Some people choose to live for themselves, while Gu Jia chooses to live for this family. She said that from the moment her son Yanzi was born, Gu Jia was gone, but Yanzi's mother survived.
In order to let the children receive the best education, she can put down her figure and help Mrs. Wang without restraint; I will deliberately learn astronomical knowledge to please Mrs. Wang and debug the telescope for her; Will make delicious cakes for children according to the custom of kindergarten admission.
Even after learning that her son had been bullied and cried in her room for a long time, Gu Jia gave up her dignity for the sake of her children and fought with each other, showing her strong side as a mother.
Even so, she didn't turn a deaf ear to what happened outside the window and devoted herself to the child. She has ideals and goals. Although she is not a person who often stays in the workplace, she has more skills than ordinary people in the workplace. When the company was in trouble, she stood up decisively to help her husband solve the problem.
At the same time, she also has a very keen insight, and can judge the agitation of female employees by only one orange. She even remembers employees' birthdays, sends thoughtful gifts, and asks about the movements of restless female employees by the way.
Gu Jia always pays attention to and makes full use of these subtle details to achieve his goals, and his emotional intelligence is super high.
It can be seen that she is not the "full-time wife" in our stereotype. She is not attached to anyone, is an independent individual, and can balance the discretion with her husband Xu Huanshan.
Because Gu Jia appreciated Xu Huanshan's talent and encouraged him to leave the team and start his own company. At the same time, I didn't forget to put pressure on him to push him forward step by step, which led to today's situation, including the big house.
When the company is not running smoothly, she can always stand firmly behind her husband, support him and affirm him. At home, the child says "Mom has worked hard", and she will take care of her husband's feelings and tell the child "Dad has worked hard".
The actual decision-making power of the company lies in Xu Huanshan, and Gu Jia plays the role of "strategist", often making suggestions behind the scenes to stabilize the morale of the army. Xu Huanshan also made it clear that she couldn't do it without her.
Even for the company, she didn't lose her principles. Because the company's big customer, Boss Wan, pressed the cost, Xu Huanshan was very dissatisfied and fell out with Boss Wan. When he came forward to solve the problem, he was harassed by his boss Wan. Gu Jia, who had intended to keep this big client, walked away and never looked back. It can be seen that the principle she insists on is not to sacrifice her bottom line for the company.
Unlike ordinary housewives who put everything into marriage and family and become passive parties willing to endure all the pain, Gu Jia and her husband are equal. They appreciate each other and cooperate tacitly.
Gu Jia insists on running every day to keep healthy. She is very artistic, knows famous paintings, speaks fluent English, and even knows a little about cold knowledge such as Feng Shui. It can be seen that Gu Jia has been constantly learning to improve himself. Such people, no matter what position, can shine brilliantly.
I think at this moment, you must have your own answer to the question whether a stay-at-home wife is an independent woman.
Independent women not only refer to economic independence, but also realize their own values. Some of women's values are realized in the workplace, and some are realized in the family. No matter what role you play, as long as you become the "needed" person, you will succeed.
The story of "30+ Women" continues, and what will happen in Gu Jia in the future is unknown. But what is certain is that Gu Jia's charm deserves to be learned by every woman and respected by men.
I hope all women, whether at home or in the workplace, can show their abilities and become great people.