I feel that the gym is a mess. How can I persuade my girlfriend not to go to the gym?
Your girlfriend has chosen a positive lifestyle, and you are "degenerate" at home. Be careful that their progress is not synchronized and it is easy to "fall behind".
There are many men in good shape in the gym. You should accompany her to make progress, not discourage her. In fact, it is difficult for us to dissuade others except ourselves, just as I advise you not to dissuade your girlfriend now.