Men love original partners or mistresses. Since ancient times, people have been praising love, but never marriage. They even use marriage as a metaphor for the grave. In modern feelings, cheating seems to be a very common phenomenon. The following men all love the original match or mistress.

Do men love the original or the mistress? 1 In this world, since there is love, there has been betrayal, including men's betrayal of women and women's betrayal of men.

As long as one party betrays the other, her (his) heart can't be completely on the other party, and some even begin to think about calculating their former lovers, trying to attribute all the money or real estate earned by two people to their own names. For example, after having a 23-year-old mistress, the once famous Nanjing former mistress hero lied to the former mistress that buying a school district house required a fake divorce, thus putting all their property for more than ten years in his own name. There are also some traitors with a little conscience. After having a mistress, they will consider the efforts of the children and the original match and leave some property for the original match, but this is not much.

Some people say that a man's mistress outside is only a temporary novelty, and he will come back when he is tired of playing. Men's love will eventually be the same as their own. Is that really the case? I do not think this is necessarily the case. There is a saying in the Bible that "men love their ex-wives and women value their ex-husbands", which has been understood by the ancients for thousands of years. Is it true that women in modern society are still betraying their husbands, and are still longing for him to play outside enough and return to his family, fall in love again himself? Even if such a man comes back for various reasons, can you still love him as before? With him, won't you remember that he once held another woman in his arms? Can you guarantee that the woman he met won't betray again?

Does the cheating man love the mistress outside or the original match at home

Zhou Chaohua (Xi Mihua), a Macau entertainment tycoon, got rich with the help of the principal Chen Huiling, but after he got rich, he raised a mistress, Liu Bili. Tang Huo legal Chen Huiling was pregnant, and so was her arrogant mistress. Before Tang Huo was legal, she gave birth to a daughter by caesarean section, and then gave birth to a son and a daughter to legally challenge Tang Huo with multiple births. Faced with shameless mistresses and betraying her husband, Chen Huiling angrily divorced and divided her property. I heard that my fortune would shrink by at least half. (Mihua) ran back to embrace the original work and sang "Only One Mrs. Zhou" and "I love you the most".

Is his favorite really the original match? Loving the original will not let the third Liu Bili give birth to three children in succession to challenge the dignity of the original. Love the hostess Liu Bili? Ai Sanxiao doesn't always pay attention to the hot female model Zhuang Duaner in public. In a word, Zhou Chaohua loves neither the original match nor his wife Liu Bili. She has given birth to three children for him for more than two years. He only loves himself and money. He insists on doing things in order to find sensory stimulation and physical enjoyment from young women.

Zhou Chaohua is an entertainment tycoon. He has plenty of money, and many beautiful women line up to post to him. However, after his divorce from Chen Huiling, he constantly sought help from acquaintances and created various opportunities to meet him. Did he find out that the woman he liked was the original one after his divorce? I can only say that your thinking is too simple. After the divorce, Zhou Zhuohua was distressed that more than half of her property was divided by Chen Huiling. After Chen left him, her business flourished step by step. She not only opened a chain of juice shops, but also started to exercise every week. Her figure is becoming more and more perfect, and her life is more temperament than before marriage.

Does the actor who played mistress in Nanjing really love mistress? I'm afraid he only loves the young body and face of Xiaosan! He can even abandon the original match that he has shared joys and sorrows with for more than ten years. He also designed to dry the lamp that she squeezed, so that a heartless man can expect him to love the third person who likes to relax and hates work. Once Xiao San's body changes, he will be as merciless as abandoning the original match. Because in his industry and circle, most bosses are proud of having young and beautiful lovers and think that "concubinage" is a symbol of status and ability. As Song Siming said: "In a circle, if there is him or me, I will be marginalized!" In order to maintain their own face, identity, status, there will definitely be a small four, a small five.

I once asked a rich friend, who had a lover outside, whether he loved more people or more people. He said that although he was a scum, he looked down on young girls as lovers of old men. He called these girls chickens, and asked for money without shame and dignity, and pleased men with their bodies. He said that he was only looking for a lover to seek sensory stimulation from young girls, to give his face gold and make himself look good in front of others. He said that the reason why he insists on going home every day is not to love his wife, but to stabilize his wife, so that she can take care of her elderly and sick parents with peace of mind, train her children wholeheartedly, take care of her family, and have a warm home to return to when she is old.

