The distress of beautiful girls is because it creates an illusion for boys to be sought after by everyone, which makes many boys shrink back after difficulties.
It is not because men in this era are too inferior, but because excellent women have high standards of mate selection, and many boys have invisible pressure. We often hear girls use the words "Yan control, height control and abdominal muscle control" to describe their mate selection criteria. However, these high demands of girls are beyond the reach of ordinary men in the world. This is a kind of self-protection for boys based on self-cognition.
A girl with beautiful face value will create an unattainable illusion for boys in life, thinking that no matter how much she pays, she can't catch up in short. Therefore, since a person's pay and income are not directly proportional, there is no need to continue to invest in such girls and learn to stop losses in time. This is also the main reason why the subject mentioned the problem.
The goddess of high value, pursuing timely success, also makes boys feel insecure. A comfortable relationship between men and women must be suitable and there must be no pressure. If one side is too good, the other side will be under pressure. This point was also mentioned by Mr. Mai, a love story teacher, in an answer in the past, but it was about the world difference in income between boys and girls. The appearance related to economy remains unchanged.
Therefore, those girls with high face value can show more outstanding aspects in their lives to attract boys who really deserve them. In the process of interacting with boys, they should pay more attention to their words and deeds, reduce the pressure on boys and create a comfortable emotional relationship between the two sexes.
Boys should formally ask a question: every girl has the right to pursue happiness. You can't deny a person because of his appearance. In fact, many boys should firmly believe that no matter what a girl's face value is, the feelings she pursues are the same, comfortable and stable. So, in fact, as long as you give her what she wants, she won't ask too much of you. I will live in peace with you.
One can't choose one's appearance any more than we can choose one's birth. Why should we care too much and insist on what we can't choose? What we should care about is the feeling of getting along. What we should respect is our initial heart and what we can really give each other. This is the key point of harmonious emotional relationship.
It's not that I can't find a boyfriend. It is because I am so good that many men stop. People who are so excellent will inevitably think that she should have a boyfriend! Give up her pursuit!
On the other hand, I am too beautiful and excellent, and I have a sense of superiority when choosing a boyfriend, and I will demand higher standards! So pick and choose, and finally leave!
Men are all potential stocks, young, independent of their families, and rarely achieve their own careers. Take a fancy to this stock and give them some time! Sooner or later, I will accompany you with this beauty!
There are several very beautiful girls in our team. One of them is not only beautiful, but also dignified. She is very measured in what she says and does. She never shows off her beauty, nor is she arrogant. All the comrades in the team like her very much, both men and women.
What is more gratifying is that this beautiful female colleague married a "suitable" husband. She is 1.8 meters tall, very handsome and handsome, with a standard handsome appearance. She is also easy-going, cheerful and easy to get along with.
To tell the truth, this is the most enviable beautiful girl in the team, just from the appearance. We often make fun of her, saying that you and your wife are made for each other and envy others.
But, on the other hand, in our big team, she is the only one who marries like that beautiful girl.
In addition, those beautiful women and the man who finally married are not handsome, tall and powerful, but they are very ordinary, although they don't say they are crooked melons and cracked dates. There is a beautiful girl's husband who just closes his eyes and looks around in the street, not necessarily worse than him.
However, this is not the worst case. The worst and most disturbing thing is the most beautiful girl among several beautiful girls. If I remember the date of birth correctly, I am 38 years old, not married, and I am already a standard older woman.
I sometimes wonder why handsome guys and many companions in the world find good lovers; And beauty, but mostly flowers and cow dung, can't even get married?
I think there may be several reasons:
First, beautiful women are relatively precious and rare. Most men are afraid to get close. They always feel that they are not their own food and can't reach it. So it's not surprising that beautiful women don't have men or even boyfriends around them.
Second, most beautiful women are very picky, demanding and picky. As a result, it is often easy to have such a result. She despises men who are not so good, while handsome men despise her. So it is normal for many beautiful women not to have boyfriends.
Third, beautiful women like equivalence. Seeing a good one is not a big problem. However, as long as you find a small shortcoming, you may give up and wait for a better and more perfect man to appear. The existence of this kind of psychology makes it easy for beautiful women to inadvertently change from girls to older women, and it is difficult to have boyfriends around them.
This situation clearly tells men not to be afraid and not to hide when they see beautiful women. As long as you are bold, thick-skinned and bold in pursuit, it is possible to win back beautiful women easily. At the same time, it also clearly reminds beautiful women that they can get married as long as they get along, have mutual affinity and look at each other. Prince charming has entered the house next door. Don't wait for his head to turn white.
