First, I can only guess because I don't know the specific reason why you broke up. 1, your height, appearance, dress, family, connotation and temperament can't meet each other's requirements. These problems, which can be known at the beginning of understanding, have been acquiesced by couples when they accept them, so this is not the main reason for breaking up, and you don't need to remember these; 2. I like to be angry when I am together, and I often scare him by breaking up; 3, your personalities are incompatible, your love is dull and passionate, and you usually don't have much money to maintain a relationship. Your ex-girlfriend can't stand it; Because of the accumulation of the first three points, he has another person he likes, so she broke up. Generally speaking, most people who are broken up are in these situations.

Secondly, in view of the reason for breaking up at 4 o'clock mentioned above, if you still want to get back together with him, be specific: 1, please leave with dignity and cut off all active contact methods, including WeChat QQ chat, SMS, phone call and real meeting (if you are a colleague, please look up and imagine that she is only a 3-year-old child). You should use it from now on. Please remain confident and let her know that you can live a more wonderful life without her. The specific methods are: not at home after work, not at home (meditate three times every time after work), inviting friends to go shopping (in fact, one person can do it), dressing up, remembering to take pictures and taking more selfies; Weibo, a circle of friends, updates it at least once a day (not more than three times), and puts photos of things you think are fun. 3. Choose a place as high as possible, such as visiting various brand stores, supermarkets, Internet cafes and bookstores every week (you don't have to buy them), going out for dinner once a week (street snack shops are also acceptable), going to coffee shops once a week, watching movies every half month, going to KTV once a month, going to bars and discos once a month, and so on. You can also participate in various activities in the same city, such as public welfare activities, charity sales, open-air concerts, and various dating activities (such activities can be searched online, and most of them are free). Remember, just buy a good suit, the price is around 1000, don't buy a bad one. 4. If you are kind and talented, please show yourself, such as drawing, playing the piano, playing the guitar, singing, dancing, reading and fitness. If you don't, it doesn't matter. Go to the library to get a membership card, usually 100 yuan, a fitness card (don't be fooled, you must get a monthly card or a season card, and the price is controlled within 500 yuan), and sign up for a dance class for several hundred yuan. In these three months, you must have your own confident life and your own circle of friends. Although you may not meet real friends in these three months, you can live a different life from most people, which shows that your inner charm is improving. Don't care about your appearance. You can do the above, you must be the most attractive person!

Third, you sent friends and Weibo for three months in a row. At this time, you can take the initiative to resume interaction with her. You are a high-value person at this time. Let her cherish your initiative, don't get too excited, just act like a friend, or take her to dinner and shopping. Remember: if she comes to you first in these three months, it goes without saying. If he confesses to you, you can't say yes at once. You have to say: ok, I'll think about it. In short, you should be careful and patient, step by step, and protect your feelings with each other, so as to establish a more stable secondary attraction. Also, remember to guide her to pay for you. For example, after you pay for the meal, she pays for shopping and buying a bottle of water, and she pays for watching movies. Every time she goes out, you should make her pay almost as much money as you, even if you are richer than her. That's what people do. The higher the price, the less likely she is to break up and give up easily.