I can only say that a man who betrays his wife only loves his face and his money.

So don't believe stories about men loving each other or sharing weal and woe. It is impossible to wait for the man who betrayed him to wake up and come back to love himself.

As long as he meets the right soil, a man who betrays his first love will still sow seeds like weeds. Clever women cut the gordian knot immediately after meeting love rat, leave him after sharing their due property, and find their next happiness again. Of course, there are also soft-hearted women who don't want their children to be abused by their stepmother and choose to stay with love rat, but she will keep the money earned by love rat firmly in her own hands and let other women leave him voluntarily because they can't get the money. For example, Wu Xiubo's wife, if she doesn't get love, will stick to her money. Finally, Chen Yulin, who had been with Wu Xiubo for seven years, had no hope of becoming a full member, and she was depressed. It's really a pleasure to think of it.

Do men love the original or the mistress? Only when they are fighting to the death can they see who they love more?

Finally understand, in fact, I love him most, and the feelings in his mouth are not worthy.

Men, where the heart is, where the money is, people are there.

What you think of as love is nothing but love.

Physical happiness and emotional love can't resist the careful settlement in real life.

The protagonist Lao Li and his lover Ronaldinho are together 19. A daughter has just entered the university, and Lao Li has an original match. She has been taking care of Lao Li's old mother at home. 19 has never been divorced.

Lao Li hasn't been back to family of origin for 19 years. He only goes home once a year for the New Year, and his daily expenses are taken care of. His daughter in family of origin is also 30 years old.

In order to get married, Ronaldinho and Lao Li broke up many times in the first half of their lives, but Lao Li refused 19 years on the grounds that his mother threatened him with death.

Finally, Lao Li had to divorce his original wife because of business failure and arrears, so as to ensure that his daughter and wife could have some savings to live on. When Lao Li asked his lover to give up the school district he had bought to pay off his debts, his lover was dumbfounded. This house is the only life-saving straw, which will be used as a daughter's dowry in the future. She resolutely refused to sell! The lover took out his savings of more than one million for many years and chose to give up Lao Li and let him go back to his original home.

She shuddered in the fight to the death. A man gave his wife protection, but never thought about her and her daughter's other half.

In the end, she resented that if a man could show all his sincerity and give her a name earlier, she would willingly bear it, but now she feels that everything is waiting for 19 to have a full-fledged divorce, not because she loves her.

Men want to give up all bondage, pay off all debts and support each other for the rest of their lives. But I feel fantastic about my lover's behavior.

A man's original wife's daughter volunteered to ask her father to go home. At that moment, all the truth came out, all the love was shattered and worthless.

My lover feels that he has been with him for 19 years, giving birth to children for men and stealing chickens and dogs all day, but he always looks like an outsider when it comes to him. ...

The man feels that he has done his duty, but the lover still values money more. At this time, he thought of the original match when he got married because of responsibility when he had nothing. Although there is no love, he is waiting in the same place!

After reading it, I cried. I subconsciously deleted the WeChat of the person I love, because I was afraid that the second one would become a mistress. I was afraid that I would be confused again, so I put myself in, because I secretly love a married man, but it seems that the man in the article is still a responsible person. He also knows how to find a stable job for his lover and give her a rich life, but I didn't spend a penny and was still restricted.

I suddenly realized that the pain of being born in a family and the absence of my father have a great influence on women's mate selection.

I am a 25-year-old girl, young, studying hard and working hard. I must be looking for abuse for myself, to love a man who has no money, no looks, only a little work ability and a fancy mouth.

What can you do?

It can probably be used to write stories, and I can't help laughing at myself.

I was a little insomnia and anxious all night. The next day, I showed the article written by this writer to Xiao Wang, a 97-year-old boy in our company. Although he is unmarried, he can more intuitively and objectively reflect a man's understanding of marriage from different periods such as youth, middle age and old age, and give me different answers.

I asked him: Do you think that man stayed with Xiaosan 19 years, but finally left the money to his original wife and eldest daughter? The author says that men always love the original match without feelings in their mouths. For a mistress, it's just sexual attraction. Once the two bodies are no longer happy, love will disappear.

Xiao Wang said: that's just the author's point of view, not from the man's point of view. Sometimes it's easy for women to get to the bottom of it. It is not easy for a man to accompany a woman seriously for 19 years, but he lacks a name, but everyone knows about it inside and outside, including the original match. People have endured 19 years, taking care of a man's elderly mother, which is already so miserable, and it is even worse.