I think there are many beautiful women who are really beautiful in our daily life. They are beautiful, generous, good-looking and in perfect shape. Even if we are single, our neighbor has a beautiful woman, who is good-looking and elegant. Many people introduced her boyfriend, but she didn't want to. This beautiful woman is even older than my daughter. She is 38 years old and still single. Last year, I found a graduate student and they got along for a year. My boyfriend broke up because she didn't have a degree. I think the conditions for American women to find boyfriends are so high that most men can't accept them. So the single beauty is because she asks her boyfriend to be too perfect and everything goes well. Because I look good and beautiful, I have delayed myself. In fact, she is beautiful and can't ask her boyfriend to be too perfect. There are no perfect people now, as long as they are practical, serious and responsible. Don't delay your marriage because you ask too much of a man. This will make it very troublesome for you to find a boyfriend, and it will also make your marriage in trouble and make your parents anxious. So, if you are too beautiful, don't delay yourself by asking too much of your boyfriend.
Don't pretty girls have boyfriends? They are just picky, waiting for the price, but with the gift of grace, they don't hide it, as long as you are a rich man, give it a try.
Not many have no boyfriends, but many have boyfriends!
"Everyone has a lover and will not be found to be the master!" Although this sentence is a bit extreme, for most beautiful women, outsole is right. (Ugly girls are not so blessed. )
Look at the four ancient beauties, those who are ashamed of flowers, close the moon and sink fish and fall wild geese, and you will know a thing or two.
Shi's open lover was, but she finally married the King of Yue.
I don't know if he has a boyfriend in Wang Fu, but only Dong Zhuo and Lu Bu know the story of Diexin. He said that he later followed Han Jiangguan.
Wang Zhaojun has at least three men, but most of them are involuntary.
Yang Guifei was occupied by Tang Dynasty,
Otherwise, it is hard to say how many boyfriends there are.
Now the reform and opening up, beauty is more open. Have you found that there are no beautiful men behind any beautiful woman? But not including these:
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Personally, I think she should be a beautiful girl, and there are many boys chasing her! Especially love rat, do everything possible to catch up.
Seeing many men who don't look like themselves, it can be said that love rat just pays lip service to the fact that all the girls he is looking for are so beautiful.
Maybe some girls, with high IQ and strong personality, want to find someone for everything and worry about everything! Not ideal is not ideal! In this way, it's not that girls don't have boys, but that girls don't associate with any boys casually. In the end, it may also become a dink household!
Some girls have average values. When they are young, they work hard for a bright future and a successful career! It is not easy to find the ideal male god.
This kind of girl is not without boys! Girls with high conditions are not worthy of themselves and will not decide! There are indeed some boys who want to catch up, but they are still afraid that they are not worthy. Let it go.
Personal thoughts, boys and girls, boldly pursue what is right, without shame! Because it is a lifelong event, a good one will lead to a happy life.
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Why don't many beautiful women have boyfriends?
1. I don't care if I have a boyfriend;
Beauty, rare species, not many, born proud. When we are looking for hills and high above, most buddies can only look up at the stars. Which buddy does the beauty bow her head to and which buddy is not in a hurry to go to court? So it's not that a beautiful woman doesn't have a boyfriend, but that in her eyes, the world belongs to her, so why bother about a few boyfriends?
Fan Bingbing and Jerry Lee broke up and have no boyfriend for the time being. Do you know how many men in the world expect Fan Bingbing to be single? And each one is worth hundreds of millions of yuan. These are Fan Bingbing's prospective boyfriends. As long as Fan Bingbing names one, he will immediately become Fan Bingbing's boyfriend.
Beauty is not without a boyfriend, but disdains to have it. It's too easy to get it from a boyfriend.
2. Beautiful women are demanding and don't look for them at will, not because they don't have a boyfriend, but because they don't meet the one they want;
Xu Gehui didn't get married until she was 37. Isn't Xu Gehui beautiful? Beautiful? I had a boyfriend when I met Ding Jian. At that time, Ding Jian had not divorced. Xu Gehui is an unmarried girl. This Ding Jian is definitely not an ordinary person. He led AsiaInfo to become the first China technology company to be listed on NASDAQ. Key words, excellent.
Beauty is not without a boyfriend, it is not easy to have a boyfriend. Once a high-quality man appears, no matter who he used to be, he belongs to me now.
3. A beautiful woman with a beautiful child;
A beautiful woman will not waste her beauty easily, but will make rational use of her beauty and fully reflect its value.
