Inspirational story of lovelorn 1 A girl was lovelorn. At night, she walked slowly on the streets of the city alone, and scenes of the past kept wandering in her mind. She was so sad that she wanted to find someone to hold him and cry, but she couldn't find such a person.
She walked back and forth over and over again with a slight headache. She felt weak and heavy, but she didn't dare to stop, hoping it would make her relaxed, but she was still very sad.
What are we doing? There are too many bitterness and tears in our hearts. She held the lamppost and shed tears. She told her story with tears in her eyes: the first time she met him; The first happy date; He stood me up for the first time; The first quarrel; The girl who finally broke up cried and laughed, and tears fell from her eyes with a smile.
The girl looked at the street lamp sadly, and the street lamp looked at her quietly.
? Help me, street lamp. Do you know how painful and sad I am? What should I do? The girl cried at the street lamp.
The street lamp still stared at her quietly and said nothing. It knows what to say to her at this time. There are many fish in the sea. It's no use comforting like that. So it has been quietly looking down at the poor girl.
The girl left and gradually disappeared into the sight of the street lamp. Maybe she went to a bus stop, a maple tree or a bench on the side of the road and told them about her misfortune.
Big story: Many times, language has no practical meaning. In the final analysis, it is not just a few words that soothe sadness, but time and yourself.
Inspirational stories of lovelorn II. Her independence after her lovelorn love.
Pretend to be calm: that morning, he yelled at me from under the kitchen: Can't a 27-year-old woman even make a noodle sauce? It's ridiculous that we should break up because of this quarrel. After breaking up, you can't eat instant noodles every day, but learn to cook. A year later, I often dried vegetables in Weibo, which attracted many people? Delicious dog? Attention, including my current boyfriend. Is it a blessing in disguise?
Pretend to be depressed, never.
Choin:20-year-old lovelorn, extremely painful. Smoking and drinking every day, and calling others when drunk, make each other very annoyed. One day, I suicided threatened to call out. He took me home and gave me a sentence: an ugly gesture! Suddenly, it began to snow heavily. Slipped away from his house the next day, deleted all contact information, and went back to school to take classes, take postgraduate entrance examinations and study. I'm not in love, but I'm calm inside. The past is unbearable.
Be the most beautiful self.
Self-help by drunkenness: I found him cheating, because I couldn't let him go shamefully and let him wander. Try very hard to please him, pretend to be the woman he likes, accompany him to nightclubs in hot weather, and lose himself. One morning when I looked in the mirror, I suddenly found that the woman with thick makeup and big waves in the mirror didn't know who it was and made up her mind to break up. Cut your hair short, dress simply, and live as you like. A few months later, the loser came back to haunt him, and menstruation's reaction was: Go!
The breakup was peaceful.
I'm flying: he said on the phone that we should break up. I paused and asked why. A: I don't feel it. I paused and said politely, yes. He said guiltily, I'm really sorry. I replied: nothing, thank you. Then hung up the phone. For the next two years, this gentleman kept looking for me to get back together, but my sister didn't want to look back, hahaha.
Snobbish, win growth
Madly in love: His friends laughed at my poor English. Well, I teach myself 1 hour English every day. He thinks I have no professional title and no future. Ok, I'll take the title test. His parents think my parents have no pension. Well, I work part-time to earn money and buy social security for my parents. A year and a half later, he was still cruising in the blind date dinner, and I skipped the slot because of my fluent spoken English and professional title, got a good salary, and my parents' retirement life was guaranteed. Come to think of it, why should I associate with such a shallow snob?
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Wrong, love can make you.
Ho, Haitao: I confessed to her in my sophomore year and was rejected. She hinted that the two of us are simply like a book, and our college ambitions have long been planned, so it is difficult to be together. At that time, I was a teenager, working hard at liberal arts, and followed her to fill in the college entrance examination volunteers. As a result, I went to Beijing, and she lost and went to the south. Wrong, my major is good, and my job is very stable now. My wife is a college classmate. It's her. I don't know where it is scattered.
