This happens not only at lively parties, but also in people's daily communication. Many people often hide their unhappiness and greet others with a smile. But after that, I often feel angry, depressed, contradictory and even self-divided. Two women who often exercise in the same gym, one morning they saw no one in the private hall, so they trained in the private hall for a while, because other members of the private hall in the gym where they used to exercise were free to train without a personal tutor. After less than half an hour of exercise, the manager of the gym came to tell them that the private parish could not come in for training even if it was empty.
One of the women was very angry. She retorted that other gyms don't have such regulations, and the regulations themselves are ridiculous and unreasonable. The other woman stopped looking. This reminds her of another similar thing. When having dinner with colleagues, a colleague who had just finished surgery was very upset because the supervisor asked him to work overtime. If she has overtime pay, she is willing to stay and work overtime, but if she is not tired after a day's work, she is willing to go back to rest because she is still recovering. But two other colleagues told her not to ask the supervisor, even if she did, there would be no result and no overtime pay.
She believes that the question is not whether there is any result, but whether they have fought for it and tried to change it. For her, the real question, whether it is about the private teaching place in the gym or whether there is overtime pay, is a member, an employee and an individual. When she has emotions and problems, can she safely express her emotions and say her problems first? Everyone has the right to ask questions and questions. Even if it turns out that private parish can't be provided for those members who don't buy private classes or work overtime without overtime pay, they should have the space and right to express themselves.
And if everyone can actively strive for and express this kind of similar problem, then one day, maybe this result will change. The process of this change does not depend on one person, just as the process of religious freedom and political freedom is not changed by one person. It requires everyone to speak out bravely when finding problems, even if it is only emotions, and any individual has the right to express emotions. And how can we be free if we can't even express our feelings, even if we don't have them? How can a person be called a living person?
Many people think that being polite, smiling at others all the time and not showing too strong a position on something is a mature and rational person, but in fact this is just a false state of self-repression, in order to leave a good impression on others and avoid any possible risks and unsafe behaviors against their wishes. It is very bad that there is no neutral way to think and criticize.
If everyone is like this, the differences between people will disappear completely, and the personality, mood and emotion that we say can promote creativity will no longer flow freely. So what we can see is today. Everyone is harmless, gentle and friendly. Everyone can chat with others and live in harmony, but people can't really get close to and understand each other. They can only pretend to be mature and independent with masks, so-called morality, etiquette and restraint. And such people don't even have their own minimum thinking. Even if this kind of thinking is wrong, it is at least an individual's thinking activity, which is original.