not so difficult to meet someone with the same frequency. More importantly, how to maintain the follow-up friendship in two ways after meeting! True friends or not, it's mutual. You are always on guard against each other, how can you ask others to open their hearts! The best state of making friends in college is: starting from the same frequency, opening your heart and communicating frankly, which is also suitable for couples! 4. Accept loneliness and unsociable: don't fit in for the sake of fitting in, and don't take part in meaningless group activities. Someone must have a strange feeling, don't mind. The more you care, the more you will fall into the next ride! Is it necessary to participate in class committees, student unions, community activities or social practice? Think clearly about the purpose, if it is to practice courage, expression, organization and so on. At the same time, get happiness, money or boyfriend and girlfriend. , you can participate appropriately. 5. If you want to find "contacts" through these things, you don't need to participate. The essence of networking is that it is better to make yourself valuable than to exchange values. There are many valuable ways, including study, scholarship, entrepreneurial ability, earning ability and various skills. I remember a sentence, "I have seen the last side of my life with many people." A person who has been there tells you that many people may never see each other again after graduation. Even if there is, it is only in the stage of greeting. The society is very realistic, and value exchange is the most fundamental hidden rule. 6. Never mind how others indulge, you should think about your future, because there is a high probability that there is no mine in your home. There are many lifestyles in college. Some people are tyrants, some people love to travel, some people play games, and some people lie in the dormitory every day ... But what you may not know is that A's father is a boss, B's uncle is an official, C's father is a mine manager, Ding Jia is very influential in a certain system, and your parents are just office workers and migrant workers. You may even be just a farmer like me. Therefore, no matter what others think or what others are doing in college, you must think about it: what should you do after four years of college? About occupation, about study, about skills, about making money, about love, about postgraduate entrance examination and so on. 7. In fact, most people are ordinary families, so there is no need to compare blindly. Inner self-confidence is more important. I know you may feel inferior, because you are not so well-off in clothes, computers, mobile phones and living expenses, which is unnecessary. I also live a life of 1000 yuan per month, but I can earn money by myself. In the early stage, you can try to do part-time jobs such as McDonald's, KFC, and distributing leaflets. The income is 12- 13 yuan/hour.