Persistence is sometimes effective.
Cai Er: It turns out that because she is too clingy, she often makes excuses to refuse the business trip arranged by the leader, giving the leader an impression of being lazy and irresponsible. Her parents think that I am a small clerk with no future and are firmly opposed to our association. She couldn't resist breaking up with me. In order to escape memories, I took the initiative to travel and applied for training in other places. Six months later, I got a promotion. Persistence may not pay off, but work is the opposite.
Bungee jumping beats self
White people: The old people in our dormitory are as timid as mice, afraid of heights, dizziness, fear of the dark and ghosts. Go to the playground with your girlfriend and dare not play exciting projects. The girl said he was unmanly and broke up angrily. A few days later, the old man insisted that I accompany him to play bungee jumping. From then on, he dared to walk at night, climb tall buildings and donate blood. He said that when he jumped off the bungee platform, he suddenly felt that everything was a cloud.
The stronger, the more tolerant.
Yijun: She had an argument with a couple in the supermarket. I didn't hit that man. At that time, I felt that my girlfriend was a bit unreasonable. Secondly, I was sick and timid since I was a child. After breaking up, I decided to strengthen my physique and learn Taekwondo. I practiced for five years. But the stronger and more tolerant, the more I feel that fists can't solve the problem. Now, I'm not afraid of trouble, and this feeling of certainty is really good.
Experiment, thanks for love.
Two voices: my ex-girlfriend hates me for not working and eating old people, and she hates my brothers and sisters even more. When breaking up, she said contemptuously, you don't invite pig friends and dog friends to dinner for three months. I really tried my best. Not three months, only one month, and no one asked me to play. Suddenly I feel that my old life is so boring and my face is so disgusting. So I quit drinking and nightclubs, went to bed early and got up early, and went to work, which refreshed me and made me a mentor at work. Thank her very much.
I have heard many stories about lovelorn love, but A Dai's story is the most touching one I have ever heard with my own eyes. I have the selfishness to adapt it into a fictional novel, but before that, I still want to share the true story with you! Because I am a person with great love. The following is A Dai's lovelorn story.
1
On the day of lovelorn love, I took a film in a reading activity and went to dinner with my colleagues after work. At dinner, he called me to bring him dinner. My head gets bigger when I listen to it.
He eats too much. If you want to go out for dinner and ask him what he wants to eat, he says he doesn't know. I made four or five suggestions, and he also said he didn't want to eat. If you eat at home, it will be even more ostentatious. There must be meat and vegetables. The concept of meat is pure meat. Sauced beef is a meat dish, and potato beef is not called meat dish because there are potatoes. He doesn't eat minced meat, pork only eats ribs, and ribs only eat salty ribs. Noodles must be served with egg sauce ... we have a lot of arguments about "eating"
I said, "I'm having dinner with my colleagues. I don't know when I can go home! " "He hung up the phone. Half an hour later, he called again and urged me to go home, saying that he was starving. I feel chest tightness and shortness of breath, and I complain in my heart: Why can't I buy it myself? But you can't say that If you say that, there will definitely be a war.
I packed the food, left it early, and rushed home to deliver it to him. He was very dissatisfied with the takeaway I brought, and sat there eating without talking. My heart is really mixed.
After he finished eating, I couldn't help saying, "Do you think we are normal?"
He said a lot. When you hear it, it is a prepared line. For my sake, let's break up. He doesn't want to get married at all, and he doesn't want to delay me any longer.
I've been with him for nine years and broken up countless times, but this time I think it's true. I pretended to be a brand-new woman in front of him. I didn't cry or make noise, so I was calm. But I can't put it on once I leave the house. I was walking in the street, screaming. Memories of me and him come to mind. ......
2
He is my college classmate. We both study photography. We often discuss doing homework together. He always has good ideas.
We also know very well. Walking in the street, you can laugh at the same time. After laughing, he asked me, "What are you laughing at?" I said, "I just laughed at that man's socks. What about you? " He said, "Me too."
He likes to make trouble. Once, I wore a hoodie and walked outside with him. I don't know when he ate a bunch of melon seeds and stuffed them into my hat. When we got into the subway and walked to the tuyere, I decided to put on my hat. So, in full view, I buckled my head with melon seeds. Everyone next to him was so happy that he looked calm and said innocently, "Let's go!" As if nothing had happened.
When I sleep, he will take pictures of my distorted face and change the wide angle into various angles. After filming, he would shout, "A Dai, get up quickly and don't sleep!" I opened my eyes in a daze and saw him sitting in front of the computer, deliberately giving up the position of the screen. I said, "What are you doing?" He smiled grimly and said, "I didn't do anything!" " I took a closer look, and it was my Zhang Chou's face that exploded. He even got sunshine, so I named it Buddha Golden Light. I was frightened at once and said, "Is this me?" He was shaking with laughter, like a convulsion. He laughed enough and said proudly, "What's the matter? Are you satisfied? Is it particularly beautiful? "
He always does these things that make me laugh and cry, but occasionally he is distracted. Before my birthday, he would disappear for a period of time every day. When asked why, he wouldn't say anything mysteriously. On my birthday, he gave me a retro bike, and the body was painted when it disappeared every day. Riding this car to go out, that's cool, and the rate of turning around is too high. Later, I didn't dare to ride it for fear of losing it.
After graduating from college, he had the opportunity to enter the TV station, but because he wanted to make a movie, he gave up his stable job and joined the crew as a photography assistant. I think he is cool and supportive. I believe that with his talent, his ambition will be realized one day. I am an intern in a newspaper office, taking jobs that photographers don't like, and I only get paid every month.
We live in a semi-basement because we have no money. In fact, our family conditions are not bad, but neither of us wants family money. I think living in the basement is great. How many superstars came out of the basement? Maybe we'll be next! I also showed off this basement with my friends: "It's fantastic, there are all kinds of small animals, and there are earthworms at home on rainy days. Which one of you has? "
After living in the basement for two years, I finally found a job with a monthly salary of 8 thousand, which made me very happy. I decided to improve the housing conditions, so I moved to Xuanwei Special Zone. At that time, I thought it was very advanced to show off the DC. Across the street from Li Liangui Bacon Pie, the canteen has 24-hour room service.
He was filming in other places when he moved. I moved in first, and I was awakened by the sun at six the next morning. I'm so excited that I've forgotten what it's like to be awakened by the sun in the basement for two years. I quickly sent him a short message: we have the sun to provide morning call service!
He has no job for more than half a year and is particularly anxious, but he still boasts in front of outsiders and maintains a false prosperity. The overall atmosphere of his circle is not very good, and they are all boasters. Others heard that he was a filmmaker and felt glamorous. In fact, he was a migrant worker.
Later, he made friends with some rich children who did nothing by themselves. One of his buddies married such a girl and lived happily every day. He's talking about hidden jealousy!
I asked him, "Do you think this is interesting?" He said, "It's boring." But he turned around and said, "Why can he do this? Buy whatever you want, and don't blink if you want to eat. " I think we are getting farther and farther away, no matter what our outlook on life is.
Two years before we broke up, our relationship was on thin ice. He always hates me and I can't stand him more and more. At work, he is impatient, but doesn't work hard. He can only complain, especially decadent. In life, he must be looked after. I have completely turned into an ungrateful old lady.
Once, I was forced to worry: "The nanny still has a salary. You won't give me a penny, and you're picky? You can do it yourself. I have to work and have no time to wait on you every day! " He got angry as soon as he heard it, and we had a big fight. The whole scene was a chicken flying and a dog jumping, which made people upset and dusty. ......
In order to avoid a big war, I endured it later. My friends say I'm a ninja turtle. I'm impressed with myself, too. I didn't expect that I would have such amazing patience! But I was afraid to change my life. After all, after being together for so many years, I told myself that he might just be in a bad mood at this stage, so I'll let him go, but at the same time, I feel that with him, my life is really dedicated to charity.