Men and women have different ideas. The more people with status, the more they care about their reputation, and the less they want to hurt people who are good to themselves. This is against ethics.

A good man won't hurt a woman, he will only delay her. Love rat will fail a woman, but it is because of the heartless scum that she completely wakes up and makes a beautiful life reversal.

Hearing this, my mood seemed to ease a little, so I joked that it was better to find a love rat and let him choose between them. In this way, he will have a bad reputation, but at least he can save one woman's love, and the other can only deserve it.

Sometimes it has to be said that most people can understand that bad people do bad things, but good people will be cursed to death if they do not do very good things.

Every time a woman drinks a little chicken soup, she begins to feel more sad and cynical. Therefore, in order to save yourself, sometimes chicken soup with urban feelings can only be properly tasted, which is the measure of all feelings.

As for whether men love mistresses or original partners,

Our point of view is that the hero Lao Li still loves Ronaldinho, but only respects and is responsible for the original match. Appreciate all her forbearance and tolerance. Ronaldinho, who has been waiting for 19 years, quit because both sides regard love too great and think that love can resist everything.

We can untie a love plane and have a look. The protagonist Lao Li is only 25 years old now, and his career is in the exploratory stage. He has no money and no position. He devoted all his time to his career and was forced to take care of him by his elderly parents. Lao Li, a traditional person who works hard outside, is still filial. In order to cope with the family's desire to carry on the family line, he married a woman of the same age.

There is not much affection between them, but the woman can tolerate and forbear without limit, let her man run amok, and she can also take care of his parents as a wife. Theoretically, if you give it to any man, even if he doesn't love it, he can't do it hard.

Suppose a man in his thirties and forties has a successful career and meets a woman who is sympathetic to him. Understand him and meet his sexual needs, and look pleasing to the eye. Usually men cheat and fall in love with this woman.

On the one hand, beautiful women can occasionally arouse men's young desires and give men different life experiences. For a man who takes marriage as a bargaining chip, he spends most of his time on his career after hasty marriage, while his wife at home takes care of the whole family. The gratitude in his heart cannot be expressed by emotion, and he can only meet his wife's needs with material and money.

This is compensation for guilt, but also a responsibility! The more reasonable the other person is, the more guilty the man is, and the more he wants to make up for it with money, because he can't accompany her.

He fell in love with his lover for one year, two years and three years. For a successful man who talks about intercession, it seems that it is not enough to just see whether the lover around him is out of love or money. It is better to delay than to struggle. Men will subconsciously feel that if they don't have status and status now, they will choose a better one with their lover's ability and beauty.

Then, normal people are wary of this kind of love that has never experienced wind and rain at all and has not tried their best from suffering. But once you have a secret love for more than five years, there is almost no possibility of divorce.

At this time, men can't even talk to their original partners about divorce, and their guilt for one person becomes powerlessness for two women.

The man who once forbeared to leave the original match can't open his mouth. The lover and the child grow up day by day and need a name to prove their relationship.

Men will be in a dilemma. The more time they spend with their lover, the more money they will give family of origin, so as to balance it!

Balance what?

Balance "love" and "affection". Love is given to mistress, so leave it to the original match for mutual affection.

A mistress, who waited for 19 years, finally didn't get any money and fame, and was chilling about a man's choice to go to her because of debt divorce.

This man is nearly sixty years old, and he is bankrupt. At this time, his cognition became that I could boldly pursue my true love from a naked man with nothing and no money. But I never expected that the ending would make him even more chilling. In the end, he was willing to take him in, or the original match that was unremarkable and wronged for a lifetime.

The price of true love is not affordable for everyone. Sometimes it's not that people fail the people they really care about, but that reality always fails the people they care about.

According to the original match, I worked hard all my life and dedicated myself to my family. From his poverty to his success, I must not let a third party take advantage. If you can't get love and companionship, keep the money. Don't be unhappy all your life, can't find a white-headed man, and don't be miserable. Finally, no one will die with you.

My lover thinks that I have dedicated my youth and best years to a married man, from a cheerful little woman to a sentimental crazy woman. Hiding for decades, being laughed at, not aboveboard. Finally, you use the most precious house you left me to pay off your debts. Why not use the original one? My own daughter is still young and has no financial ability. Your eldest daughter is married!