Therefore, a beautiful woman must match a beautiful child.
Dan ariely, a famous economist at MIT, did an interesting experiment about pairing men and women. The experimenter found 100 young single men and women. The ratio is 50: 50. Then the experimenter made 100 cards, ranging from 1 to 100, and each card was written with a number.
Odd 50 cards are for boys, and even 50 cards are for girls, which are attached to the backs of these men and women respectively. In other words, others can see their numbers, but they can't. In the meantime, you can say anything, but you can't tell the other party's number.
The theme of this experiment is to let everyone find a heterosexual couple in a short time. As long as the sum of two people is greater, the bonus will be higher. The bonus amount is 10 times the sum of the figures. For example, if the 83rd boy matches the 74th girl, they can get a bonus of (83+74)* 10= 1570. But if the No.2 girl finds a match with the No.3 boy, then they can only get 50 dollars.
Anyone with a discerning eye can see at a glance that this experiment is very simple, that is, both men and women can find the opposite sex that suits them and strive for the greatest sum.
Because everyone doesn't know the figures behind, the first thing is to observe others, and soon the boys and girls with high scores will be discovered by everyone. They are 99 boys and 100 girls respectively.
The two men were surrounded by a large crowd, and everyone tried to convince them that they were worthy of themselves. In this way, you can get the highest possible bonus.
Soon these 99 boys and 100 girls will understand that their numbers are very high, but they just don't know the exact numbers.
At this time, something interesting happened. Because there are many suitors and they don't know how to make the best choice, they froze there. Because the experiment time is very short, they can't look at the numbers behind the other 98 people one by one.
As time ran out, everyone gave up both of them and settled for the second best. Originally, they were looking for someone with a score of 90 or above, and gradually found that 80 points was ok, or even 60 points could make do.
After the chaotic matching process, there are still a few people who have not succeeded in matching. These people have no choice but to find someone to finish the task quickly. Because you can't get a bonus for being single.
However, at this time, the girls numbered 100 have not made a choice. She thought there would be a bigger number. But in the end, she had to choose a boy with the largest number at that time, and that boy was number 73.
100 The girl was taken away by many suitors. Her strategy is "property hoarding" (because she doesn't know that 100 is the maximum value and she doesn't know that she is 100). She is still waiting for a man with a bigger number. When everyone was paired, she finally knew that she was starting to panic.
Beautiful girls are often like this 100 girl. They know that they are very popular, but they don't know how many points they have. If you can't quantify the process of finding a boyfriend, you don't know when to do it. There are far more than 50 people in life. Beautiful girls face more complicated environment and it is more difficult for them to make decisions. In the process of this screening, time passes by minute by minute. Especially some beautiful girls with small social circle and simple life, this process takes one or two years.
I know a young online celebrity, whose appearance is definitely fine, and his personality is normal except that he talks a lot. She complained to me about a problem. She thinks she is beautiful and famous. Why didn't anyone chase her?
When I got to know more about it, I found that the definition of "chasing" between men and women is very different. Men think that chasing women is dating, giving a small gift, picking it up from the car, and then finding a suitable atmosphere to talk about things. Girls feel that being chased should be a meticulous concern, sending bags and watches until they are at their wits' end, while men should keep doing these things for a year or so.
This cognitive difference will lead many boys to choose to test girls' attitudes like dragonfly water. If girls have a good attitude, they should invest more energy, money and time. ....................................................................................................................................................
An ordinary-looking girl doesn't have many men around her, and she also knows that she is not a big beauty, so someone chases her, and she will think in her heart, "I am not very good anyway, and I almost got it." So often when these girls are chased, they will give men a better response. So the man further intervened and the two came together. And big beautiful women all know that they are beautiful, so they all hope that men's investment in them can match their looks. Therefore, when these beautiful women are chased, they will not respond enthusiastically at first. Men feel cold at first sight, and then they flinch.
Because of the first reason mentioned above, they don't want to "give themselves as gifts to the wrong people" casually. These beautiful women have been rejecting some men who want to hook up but don't care.
In fact, some people are willing to make unremitting efforts to chase a beautiful woman. These men attacked again with the mentality of not hitting the south wall and not looking back. However, there is an embarrassing fact that their lack of looks, tastes, education and so on has long been rejected by these beautiful women. Even if these people try harder, the result will be minimal.
And those men with good conditions often don't want to die alone. After all, a good man may be surrounded by not only a beautiful girl, but also many female suitors. These "popularity" will make a man gradually forget how to pursue a person. Behavior patterns can't match, and fate naturally passes by. Many girls are alone.