Now, he unilaterally announced: I don't need to devote my life to charity, I am devastated.
three
I whined while walking in the street, just like a mental derangement who forgot to take medicine. Whoever robs me will have to take a detour. I called my mother until three o'clock in the morning. She thought my grandmother was dead. I was very happy to hear that we broke up. My father and I drove to pick me up from Xiaotangshan. Along the way, my father kept applauding and smiling, and repeatedly praised: "What good news!"
My parents don't like him very much because he has a big temper. I went home for dinner and told him to go back at three o'clock. If I am an hour late, he will call and get angry: "How can we change what we agreed?" I have arranged the time for us to go out here! "My parents heard that the other end of the phone was very loud and asked me why. As soon as I say it, they feel that trivial things are so angry. This is not bullying me!
Another time because of buying a car. After he made friends who lived a happy life for nothing, he kept telling me that you should enjoy it while you are young, and it's no fun when you are old. You see, your family conditions are not bad. Why does your father treat you like this?
At first, I was very unhappy. Later, I talked too much, as if I had been brainwashed. I think my dad is really a little hard on me! He really wanted to go out and have a car, so I frantically asked my dad to buy me a car. My parents know that this is not my style at all, and he should encourage me behind my back.
Later, my father planned to buy me a Mercedes-Benz GLK, but only if I had my own car. I told him, and he said that if you have money, you can raise it. This is crazy. He has no money at all. Most of the money he earned was spent on clothes. He likes to brag and buy beautiful clothes. I have a bad feeling that I may have to pay for car maintenance in the future, which will really kill me. Later, I quarreled with him because of what color car I bought. I want to buy a white car, and he wants to buy a black one. When I was angry, I didn't buy it. After I calmed down, I thought about it carefully. Why do I have to buy a car? I don't even need a car. I bought it just to force him or let him go out and force him!
The day after breaking up with him, my mother helped me find a new house and contacted the moving company. I moved there that day, and even he was shocked. For the next three days, I lived like a walking corpse and lay flat on my bed every day. Later, pretend that you are okay and do what you should do. When my friend spoke ill of him, I defended him, saying that he was actually doing me good, and he was particularly uncomfortable.
One day three months later, I sat there waiting for my topic, playing with my mobile phone bored. He bound the email to my mobile phone before. I caught a glimpse of a travel reservation receipt in the mailbox. He went on a trip with a woman. I know that woman too. She married a local tyrant and gave birth to a son. Later, the local tyrant found a mistress outside, and she caught a mistress every day.
I'm like an awakening. I remember a month before we broke up, he chatted with people on WeChat every day. I also asked, "Who are you talking to?" He said, "You don't know." On the day of moving, I found that he bought a new McQueen sweater, which cost more than 8000 yuan. I don't think he has money to buy it. He said that his mother bought it for him.
I sent him a screenshot of the booking receipt and sent it to our good friend. Later, his best friend of ten years called me and said that he admitted that he was really with that woman now. I blew up at once. ......
I talk to my friends about my misfortune every day, again and again, and then I think it's not a problem to be so Xianglinsao. Do I want people to think of me as a victim, or a big fool who failed? I changed my route and started drinking. I can't drink. I made a fool of myself when I drank too much. I stood on the table and danced. I really did it ... when I was insane, I had to ask my friend to take me home. My friends praised my family's good, and immediately sent it. Later, I found that there was nothing at home ... I was afraid to drink.
My fitness instructor called me: "You haven't run for a long time after your physical examination!" " "I am lovelorn!" "Then let's vent!" She spoke very easily. In my eyes, earth-shattering lovelorn love is nothing but common in others' eyes.
I paid her a month's salary for tutoring. Fitness let me unconsciously for several months, and I took it out on the meat. Finally, I reduced from 124 kg to 100 kg. The whole person is refreshed and radiant. I find it really worthwhile to change myself seriously. Even if you are angry at first, gambling will become a self-discovery process. In the words of chicken soup, you will meet a better self.
four
After losing weight successfully, I made up my mind to do something I couldn't do with him, but I couldn't afford to do it without doing it. I'm going to study in London and choose a prestigious school where photography is the trump card.
Finally, I decided my goal: university of the arts london. I called university of the arts london's Beijing office and said, "My name is A Dai. Can I apply for university of the arts london? " The teacher said, "Come with your homework."
In the process of applying, I found that I knew too little about photography. I studied hard and analyzed artists, and spent a whole year preparing my portfolio. When I got the OFFER, it was winter in Beijing. By this time, it was already dark. I was jumping and crying under Yonghe Building (Lunyi Beijing Office).
Next, learn English. My English is only at the level of junior high school students. I got three points in the first IELTS writing test. I have no idea what to write. I have been cleaning the blackboard in the examination room. But I can't give up. I accepted all the offers, so I have to die.
I found an English teacher. The teacher said that if the English level of passing the IELTS test is a building, then my current English level has no foundation! It happened that my place of work at that time was to go to work for a week and not to go to work for a week. When I am not at work, I study English at home every day. Seeing pictures of others eating and drinking in a circle of friends, I can only swallow my saliva silently.
I made myself a devil's plan to read three articles an hour. Generally, I finish the second article and arrive in an hour. The third article basically depends on guessing. Finally finished, a pair of answers, few right, I was so angry that I tore up the book. ..................................................................................................................................................
The teacher also arranged a pervert training for me, listening to tapes until I got it all right. It's really too difficult. When I was listening to my hair going bald, I still didn't understand. At night 12, I went downstairs to recite words in the small garden, which made me sick. The teacher nicknamed me "Dai Chunhua". After half a year, Dai Chunhua finally passed the IELTS test. Although I only got 6 points in the exam, it is a miracle for Dai Chunhua, a student with poor English.
Looking back, the preparation for studying in London in the past two years was the best year since 20 10. Although bitter, the sweet taste is sweeter than ever.
I am especially grateful to my parents.
For a time, I was very eager to get married. Seeing that everyone around me is married, I feel very strange that I am not married. But my parents never urged me. I was 28 when we broke up. Once, I felt like a rotten dish. I don't care what I want, but my parents think I'm still a fresh vegetable. I also began to believe that I could live more and more fresh.
When I decided to study, my parents supported my choice very much, even my parents' friends and my neighbors. They don't think I should get married in a hurry, but since I have the ability, I have to touch different things and open my eyes.
After arriving in London, I met a teacher in her forties in the first class. We chatted about whether he was married. He said no, but he has a girlfriend who has lived together for many years. In Britain, this is very common. I talked to him about China's general view of marriage and love, and he was shocked. He didn't understand why he was forced to get married when he was old. More and more feel that there are various ways of life, and it is not a thing to get married or not!
five
I hate my ex-boyfriend He once told me that I have no patience with you, but I promise that I will never lie to you. But he lied to me anyway! After I got the offer, he asked me to meet, not regretting it, but feeling that he owed me an explanation, but I didn't need it. It's been three years since we broke up, and the explanation has long been unimportant to me. Besides, some explanations are secondary injuries.
Although we haven't met, we both know each other's recent situation. My circle of friends didn't block him. I'm fine and he's happy. Later, I saw him filming in the mall and was happy for him.
I met him once before I went to London. It was the first time I saw him after we broke up, and my mood was quite calm. He had dinner with that woman and her children in the restaurant. All three of them feel that they are doing their own things, and he doesn't look too happy. He didn't see me, and I later changed places to eat with my friends.
Now I don't hate him. We had the happiest time together, but slowly, the bad things surpassed the good things. When those beautiful things are not enough to support our relationship, it seems inevitable to break up! After breaking up, I didn't get worse, but I lived more valuable than before.
I have been in London for three months now, and I am struggling with my thesis almost every day. My IELTS score of 6 is still difficult to cope with the thesis. What makes me happy is that I have rhinitis. When I was in Beijing, I could sneeze 60 times a day, but actually I died in London.
In short, I am all right on the road to finding a better self!