Men believe that when they are young, they should take care of their parents, no matter how shameless they are, they should follow their parents' wishes. There are three kinds of unfilial, none of which is the biggest. In the lifetime of parents, we must be filial and let the old man die without regret.

Men think twice, leaving a sum of money to make up for years of debt to the elderly, which is equivalent to the complete end of their obligations and responsibilities. So you can grow old with your lover without scruple!

Believe in true love, there is only one possibility, that is, weather, geography, people and background meet at the right time.

Both of them just happen to be very poor, and their parents just support them. They just met a person whose soul and body just met when they knew, wanted and loved well. Otherwise, it is difficult for people to be sure that it is true love.

People attach great importance to love and think that love can die for each other, which is wrong. But the upgrade of love is sublimated by matter.

If the original match was true love, it would have been fulfilled early.

If a lover really loves, he won't care about money from the beginning. It is the man's concern again and again that makes the lover love. Without money, this man who is twenty years older can't win the favor of his lover!

Money is the only guarantee when the foundation of love is slightly thin and not optimistic!

If a man can't give you a guarantee within two years, please make plans for a lifetime of hidden marriage. This feeling, if you can't do it at first, will be broken in time, so that everyone can live a thorough understanding!

Otherwise, don't be sentimental about married men. If you can't afford it, you can't afford it!

After all, a woman's constant love is a poet's hymn. Women want both money and love. If love is missing, money can be firmly grasped. Once the money is gone, love is empty talk.

But we know, and often say, that companionship is true love.

Why did Ronaldinho say no?

This is a woman, ruthless, and deeply in love. After waiting for more than 20 years, I am older than myself for more than 20 years. I really have no time to start over and grow old together. I traded the rest of my life for a salty life, not a happy life.

I spent the first half of my life in shame, and the second half in taking off your coat, telling each other what I have to say and bringing your children and grandchildren together.

That man will go to bed in a year or two with his legs spread out. Women are still young, and they are starting to be cattle and horses again.

What woman can do that?

Either you were heartless and hated it completely, and don't regret your life while waiting!

Nobody remembers who, and nobody looks at who!

I hope love doesn't come too early or too late, too early to understand love and too late to afford it! I hope everyone knows how to cherish the people in front of them, and no one should bear anyone's debts, and no one should hate anyone at the end of their lives.

It is easy to get a love, but it is very painful to endure a secret love or a marriage with only responsibility.

Men love the original or the third, the performance of men's love! He likes your five signs very much.

1. When he sees you, his eyes will glow.

Eyes can tell whether a boy likes you or not. Do you know when you see something you like, your eyes will glow? If he has such a reaction as soon as he sees you, it is likely that he has fallen in love with you and even gone crazy about it.

He likes being with you.

It's not necessarily an arranged date, it may just be that he takes time to meet after work, or it may just be that he does nothing but accompany you. In a word, he wants to be with you. If a boy is just your friend, he doesn't need to spend time with you, and he doesn't even need to date you in his holiday leisure time. He is bored with you just because what he wants to do most is to be with you, which also clearly expresses that you are "very important" to him!

I like to have physical contact with you.

According to many men's surveys, if they like someone, they can't restrain their inner desire to touch each other, because they want to feel each other through physical contact, which is not entirely sexual. When there is a boy around you who likes to be close to you or have physical contact with you, if you feel the same way about him, please don't give him any response!

4. Always care too much about you.

We care about our friends and family, but if a boy shows "excessive" concern for you, it means that he really likes you. For example, he often asks, "Have you had lunch?" "I'll give you his coat when it's cold." "If you don't feel well, I'll take you to the doctor, even if it's just a minor illness." A boy said, "If we have feelings for a woman, we will have an intuition and want to take good care of our woman."

He will take the initiative to serve you.

When you get along with him, he will take the initiative to do something for you, not only the gentleman opens the door and pulls the chair, you two will send you home in different directions, and the company will also send red bean soup in far places, no matter how far away, the mission will be achieved!

In the face of love, it is normal for girls to worry about finding the wrong person, but since they have been able to determine each other's mind, why not give each other a chance to try? Maybe the other person is the only thrill.

If you have a conflict with your partner and it is irreparable, don't lose heart. You might as well add an assistant to your emotional teacher and ask her to help you arrange a counselor who is good at solving emotional problems. First analyze the emotional problems and give you professional advice. /Heart number: